ZeldaRose

@ZeldaRose (25)

United States • Age 51

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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It really irritates me !

Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!! @krupesh (2608) • India 14 Jun 09

You think that you have been on a long business trip & you have some people all along the trip with you.You are having a busy schedule day in & day out.In the middle of a very important discussion you get a call from your wife.Its...

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ZeldaRose Hi! Does she just miss you? I know if my husband was away on business, I'd have to all but break my fingers just to resist calling him and hearing his voice. I'd talk to her. Just tell her that maybe a few calls a day is ok. Morning, afternoon and then...

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What do you think of the people who respond to discussions like

Bala @balasri (26537) • India 14 Jun 09

'I don't want to reply as I do not have this', 'I never had this' , 'I have no experience in this matter'? How do you feel as you read these kind of responses? Do you consider these as proper responses or do you think that...

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ZeldaRose I can't picture myself saying "I don't want to reply." If I didn't want to reply, I wouldn't in the first place lol. But for things I have no experience in, I might respond if I have an opinion, say from knowing someone who has had a similar experience.

14 Jun 09

Type- or Handwritten?

ragenepalma @ragenepalma (166) • Philippines 14 Jun 09

When you write, which do you prefer? Computerizing and typing your work or handwriting it? For efficiency, I use the computer. But when it comes to poetry and self-expression, I like writing my work by hand. there's this joy of...

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ZeldaRose When I'm in a flow, such as with writing poetry, handwritten always. I can't flow when typing. The pecking keys are too distracting. But for short stories and things, I type. It's not so much a flow as it is a method. I don't know how to describe it, but I bet...

14 Jun 09

Have you ever been to a casino?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 14 Jun 09

I was wondering how many people here on myLot have been to a casino before. I was also wondering if you went to gamble? I have been to a few casinos..with my grandmother in Las Vegas..with my b/f on a gambleing boat in...

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ZeldaRose I've been to Spirit Lake Casino in North Dakota. Had a blast. The gambling was fun but so was the people watching. Played black jack and felt all big wig till I lost my $20 lol. It was so neat watching people gamble, seeing the older ladies camped out on slot...

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If you could teach only one lesson to your children...

leyisa @leyisa (486) • Canada 12 Jun 09

I'm curious...my fellow mylotters/parents, If you could teach only one lesson to your child/children, what would it be? I always feel like i'm trying to teach my kids all these different things, ie: do this, don't do that, etc...

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ZeldaRose Love. Simply love. Know it, walk in it. Don't be a doormat. Be confident. Be exactly who you are in this life. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

14 Jun 09

If you were available to date anyone in the world, who would you pick? Why?

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 13 Jun 09

Hi all,If no one was in a relationship, i.e. everyone was free and available, who would you wish to date, and why?I would love to go out with several people, not at the same time of course, but mostly to know them in personal, to...

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panda spanking

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ZeldaRose The purely fun and selfish side would pick Johnny Depp, and no not as himself. He'd have to get back into character as Captain Jack Sparrow...accent, swagger and all! lol Nothing romantic. I just want to stare and watch him walk and listen to him talk all...

14 Jun 09

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Why are you not in church?

heathcliff @heathcliff (1415) • United States 14 Jun 09

Do you ever get this question from friends, family, or just nosey passersby? Never mind that if they are around to ask you then they are obviously not in church either, but sometimes the question comes later in a...

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ZeldaRose Attending Church is not a badge of good believer, in any religion. We are all human. It gets disheartening at times watching people cut one another down over beliefs and the way they "should" act. Last I checked, we are all human, fallible, with thriving egos...

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will you copy your parents' parenting style?

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 28 May 09

no one can't avoid being a parent except for some cases like serious illness or celibacy. we are what we are because of the way how our parents brought us up. we experienced being disobedient to their orders and sometimes hate the...

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ZeldaRose I think if anything, I've "unlearned" my parents style lol. My children are listened to. I don't take crap out on them. They are allowed and expected to act like kids. If I do something wrong, I honor them and I apologize to them. Motherhood to me isn't a...

14 Jun 09

If you could be an animal instead of a human for a day, which would you be?

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 12 Jun 09

I love being human, but every now and then, it is fun to imagine oneself as an animal, to experience the world from that perspective. If could be an animal for a day, I would choose to be bird. It would be wonderful to fly like...

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ZeldaRose It's a toss up between a bird and a cat. I was going to say cat, until I saw my daughter pick up ours as the cat had the look of resigned horror on her face lol. So nix the kitty. I'd be a bird. To be able to fly free, to see the world as birds do, soar and...

