Tessalim

@Tessalim (33)

Malaysia • Age 42

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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If somebody ask you to work in weekend for extra money, you will work?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 19 Jun 09

We all need to rest in weekend, we need this 2 days off to rest and have some free time, before to start a new week in work. If somebody will come to you and say..that need you in weekend to work for some extra money you will...

make money

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Tessalim It depends how much they are going to give you for the weekend job. If the amount is quite a lot. Why not?

19 Jun 09

wish?

kalaga @kalaga (547) • United States 18 Jun 09

Will you be sad if your parents don't wish you on your birthday?it never happened to me cause i don't celebrate birthdays much.how about u?

birthday

wish

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Tessalim No i don't feel sad at all. To me, i should be thanking my parents on my birthday because they were the one who bring me to this world.

18 Jun 09

How many relationships should one have before marriage?

mipen2006 @mipen2006 (5528) • Australia 18 Jun 09

Hi myLoters this is my first discussion in relationships, and I'd love to hear your views. Here's mine in brief, I had many relationships before I got married the first time, and still made a mistake. The marriage didn't work. Do...

many

marriage

mistake

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Tessalim I think there is no such thing as one is enough or multiple relationship is good. Some people take longer time to find their true love and there are some people who are lucky enough to find their true love at once. So it depends on fate.

18 Jun 09

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Are you willing to share your email's password with your Bf, or spouse

money_maker01 @money_maker01 (1097) • Malaysia 18 Jun 09

Hi guys, i have one simple question. Are you willing to share your email with your bf,gf or spouse? For me it's kind of privacy and it's hard for me to share it with anyone. So how about you guys? Last but not least, thanks for...

share email

spouse

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Tessalim I don't mind sharing my emails' passwords with my partner. At times he help me to check my mail and i help him to check his. We also like to check mails together using the same computer.

18 Jun 09

Woman and man kissing in public!!! What do you think when you see them?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 14 Jun 09

People in the street, in public places, in parks, who kiss each other...what do you think about this? You like when see people who love each other, and don t afraid or shame to show theirs love ...you will blame them or you...

love

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Tessalim I don't mind seeing other couples hugging in the public but I think kissing in public places is a bit too much. My partner and i don't do that.

18 Jun 09

Don't you hate those backseat drivers?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 18 Jun 09

Don't you hate those people who always give you instruction how to drive the car, and run the road? Once, I drove a couple of co - workers in my car to a restaurant; one of co - workers keep telling me how fast I should go, and...

backseat driver

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Tessalim Does he have a car? If he has, then you can ask him to drive next time. You can let taste his own medicine by keep giving him instruction on how to drive the car to annoy him. Or either that, just stop your car and ask him to drive instead.

18 Jun 09

Would you treat your boss as your friend?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 16 Jun 09

At work, your boss is your boss, you obey his order, and you do what he asked you to do as work designated. What about at lunch time, or break time, it is more about your private time, totally unrelated to your work. Would you...

boss

friend

work

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Tessalim I would definitely keep a distance from my boss. After all she/he is my boss. I feel very awkward to treat my boss as a friend after working hours.

18 Jun 09

Is it too soon?

paula27661 @paula27661 (15811) • Australia 18 Jun 09

My friend has been dating her boyfriend for around nine months. They are at the stage now where they are seeing each other almost every night. Last week they planned for her to stay over at his place for the weekend. On the...

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Tessalim Actually this it not about time frame but more on trust. It seems like her boyfriend doesn't trust her or ready to share everything with her. Or most probably he still want his own privacy. But if he is staying together with other people then maybe this is...

18 Jun 09

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whom do u love the most? Family,friends,girlfriend

meherswaroop @meherswaroop (112) 17 Jun 09

I would give my first prference to my family..............then friends.........atlast girl friend.........but if u have to choose one.........whom would u prefer?.......as for me i choose my family...............

life

love

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Tessalim I love my family the most especially my parents and my husband. They are the one who really by my side when i need some comfort. They are the one who share my happiness and sadness. They are always so supportive to me. They are also the one i trusted most.

