Kanani79

@Kanani79 (22)

United States • Age 45

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Multiple Girls Like Me But I Am Commited to One

TrayBlaylock @TrayBlaylock (630) • United States 3 Jun 09

Alright so I have a problem. My ex girlfriend has been coming around more often and I am not going to lie, she is cheating on her boyfriend with me. I want to be with her but I don't know what she wants. On the side of that, I met...

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Kanani79 Personally, I think you need to work on yourself. You have serious issues if you can't make up your mind and you're playing 3 girls at once. I think that's shady and dirty and frankly I hope all 3 girls find out, ditch you and you realize what you're doing and...

3 Jun 09

How in the heck do we ......................

Rachel D Wentz @camomom (7535) • United States 3 Jun 09

Our 11 month old is still sleeping in her swing. Obviously, she shouldn't still be sleeping in it because, for one, she's too old. For two, she's too big. She's definitely too heavy for it because it won't even swing while she's...

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Kanani79 Now I know this is going to break your heart but you're going to have to force yourself to lie her flat. She will cry for awhile and she'll be mad but eventually she'll learn that her crib is where she's meant to sleep. I work in a daycare with the infants....

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If only loosing weight could reduce my diabetes

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 3 Jun 09

I went to the doctor the other day, and he said my sugar was still up. Yet I have also lost 6 lb. Now my father had diabetes, type 2 *(the bad bad horrible kind that you get as a punishment for being fat according to what I heard...

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Kanani79 I think over time you will eventually reduce the high sugar and the diabetes will fade if not go away completely. I'm no doctor but I believe it takes a lot more then just losing 6 lbs to get rid of diabetes completely. I guess it all depends on how much you...

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do you find it easy to lose weight?

GemmaR @GemmaR (8517) 27 May 09

personally, i dont find it that easy to lose weight at all. i find that i have a constant battle with myself not to open a packet of crisps.. ..and i hate exercise as well, so thats against me right from the start. i can lose...

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Kanani79 It's not hard to lose weight it just takes effort. It takes time to put it on and more time to take it off. Nothing is ever easy to do and you just have to work at it hard and want it just as much to actually make it. Personally speaking there...i've been...

30 May 09

Mike Tysons 4 year old daughter died today

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 26 May 09

http://shrinkify.com/r7m there was some kind of accident where she got tangled in a cord by a treadmill or something.. so tragic! no matter what i think of tyson no one should lose a child.. am i the only one that had no...

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Kanani79 I read about this yesterday and it's so sad to hear that his child died at such a young age. No parent should have to bury their child. I don't think it could have been prevented. To be honest, kids can't be watched 24/7 no matter how hard you try. You'd have...

27 May 09

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If your husband/wife thinks you're too fat, should you leave them?

drsenergy @drsenergy (159) • United States 26 May 09

Personally I could not live under pressure of a spouse who constantly degrades my body image. Shouldn't love be based on more than what someone looks like? or should you bite the bullet and just try to shape up to please the...

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Kanani79 I can understand your spouse being concerned about your weight if you were unhealthy and in risk of posssibly dying. I however don't think he should degrade you by calling you names. That isn't love, that's just being mean. If he has an issue with your weight...

27 May 09

Do you think its wrong to pierce your daughters ear when they are babies?

peachmom2369 @peachmom2369 (131) • United States 26 May 09

i think it better for them when there younger because they forget about it alot quicker. i got my daughters ears pierced last night and now my sister is telling my that im a horrible parent for torturing her by getting her ears...

baby

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Kanani79 I would actually pierce my child's ears as an infant. They also have this new type of piercing thing for babies where you put the earrings on and nightly you twist the back and after a week it pops through pain free. If the child doesn't want the ear holes...

27 May 09

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Would you ever hit a.... CHILD???

bodhisatya @bodhisatya (2384) • India 25 May 09

Here is this incident which urges me to start this discussion. There is this cute little three year old girl who is our neighbor. She goes to a pre-school in our locality. The teacher there is reputed to be a brash woman. She is...

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Kanani79 I believe a child should be punished but to beat a child or even hit a child beyond a slap on the wrist is child abuse in my eyes. Not only that the teacher at this school, by law is not allowed to touch the child. She should be turned into authorities and the...

26 May 09

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What do I do?

barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1588) • United States 24 May 09

I am a single mother of a daughter -9 and a 10 month baby. There dad has never really been kind to me. He has never showed any compassion towards me. Our Baby boy was diagnosed last november with progressive disseminated...

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Kanani79 Go after his *ss for child support. He is his biological father and he should be paying something for that child. If he doesn't want to see him, fine. As sad and hard as it may be you need to focus on your daughter and her health. He doesn't want to be a part...

24 May 09

My weight problem

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 23 May 09

I have been over weight all my life. I have been morbid obese over ten years. I put on 5 lbs since the start of this year and my body is constantly changing! I am gaining inches all the time! I have gotten wider and wider! My...

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Kanani79 I understand where you are coming from. Think of it this way hun, you didn't put the weight on magically so there is no surgery or pill that will 100% take it away over night. It will take time to come off and effort. You have to really really want something...

24 May 09

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What do you feel when you see beggars on the street?

faisai @faisai (1138) • Hong Kong 24 May 09

Are there many beggars around your living area or places that you will go? What do you feel when you see them? Do you feel sorry or pity for them? Would you give them some money (like the coins remaining in your pocket?) Have you...

beggars

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Kanani79 There are beggars in more city areas where I'm from. My heart actually goes out to them because it's not like they chose to be where they are. There are so many circumstances that lead up to where they are now. They could have been laid off, then they ran out...

24 May 09

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When you meet someone on the net - are you honest enough about yourself?

guia10 @guia10 (139) • Philippines 22 May 09

Every time you meet someone on the net and you start chatting, do you openly say things about yourself or do you still hold back on a few things? Are you honest enough to give them even your last name? How about the one you're...

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meeting people online

people

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Kanani79 Honesty is extremely important to me because if you start a friendship and/or relationship based on lies then the whole relationship is basically a lie. On the internet it's all too easy to either hold back some or over indulge especially if you know you'll...

23 May 09

When you feel strongly about something can you be swayed,

meandmy3 @meandmy3 (2227) • United States 23 May 09

I have some very strong convictions when it comes to smoking, abortions, religion, children, etc, things that I believe in and feel very strongly about. I do not believe that there is much that can change my mind when it comes to...

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Kanani79 I don't know if my views on things such as abortion, religion, smoking etc. could be changed. I'm the type of person that will happily listen to what others say. I will take their views into consideration and if those views can somehow sway what I believe in...

23 May 09

Is your mobile phone a part of your life????

John4Christ @John4Christ (1597) • India 23 May 09

There were days when people with mobile phones were considered someone great......it was back when the mobile phone were just introduced and cost a bomb......and not all could afford it......and even if they could, it was not...

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Kanani79 I am an 80's child. I remember cassette players and their cute little tape casettes. I remember days when you weren't sitting on your computer or watching T.V. I remember when the days were spent outside playing baseball, swimming or any number of things. It's...

23 May 09

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Can you forget your first love?

arkasen @arkasen (748) • India 23 May 09

Many people fall in love more than once. I know many of them. They always say that they can not forget their first love. They say that first love is something special. When you fall in love for the first time the hole world seems...

first love

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special love

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Kanani79 I still remember my first true love. He turned me on to many new things such as poetry and photography and the reality that true love does exist. I still keep in contact with him randomly through myspace. He's married with two step children and I often wonder...

23 May 09

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