StefaniClayton

@StefaniClayton (84)

United States • Age 49

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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When To be understanding and when to be hot tempered. Time to yell..............

mickeydurkin @mickeydurkin (137) • United States 2 Jun 10

When is it time to just plain yell and be stern with a person? You know we go through life dealing with different people and different attitudes. The other day I was explaining a procedure to my friend. Now my friend does not...

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StefaniClayton I think you were right on the money with that one! After telling him what he wanted to know that many time, yeah, you had a right to yell. I am surrounded by people like this and it drives me crazy! So, I'm not so nice when they continue to ask, and not...

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What is your favorite character in Criminal Minds?

marguicha @marguicha (222994) • Chile 2 Jun 10

I like all the characters in Criminal Minds and wouldn´t take away any of them. But I must confess that I have a tender spot for Reid. He is so naive in spite of being so brilliant! But that is not all. One would have thought that...

characters

criminal minds

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StefaniClayton I just love Reid, of course Penelope (I'm not sure that is spelled correctly) is the kind of quarky person I just love to have around.

2 Jun 10

do you believe in life after death?

LIENROSE @LIENROSE (910) • Philippines 1 Jun 10

is there a true reincarnation or even life after death?

death

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StefaniClayton You know, I never did before but I took an online test that said I was a Princess in my past life, and with the luck I have in this life, I must have been rotten at it! I tell you...

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My pc is very slow.How to speed up pc?

markiy071384 @markiy071384 (241) • Philippines 1 Jun 10

My computer is very slow now. Even in logging in. I always surf the net then I notice that each week my computer performance suddenly became slow.What will I do?

slow pc

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StefaniClayton Empty your temporary files and delete your cookies. It should speed up your pc quite a bit.

1 Jun 10

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Women and Men: Men worry less, women care more?

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 6 May 10

There are many things that are gender related : men see things differently then women and vice versa. The fact that women must go through some monthly change means we are more apt to be emotional and more sensitive then...

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StefaniClayton I'm not so sure I agree with you that women were born to nuture, and men weren't. I think it comes down to society and how our childhood affects our thought process. If you think about it, girls are given dolls and kitchen utensiles to play with, while...

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being a mother

jessicaryan18 @jessicaryan18 (212) • Philippines 1 Jun 10

what is the meaning of the word MOTHER to you? for me it means EVERYTHING. why so? Being a mother is a sacrifice just like what my mother did. She sacrifice herself staying in a marriage for 30 years for the sake of her children...

mothers

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StefaniClayton Kids are supposed to think their mothers are everything. That is the reason she stayed for you kids. Sometimes it's easier to stay and be unhappy, then it is to take a chance that we will lose everything in search of our own happiness.

1 Jun 10

Graduation gifts for highschoolers

lisado @lisado (1227) • United States 31 May 10

Any ideas? There is one boy and one girl we need to buy for. We don't know either real well so we aren't sure exactly what they are in to. She is a cheerleader going to college to become a judge (of course she has to be an...

gift

graduation

high school

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StefaniClayton I have one that is graduating this year, and I can tell you, kids want money! It might seem lame and impersonal to you, but they couldn't think of a better thing to get. Especially since summer is just around the corner.

1 Jun 10

Help me!!

Savedeath @Savedeath (255) • China 1 Jun 10

Please help to understand the following sentence,especially for the words "but nevertheless" That experiences subsequent behavior is evidence of obvious but nevertheless remarkbal activity called remembering.

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StefaniClayton Proof of the behavior is obvious, not that it matters, it's an amazing thing called memory. See if this doesn't make more sense to you. If not give me a little more info and I'll figure it out.

1 Jun 10

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CAN i password protect my folder on windows?

liftyouup @liftyouup (86) • Philippines 1 Jun 10

hello, nylotters,is it possible to have a password protected folder on windows.. for added security I wanna know.. Please do response.. thank you..

password

windows

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StefaniClayton Well, you can make your folder private by right clicking with your mnouse. The drop down menu will have an option for security, click on that. A box will pop up that says make this folder private. Check the box and only you will have access to that file. On my...

1 Jun 10

Arizona immigration law

sonofmercury @sonofmercury (407) • United States 31 May 10

What do you thing about the new Arizona immigration law? I for one am glad that the government of Arizona had the courage to finally do something about the plague of illegal immigrants that is infection our country

immagration

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StefaniClayton I agree. I recently did a project for a class I was taking about the illegal problem, and I have to say, Obama wasn't thinking clearly when he said "Americans have nothing to fear from todays immigrants". He's right, most immigrants, those who come here...

31 May 10

How can I stop hand cramps?

oneidmnster @oneidmnster (1384) • United States 31 May 10

I work in retail and had to rekey locks for 2 hours straight.My hands started cramping when I was doing it and they haven't stopped.Does anyone know of a way to stop them?

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StefaniClayton More than likely you have inflamation (or swelling) take some asprin and try not to use your hands for a while. They should be better by morning.

31 May 10

Would you go by this proverb?

zenki08 @zenki08 (700) • Philippines 31 May 10

I was reading a passage from the Holy Bible "Whoever goes slandering reveals secrets but he who is trust worthy in spirit keeps a thing covered" Proverbs 11:13. Would the above proverb be applicable or would you follow it...

proverbs

secrets

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StefaniClayton Whatever it is, can you prove it? If you cannot prove it, then it isn't for you to tell. Despite the fact that people can get hurt, if you do not have proof to back up your story then the person most likely to be hurt by it, is you. So yes, I would go by that...

31 May 10

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Suicide! Who are at risk?

armie1013 @armie1013 (23) • Philippines 31 May 10

There are a lot of factors to be considered why a person attempted suicide, according to a study 50%, suffers from chronic depression, it occurs on any age, conditions in life and race. But what help can we get to those who are...

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StefaniClayton I have to say, I don't think the people who are at the most risk for suicide are truely the people we should worry the most for. When we think about suicide the first thing that comes to mind is the person who is most vocal about how difficult their life is,...

31 May 10

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pasta recipes !!

mzbaybe @mzbaybe (91) • Canada 31 May 10

I am a HUGE pasta fan. im always trying out different recipes and sauces. i was wondering if you could share your favorite recipes? or recipes i could try. i have 1 famous dish, honey garlic chicken spaghetti. its AHMAHZING. pm...

chicken

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StefaniClayton Sure! Being an Italian-American, I also LOVE pasta. One favoriet that came from my Grandmother is actually a pasta bake. You will need; Spicy Italian Sausage (about a pound) 1 Can of Tomates 1 can Tomatoe paste 1 box BowTie Noodles 16 Ounces...

31 May 10

Looks vs. Personality

eddyspaghetti @eddyspaghetti (1225) • United States 30 May 10

How important is looks to you? How important is personality to you? When it comes down to it what do you think is more important looks or personality? The initial attraction to another person usually stems from their looks. It's...

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looks

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StefaniClayton I think the more you enjoy the personality of another person, the better looking they become to you. Its like the old saying, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" i think that has a lot of truth to it. People may be attracted to looks at first but its the...

30 May 10

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Whoah!? Is this how romance is going to be now?

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 29 May 10

I was looking into several topics here in mylot when I came across a discussion which lead me to look for stuff about kids, which lead me to being curious to the 'romance' category. And to my shock, the Romance Category was...

horrific

relationships

romance

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StefaniClayton Society has become a throw-a-way world, and that includes relationships. People don't take their relationships serious, and there is zero respect for the commited relationship. As soon as one partner becomes unhappy about something, the first thing they do is...

29 May 10

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