18 Jun 09

Can you find true love online?

AcousticSoul @AcousticSoul (1309) • United States 17 Jun 09

I found my true love online. My family doesn't really approve. they feel as though I should have found him the conventional way face to face. But I say thats not the way God intended it to be. I feel they talk behind my back and I...

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Tessalim Though i have never encounter it myself, but i believe that you can find your true love online. I have seen many people found their love online and they are happily married with kids.

18 Jun 09

I just cancelled my Friendster account..

daryljane @daryljane (3406) • Philippines 17 Jun 09

Ive been a member since August 2004. The site helped me locate some friends i lost contact with for a while, i uploaded pictures in every family activities or any important times in my life. But with my eyes close, i have to...

identity theft

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Tessalim I seldom log in to my friendster account. There's nothing much to do in friendster. I thought of closing down my account too.

18 Jun 09

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If You Think She is A Friend Of The People Behind You Down,What will you do???

Windflower258 @Windflower258 (114) • China 17 Jun 09

The worst things in the world is to be betrayed by your friend!I'm in this situation recently.A friend of mine(she is also my roomates),writing in her secret blog,say that she never like me before,say I was selfish,a lack of...

mean girl a friend betray

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Tessalim Hi, in my opinion, try to keep a distance from her. Both of you can still be friends but you should not disclose any of your secrets/problems to her if you have any. To me, she is not a trustworthy person.

17 Jun 09

Do You Check Your BF/GF Emails?

pinayindutchland @pinayindutchland (45) • Netherlands 16 Jun 09

Hi everyone, I am just wondering, does any of you check your partner's emails? I know that some men or women doesnt want their private mails be checked but my boyfriend and I opens each other mails if any of us would want to...

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Tessalim We don't keep anything from each other. He knows my password and i know his. At times i even ask him to help me to check my mails and so does him. We love to go online together. Therefore, we always check emails/facebook/whatsoever together regardless of whose...

17 Jun 09

how many boys(or girls) have you falled in love with in your lives?

wzsj0501 @wzsj0501 (157) • China 17 Jun 09

when I was a senior student,I falled love with my first boyfriend,we loved each other so much that I always missed him.but when I graduated from our college,we parted for the long distance,for which he became a teacher in one...

love

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Tessalim I have only fallen in love once. He is now my husband.

17 Jun 09

Do you prefer noodles or rice?

colydf @colydf (913) • China 16 Jun 09

For me, when I was child, I do not like to eat noodles at all, I just like to have rice. However, now, I like noodles more than rice~

rice

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Tessalim I must eat rice at least once a day else i feel uneasy the whole day :D

17 Jun 09

He loves me.....He loves me not....

x_Jo_x @x_Jo_x (1040) 17 Jun 09

If a guy tells you "I really like you" what does this mean??

love

relationships

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Tessalim First of all ask yourself whether do you like him as a friend or you hope to be in a relationship with him. If you hope to go into relationship with him, why do you ask him directly whether he likes you as a friend or hope to be with you. Then you do not need...

17 Jun 09

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Getting involved with women older than 30, while you are just 25?

uchuukeiji @uchuukeiji (33) • Peru 16 Jun 09

What do you think? I like women older than me... Please share your thoughts.. is this possible? how the relationship will go ? it is worthy? or it isnt?

older women young men

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Tessalim To me, there is no age boundary in a relationship. As long as both of you really love each other.

17 Jun 09

they got married after knowing each other for 3 months!!

cainam @cainam (493) • Philippines 17 Jun 09

my cousin and his girlfried got married last sunday. i just can't believe until now and i wonder if their marriage will last a lifetime. they only knew each other 3 months ago and i think that there's no need for a hurry coz they...

marriage

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Tessalim It depends. Time frame is not a problem. As long as they are really in love and they are ready to commit to each other.

17 Jun 09