ZoeJoy

@ZoeJoy (1392)

United States • Age 67

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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Is your Husband or boyfriend a Handy Man?

lelin1123 @lelin1123 (15595) • Puerto Rico 29 Jan 13

You know there are men in the world who claim to be Mr. fixit but they try and don't succeed. Then you have to call in a plumber, electrician, etc... Then you have men who start a job and never finish it. My hubby thank the lord...

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ZoeJoy My husband is a handy man. He is able to fix a lot of things around the house, which I am very grateful. But, then, I am handy as well. One Saturday morning, my husband was fixing breakfast - he loves to make breakfast; bacon and eggs and pancakes. While he...

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To propose a girl

nishant86796 @nishant86796 (236) 30 Jan 13

Mylotian you all are from different age groups but will be having a partner in form of girlfriend,wife(for female vice versa) as all are above 18.So how did you confess to your girlfriend that you love her and the ladies what you...

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ZoeJoy First, find out if she likes you and how she feels about you. Make sure your feelings are mutual. If you ask her out for a date, and every single time that you ask her, she is willing to go out with you. That is definitely a clue that she likes you. So, first,...

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What am i doing here? Lol

Nitin Nair @nitinnair89 (2900) • India 29 Jan 13

Hi :) I am at office now. Lol. What was i supposed to do? Hmm..let me think. Just dropping by to post something in mylot. Well i have took tea break with my friend and now have come out in the premises..ahh fresh air.. Far...

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ZoeJoy Have a great day. I enjoy a cup of tea as well. And I am just dropping by in Mylot. Got a lot of other things to do, so probably will drop in and out all day at Mylot. Have a great day.

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forgive, forget and move on...

enelym001 @enelym001 (8322) • Philippines 29 Jan 13

If you have a boyfriend/girlfriend and you’ve called it quits because you feel it is not going anywhere. And then two weeks later you’ve accidentally found out you have been cheated or lied to by your ex which is still your...

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ZoeJoy I think you would feel better if you did tell him that you are so disappointed in him because he cheated. Say so, in an honest and straight forward manner. That way, it lets him know that you are an honest and faithful person and you deserve better. In a way,...

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So tired just thinking about the day I have today

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 28 Jan 13

I have so much to get organized before my move to my new house on Friday. I'm just getting out of bed and already exhausted and stressed just thinking of what I have to do today. I need to go get insurance for my new house, need...

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ZoeJoy What really helps me in a situation like yours is to write down everything I need to do. In other words, make a list and then, when you finish a task, cross it off your list. That way, you are not having to keep every detail that you need to do in your...

28 Jan 13

When the weather forces you to stay inside. how do you cope?

cripfemme @cripfemme (7698) • United States 28 Jan 13

In much of the Northeast and various airports it is not the best day. There is ugly weather already and more is on the way. Luckily, I don't have much to do in the outdoors. I have enough work to keep me occupied. Two articles and...

coping

weather

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ZoeJoy I moved to warmer weather - that is how I am coping. Got tired of the rain in the northwest of the USA. My family and I joined an athletic club and so, we would go swimming when we got cabin fever. Or we just put on our rain boots, rain coats and umbrellas...

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I just feel theirs something missing in my life.

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 27 Jan 13

I'm bored with my life. Every day I'm doing the same routine. I spend whole day at my room and only go out for 5 minutes more or less just to buy some food that can last the whole day. My only source of income is online so I don't...

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ZoeJoy You can always do volunteer work - that would really give your life meaning. If you help someone less fortunate than yourself, you really find a new purpose and a new meaning to your life. Just google for volunteer work online in your local area. It...

27 Jan 13

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That is a dilemma when it comes to money in a family

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 27 Jan 13

My uncle, who is my mother's younger brother; he is recently in need of money to rebuild his house, since it is too old, and he doesn't want to abandon this house. So, he has a little bit of saving of his own, but that wasn't...

family

money

situation

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ZoeJoy Just because someone is a family member, and an adult family member, doesn't mean that the rest of the family is obligated to financially help them. Your mother provided a very good alternative. That is all she need to offer to your uncle. If he is stubborn,...

27 Jan 13

I've Changed My Postion On Gun Laws

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4606) • United States 26 Jan 13

i used to be pro second amendment. that is even silly to say, because both sides of the argument are pro second amendment. the more i listened to both sides is the more i realized that pro gun law people don't want to take away...

life

politics

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ZoeJoy I really think we should ban criminals. I don't know why the government doesn't crack down on criminals and criminal activity. If we get rid of all the criminals and criminal activity, then we will not have to worry about criminals anymore. Also, we need to...