13 Jun 09

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is this such a boring game?

luphita @luphita (114) • Indonesia 25 Apr 09

i think solitaire is such a boring game, do you think so?

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ZeldaRose I play a lot of computer solitaire, so I do not think it's a boring game. There are so many layouts you can do. When I am playing with a real deck of cards, I use the Four Corners layout (it's called many things). You basically draw card five cards and...

13 Jun 09

Do you cook most things "from scratch," or do you like prepackaged better?

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 13 Jun 09

When the pace of life gets very busy, some prefer to cook with ready-made prepackaged foods. Others love to do it from scratch. I combine a bit of both, depending on the busyness of my day and the time factor. For the...

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ZeldaRose I'm bad about not cooking from scratch, yet I find it much more rewarding when I do. Cleanup is what I hate lol. There is something deeply satisfying to me to get the hands messy kneading dough, and I find it fun getting out the mixer and beating ingredients....

13 Jun 09

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Jobs you wanted to do when you were young

Anne18 @Anne18 (11029) 13 Jun 09

What jobs did you want to do when you were young? I always wanted to be a nurse which I did become. BUT.... other jobs I lied the fancy of were.... To be a Vicar because I thought you only worked one day a week... being...

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ZeldaRose You have made me smile today :) Thinking back, I always wanted to be a dancer. I dreamed of being in ballet. Even today when I see the corny dance movies or even River Dance, that inner child of mine dances right along with them. As a little kid, I used to...

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Never tell a peson who's experiencing deep sorrow, i know how you feel..

charlenmendoza @charlenmendoza (922) • Philippines 11 Jun 09

i receive a txt today and it said never tell a person who's experiencing deep sorrow, i kow how you feel because you don't. Its true, maybe you went through that same situations but you have different emotions. Nobody knows...

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ZeldaRose There's nothing wrong with saying "I know how you feel" as long as the tone of your voice is understanding, open, and non judging. It's the equivalent of saying "I relate to how you are feeling". We all have differing feelings, but at the same time when you...

12 Jun 09

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Do you think everything happens for a reason?

bestcj @bestcj (278) • Philippines 12 Jun 09

eversince I was a child i'm always asking questions that start with why? what? who? when? and how? some got answers and some remained unanswerable... after several years i still keep asking these questions like "does everything...

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ZeldaRose Yes, I believe everything happens for a reason. We have free will and can make choices, but I don't really believe things are just coincidences. It's fascinating to look back and see the odd things that have happened and feel thankful that they happened, when...

12 Jun 09

Do you easily get upset when spills happen by your children?

hdjohnson @hdjohnson (2981) • United States 11 Jun 09

My 7 year old daughter dropped my water bottle last night on the floor. It was full of cold Crystal Springs water. She became upset and started crying. Although I wasn't happy that she did it. I know it wasn't her fault. My 3 year...

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ZeldaRose I used to get upset, especially if I was under stress. It just depended on what was spilled and where. Now, not so much. With age came some wisdom. I'm evolving a bit with my parenting and I don't get angry much anymore. If they spill something, no biggie. We...

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Can you even believe....?!?

tlb0822 @tlb0822 (1410) • United States 2 Jan 09

The packaging that childrens toys come in are really outrageous. You can't get the toys out fast enough already and there are fifty different areas that you have to remove tape, and twisty ties. My daughter (1) about through a fit...

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ZeldaRose Oh, I hear you. It's absolutely maddening lol. I hate ones that are both taped and then tied down with the tick wire. I even ran into a few that were 'screwed' into the packaging. Never mind trying to open the outside plastic that us fused together. I've got...

3 Jan 09

every believers wanted to go to heaven but they afraid to die...?

mobhomeir @mobhomeir (7558) • Philippines 3 Jan 09

Everyone of us who believes that there's heaven and hell.And no one else doesn't want to go to hell. But why are afraid to die? Is there any ways and means to reach heaven without being dead first? What do you think?

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ZeldaRose I'm sure you've heard the phrase about creating your heaven or hell here on earth. Am I afraid to die? Yep lol. Not so much afraid of where I'm going, just more not so looking forward to the "how" I will die. For instance, am I going to croak while in the...

3 Jan 09

are you a night owl ?

sukie2008 @sukie2008 (68) • China 2 Jan 09

do you like to get up early ? or do you prefer to stay up late ? as the saying goes : "the early birds get the worm " .but i think the early worm will be eaten by birds . how do you know you are a worm or a bird ? haha i can't...

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ZeldaRose Very much a night owl! I'm at my most creative at night and can do writing or work on my digital artwork, while my kids and hubby are asleep, with the tv on or music as background noise lol.

3 Jan 09