Phoenix9

@Phoenix9 (59)

Canada • Age 52

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Love of all living beings is essential to happiness

Phoenix9's Responses

The "Race Card"

mkirby624 @mkirby624 (1598) • United States 24 Aug 07

Why is it that people have to pull out the "race card" so often? I was recently reading a discussion on Nicole Richie's "time" in jail and someone said that if it was a black or hispanic, that they would have had to serve more...

scholarships

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Phoenix9 You answered your own question. If oppression still occurs, then the race card is played in the daily lives of minorities. If you go to any message board. If a person is being charged happens to be a minoirity. WE have so many ignorant people, saying blacks...

24 Aug 07

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Wicca

starmashgate40sg177 @starmashgate40sg177 (252) • United States 24 Aug 07

Wicca. Not many people really understand Wicca. And because of this, there is a lot of discrimination against Wiccans and Pagans alike. I'm a follower of Wicca and I've noticed that there are a lot more people willing to admit...

paganism

religion

wicca

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Phoenix9 The thought and art of magic has transpired in every religion over the centuries. A good example the biblical King Soleman. The Magi who saw the star of Christ. In the bible there are many examples of the art of magic. I believe in live and let live. If...

24 Aug 07

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What's the most hurtful thing your spouse could do to you?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 23 Aug 07

As for me, the most hurtful thing that my spouse could do to me, would be to lie. And, I know you might think that cheating would be more painful. But, I see infidelity and cheating under the same heading as lies. You have to lie...

cheating husband

investigate your spouse

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Phoenix9 I am in agreement with everyone else. Cheat or lie to me.

24 Aug 07

babies being hurt by mothers

fianne @fianne (1057) • United States 24 Aug 07

i have a friend, she's always impatient with her son. the baby is a year old. she always spank her baby when she sees him thub sucking. i told her just let the child be and don't hurt him, just talk to him in a nice way. she got...

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Phoenix9 You are right to intrude and speak to her about it. She also needs to get help before her spankings become something more drastic. A baby sucking their thumb is not an issue. This is how they pacify themselves. I have three children all three of them sucked...

24 Aug 07

How to make a long distance relationship work?

myliezl0903 @myliezl0903 (2726) • Philippines 22 Aug 07

everyone who's been there and done that agree that long distance relationship can be trying. your loved one is far away . you don't know what they're doing or who they're meeting. you also don't know if they are thinking of you,...

love

relationship

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Phoenix9 I think that it extends to committment. For some the relationship and bonds grow stronger, for others the relationship burns out. Trust is the biggest issue in any relationship. If you can trust your partner, then it works. If you have doubts then the...

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Will you take care of your parents when already old?

carolline_c @carolline_c (143) • Brazil 23 Aug 07

... or will you put them in nursing homes? Mine is NO to nursing homes. My parents looked after me when I was a child, they served me, they kept me very well and I love them so much, that I can't see myself leaving them in...

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Phoenix9 Hi Caroline, I am already doing that. My parents moved in with me 8 years ago. My mother said to me, please don't ever put me in a nursing home. My father would not do well in a nursing home. My parents are still spunky and get around. If and when...

23 Aug 07

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In Love.,Does Age Really Matters?

myliezl0903 @myliezl0903 (2726) • Philippines 22 Aug 07

there are a lot of controversies going on among the age gap relationships. Many of the experts have pointed out a stunning fact that in relationship were the wife is elder than the husband, the things are calmer and there are...

love

relationship

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Phoenix9 If the two people are commited to the realtionship and love each other, then age is not a factor. In my own family, my aunt's second marriage was a 10 year gap. Her second husband was a good man and they loved each other. He was with her until his...

23 Aug 07

My daughter wants to drop out of school!

Cammeel1 @Cammeel1 (372) • United States 23 Aug 07

My 16 year old has never enjoyed school or done very well. We had her tested for ADD but the doctor said it was a very mild case. Even so, we tried meds to see if that would help her to concentrate and improve her studies. It did...

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Phoenix9 There may be a deeper issue on why she does not want to attend school. Is she having trouble with other students, are they bullying her, ridiculing her, making fun of her. What about her teachers, not all teachers are a positive influence in children's...

23 Aug 07

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Pregnant woman needs a check!

sahm35 @sahm35 (890) • United States 23 Aug 07

I am 7 1/2 months pregnant and I need a check coming in to assist my hubby with some extras around the house. I am tired of the surveys that dont pay out. I want a job that I can do from home. P.S. Do other pregnant women...

financial assistance

pregnancy worries

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Phoenix9 This is a great site. They send you a weekly work at home job listing, you can be a virtual work at home CSR. This site caters to both the US and Canada. I have just started this a week ago. I have responses and may have a job in the next week. It is worth a...

23 Aug 07

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My sister takes advantage of my mom!

sunshine4 @sunshine4 (8703) • United States 23 Aug 07

I can't stand the way my sister is taking advantage of my mom. My sister is 44 and married. She has one daughter who is 4. My mom is 76 and still working. Everyday my mom has off from work, my sister calls her and asks her to meet...

mom

sister

sister taking advantage

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Phoenix9 Honestly, there is not much you can do about it. Your mom is 76 and still works. ( What a spunky lady). I agree it sounds like your sister is taking advantage of your mom, but at the same time your mom is willing to do it and help them. As long as your mom...

23 Aug 07

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How Will Habs Do This Season?

sleblanc @sleblanc (114) • Canada 18 Jun 07

How do you think the Habs will fare this season? I'm hoping at least a playoff birth, they got robbed of one last season in my mind! I wouldn't be surprised to see Halak back in Hamilton and Price called up.. with Abby being...

montreal canadiens

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Phoenix9 I think that Gainey is in the proceess of building another Montreal Dynasty. You can tell with how he is proceeding and with who he has on staff. I would love to see Briere with us. I am disappointed that Souray flew the coop. However, a man's family is...

22 Aug 07

Cry Baby on BB8

simpson5 @simpson5 (43) • United States 22 Aug 07

Is it just me or is anyone else out there sick and tired of Amber's constant crying? I am very emotinal myself, but this goes above and beyond being emotional. it seems like all she does is cry. she cries about everything, winning...

bb8

crybaby

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Phoenix9 Amber cries if you look at her the right or wrong way. She is a basketcase.

22 Aug 07