Wendy1984

@Wendy1984 (46)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 14 years ago

All Activity

Wendy1984's Responses

World Expo Shanghai China

wesley_lu @wesley_lu (378) • China 28 Jan 10

World Expo is coming,there will be very exciting activities. Would you like to take advantage of this period to visit shanghai china??/ have a nice day.

expo

5 responses •

2 people

Wendy1984 Yes, it's such a good chance for us to take part in the Expo. Now, Shanghai is really a city for the world. If I would have a chance to work as a voulenteer for Expo, it will be perfect.

30 Jan 10

•

1 comment

Do you use public bathrooms?

Chrissy @Java09 (3075) • United States 25 Jan 10

I always try to avoid using a public bathroom,but it's hard if you're traveling.I have to go sometime.I think public bathrooms are very dirty and they smell bad.It just grosses me out to go in them.I worked in a factory in the...

58 responses •

5 people

Wendy1984 Yes, I use public bathrooms. As I was a student in school, we hadn't our private bathroom and had to bath with others. But it was not bad. We could chat so it was not boring. We were lucky that our public bathrooms were not so dirty that we would not like to...

25 Jan 10

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Length of a response

Always smiling @allknowing (136425) • India 24 Jan 10

Is there a rule that there should be a minimum number of words that a response should contain for it to be eligible for earnings? I have read so many advices here saying that it should have a minimum of 50 words but all responses...

19 responses •

4 people

Wendy1984 I think the earning has something to do with the words you write on mylot, because the mylot will not pay something nonsense. Someone types just few words in order to earn money from his response. I think it is not helpful for the one who posts a discussion....

24 Jan 10

Your eating speed, fast or slow?

kevinll @kevinll (967) • China 24 Jan 10

I don't like be the last one of eating. Maybe I eat slowly. Especially When I have lunch I have to eat quickly. Although I'm not the slowest one I don't want my friends wait for me. Sometimes I think they eat less and not full. If...

eating

speed

32 responses •

3 people

Wendy1984 Although it is healthy to eat slowly, I have to finish my breakfast very quickly, because I get up late and must be arrive at the office on time.

24 Jan 10

DO YOU AVOID PEOPLE Whom you don't like

singuri @singuri (571) • India 24 Jan 10

Let it be men or women ,Its doesn't make any difference if you don't like them..I think only way to happiness is to avoid unwanted people let it be work mates or neighbors.Why to get adjusted with people whom you don't like.I tell...

avoid

30 responses •

1 person

Wendy1984 Hello, Singuri. If I don't like someone, I will not contact him/her from my side. But sometimes it is not avoided that he/she will turn to you. I will be pilote if he/she doesn't do something unsuitable. We will not like everyone around you, but we must learn...

24 Jan 10

•

1 person

Where do you post the most?

allyoftherain @allyoftherain (7208) • United States 23 Jan 10

Hey myloters! Where do you create the majority of your discussions and make the majority of your posts? Are there any specific interest pages that you haunt? Or do you just post anywhere and everywhere? I've noticed that I post a...

25 responses •

4 people

Wendy1984 I posted my most discussions in "love" and "life". And to response to the discussions, I always chosen the topic that caught my eyes, for example top topics and the discussions that are posted by my friends.

24 Jan 10

•

1 comment

Women, What Kind Of Men Do You Like?

Intra_Trader @Intra_Trader (241) 24 Jan 10

I am Man, and Really Interested in Womens Mentality about Men... Really its Very Old Theme,but Please Write Your Opinion Here About What Kind Of Men Do You Like... e.g. What Your Husband Must Be?

kinds of men

1 response

Wendy1984 I think the most important character of my Mr. Right is the responsibility. He must be responsible for his work and his family. Secondly, he must be considerate. I hope that he can also consider the things from my side and don't think that he is always right....

24 Jan 10

•

1 comment

What kind cell phone do have and how often do you use it?

crazydaisy @crazydaisy (3896) • Canada 23 Jan 10

I have a Sanson phone I only use when ever I am out it's very handy I was thinking about getting a newer kind of phone.Do have idea of good cell phone to get I be more than happy to hear from you.It's because the phone is getting...

57 responses •

9 people

Wendy1984 I have Nokia 5200 and use it everyday. I trust the quality and after service of Nokia and I have kept this cell phone for more than 2 years. I use it to call my friends, write message and listen to the musik on my way to work.

24 Jan 10

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Arranged Married

singuri @singuri (571) • India 23 Jan 10

Arranged marriages are a big problem in our community.My mother always says "Boy I will pick up a good girl for you".Nonsense is it a shirt or a ring to pick up one.I get frustrated with my parents behavior.I tell them its my life...

marry

14 responses

Wendy1984 Hi, Singuri! I am from China and in old China, the marriage for young people was also arranged by the parents as you stated. It was common that the bride and bridegroom never met each other before their wedding. Fortunately, this old custom has been away in...