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Tony doesn't like exes

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 26 Jan 13

I had a previous discussion where I said that Tony doesn't like my ex. And Sara rightly pointed out that I had probably unintentionally poisoned the well. When I was getting to know Tony, I told him the usual stuff that people who...

the only blot on the paper

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ZoeJoy Those one night stands can indeed have life long consequences. Umm. They are not really very wise choices. I guess he should have figured her out before that one night. Just keep the ex folks out of the picture as much as possible. The past is in the past....

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Why Love is banned after marrige !

binaybbsr1 @binaybbsr1 (375) • India 26 Jan 13

Hi friends, Please dont say "NO, its not possible". I have started this discussion, just to understand different philosophies on life. When we love someone, perhaps we are attracted towards his wisdom, personality, beauty, I.Q,...

love marriage woman india orissa

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ZoeJoy I knew a couple, after 30 years, were deciding whether or not they should stay together or divorce. They had some rocky moments in their marriage and weren't sure if staying together any more would be beneficial. They talked about as mature and wise adults....

26 Jan 13

gym members who are always talking and just sitting....

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9551) • Philippines 25 Jan 13

I have noticed that in the gym where I work out, there are so many members who are there simply to socialize. They just sit around, exercise a little, and talk a lot. I hate these members because aside from the...

exercise

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ZoeJoy I went out with a guy who said he went to the fitness center on a regular basis. So, one day, I went with him. He swam the length of the pool and back. I swam next to him, thinking that this is a great way to get some exercise. But after one lap, back and...

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Friends do come and go.

math21 @math21 (184) • Philippines 24 Jan 13

It is so nice to have many real nice friends but most friend really do come and go. Time will come that you can't stick with them any longer that you have to separate ways. Friends in high school is the very first moment you will...

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ZoeJoy Sometimes people do make life time friends and others, just have friends that come and go. That is why family is important, they are with you, no matter what.

25 Jan 13

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Charging friends

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 23 Jan 13

One of my closest friends is a mechanic, as I've mentioned in other discussions before. Well, yesterday I had him do a little bit of work on my car because it was making a sound that I didn't like at all. After it was said and...

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ZoeJoy I think it is fair to charge friends. Possibly not the same as strangers because friends often help each other out. As long as it is a fair trade or fair exchange of work or help, then sometimes, you just know it will even out in the end. I do look for...

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My darling daughter

rashmimohan @rashmimohan (46) 25 Jan 13

I am really low from past two days . The reason is my daughter of 4 yrs is down with viral fever. She is unable to get up and has running nose and cough.I am worried as she has today her dance program, for that she has practiced...

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ZoeJoy Have you taken her to her doctor? It does hurt as a mother to see your children sick. Yes, you can only think about your children's health and when they are sick, it is a worrisome time. Just make sure she gets lots of rest and drink lots of liquid. I...

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chosing to be a single parent mum.

pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 25 Jan 13

i have found this is very common nowadays.Ladies are deciding to get a baby with a friend or they pretend they like you get intimate and once she is pregnant you are out of her life.some do it because they feel they are not...

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ZoeJoy Maternal instinct can be very strong in woman. But it is a real challenge to raise a child by yourself. And you do have to think - are you being fair to the child? Always, when thinking of having children - it is best to think - what is best for the child, not...

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after you get married do you maintain your single friends as tight?

pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 23 Jan 13

i am asking this because its something i have seen with many people that soon after marriage not many people maintain very close friendship with their unmarried friends.its not that you stop being friends but its like you no...

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ZoeJoy I think this happens a lot. It is because you have moved on and your single friends haven't. It is the same if you had a baby and your friends haven't any children. You want to relate to those who are going through the same experience as you. So, without...

25 Jan 13

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how i wish things will go smoothly

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 25 Jan 13

There have been quite a lot of changes i want to take place in my life, more into the financial aspects as well as my outlook in life. i am so praying i could achieve it this year as this is like my very goal of all. Last...

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ZoeJoy It is good to sit down with a financial advisor and plan for your future. I hope it really does benefit you. We always need to be thinking and planning for the future. Wishing you all the best.

25 Jan 13

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Got a rose yesterday

Charlene Sally C. @PointlessQuestions (15397) • United States 25 Jan 13

Yesterday, Larry, the only male ESL teacher brought me and Barb (my senior teacher) a pink and white rose. I was the first one there yesterday morning and Ge came in with the roses. I asked him if it was National Teacher's day or...

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ZoeJoy How wonderful that someone thought of you and made an ordinary day, special. It is those little things that make life worth living. It is awesome. I can imagine that learning English in song can make it more fun and easy to learn English. I am sure the...

25 Jan 13

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