24 Jan 10

commitment in love

hansraj89 @hansraj89 (63) • India 24 Jan 10

My friend says "WORST THING ABOUT LOVE IS COMMITMENT". Is it really true, or one should never commit in love......

love

3 responses

Wendy1984 I don't think so. Why is commitment the worst thing for love? Commitment will strengthen the confidence of love. It shows that you is a responsible person. What I have committed will be realized some day in the future. Let's long for the happy days to come....

24 Jan 10

•

1 comment

when I'm upset I'll go shopping,what about you?

ella8967 @ella8967 (31) • China 23 Jan 10

I never enjoy shopping very much,for me,shopping mostly is just a way to express my emotion,my being upset,nerous,and usually I'll spend a lot of money,my money is usually spent under my bad mood,yeah most of my money is spent in...

bad mood

10 responses •

1 person

Wendy1984 I must agree that this is not bad to go shopping if you feel upset. And then you will not concentrate on the troubles and relax yourself swiftly. But in my opinion, it is merely a temporary solution. After the shopping, you must face to the affairs that make...

24 Jan 10

He doesn't want me to love him

dhysanne @dhysanne (449) • Philippines 23 Jan 10

I knew this guy for years. He is actually my close friend. Lately, I found myself treating him more than just a friend. I asked him "what if I fall in love with you?" He told not to fall in love with him. Better stay this way as...

love

special friends

18 responses •

3 people

Wendy1984 If you don't want to lose this friend, you must try to treat him like a close friend as before. Although it is hard for you, I think if he doesn't contact you anymore, it must be harder for you. Well, you have just asked him what if you fall in love with him....

24 Jan 10

•

1 comment

Do you like chocolate?

borg246 @borg246 (539) • Malta 23 Jan 10

Hey fellow mylotters and friends! I am just asking this question in terms of curiosity as I know we all have different opinions to different things. I personally used to enjoy chocolate very much, infact I think...too much. Up...

do you like chocolate

40 responses •

3 people

Wendy1984 I love chocolates very much and always try different taste. Some chocolate everyday will not hurt your health and on contrary, it is good for your healty. Sweet food can always give me good mood.

23 Jan 10

what to do??

grace24 @grace24 (1050) • Philippines 23 Jan 10

id like to hear some good advices from you guys, please help me...i dont know what to do with my life. I dont know that i will encounter so many problems in my life. Before my life seems so happy,i am not having so many problems...

advice

11 responses

Wendy1984 Dear Grace, a coin has two sides. If you view this tradegy from the other side, your will have more courage to face it. You can be grateful for this challenge in your life, because it give you a chance to be stronger. Your father is not loyal to your mother...

23 Jan 10

Scented candles ---- are these just for decoration?

moneymakingtoday @moneymakingtoday (4061) • Philippines 23 Jan 10

One can find lots of scented candles in our department stores. They come in all sizes, colors, designs and scents. Do you have scented candles for sale in your departments stores/malls, too? These are beautiful specially-made...

21 responses •

6 people

Wendy1984 I like scented candles, especially the candles with good design. In the departments in our city, there are also many special scented candles. Some are made like the flowers. I used to read something before I sleep. It's very enjoyable, if some sweet scent is...

23 Jan 10

•

1 comment

What should I do if I hate my job?

mr_grand99 @mr_grand99 (73) • Australia 22 Jan 10

I am working at a store now, but I hate my job. I know it is hard to find jobs nowadays and I should be grateful that I got a job, but I just do not like my job. I need to know, should I keep working there or should I go and find...

job

work

2 responses

Wendy1984 I think it's time that you search a new job. You said that you "hate" this job so it make no sense that you oblige yourself to stick on it just because of the payment. To avoid the risk of losing job, if you quit, you can apply for the jobs you like before...

23 Jan 10

Where do you usually shopping?Store or online?

kivampireko @kivampireko (1) • China 22 Jan 10

Work is so busy, have not time go to store. I'm always shopping online. And you?

online shopping

18 responses •

2 people

Wendy1984 It depends on the things I want to buy. I always buy the telephone cards online, because there are no large difference as the cards in store. As for the cloths and foods, I prefer to purchase them in stores. I can try them before I buy it.

23 Jan 10

Are you near your payout qualification amount?

ram_cv @ram_cv (16513) • India 27 Nov 09

With three more days to go, I have managed to reach almost $9.50. Another 50 cents and I should be getting a payout this month. How far are you from qualifying for your payout? Cheers! Ram

payout

13 responses •

2 people

Wendy1984 I signed up mylot yesterday. Until now, I just have 5 activities and my earning is still $0.00. Perhaps it has not been updated. Mylot is the first website I know which finance its members. Although the payment is not so high, I think it is a good idea to...

23 Jan 10

•

1 comment

•

1 person

don't lie to me again

GreatLife4You @GreatLife4You (61) • United States 22 Jan 10

The sad touching story of our loveones lies. Sometimes we lie to the ones we love because we are afraid to tell people of our feelings for them. How often has this happened to you? Sometimes you might find the courage to let...

2 responses

Wendy1984 Between the lovers, I think the most important thing is to be frank. Besides your parents, I think the lover is the closest person. If it is true love, he/she will be tolerant. The love doesn't last forever if it is involved too many lies.

23 Jan 10