aCavin

@aCavin (25)

Philippines • Age 34

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Could you forgive infidelity?

Nezavisima Deskata @nezavisima (7408) • Bulgaria 25 Jul 11

know that everyone has come in such a situation. or he has committed adultery or cheated. I think some others do not forgive. Do you forgive a betrayal?

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aCavin above all forgiveness should be present, forgiveness will help you move on... though things will never be the same again.. once a trust is damage it will never return to its orignal state... i'm a believer thats why.. hehe

28 Jul 11

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Life after an affair

kahano42 @kahano42 (53) • United States 27 Jul 11

Do you believe trust can be built back up after an affair? If you've ever been cheated on, cheated, or know someone who has I would like to hear from you! An aquaintance of mine was recently caught cheating on her husband. She...

cheating

marriage

trust

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aCavin Once a trust is broken it can never be the same again... doubt will always be there to the person whose trust has been damage.. Miracles happen so no one knows... hehe

28 Jul 11

Do you want to live in the province or in the city?

chiwasaki @chiwasaki (4694) • Philippines 26 Jul 11

I would like to ask my fellow My Lotters where are you actually located right now? I'm currently residing in the province of Rizal, which is very close in the city. I prefer living here in our province. Though it will take an hour...

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aCavin i do prefer living in the province... less people... less pollution... less crime... lifestyle is simpler, fresh air,.... life in the city is expensive... everytime you step out your house you need to have money...

26 Jul 11

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Parents still giving hand outs to their son.

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 19 Mar 10

There are alot of parents out there that tend to go to their purse when ever a child needs money no matter how old the child is and even when the person has grown up they seem to do the same.I have a brother that was and still is...

money

mum pays

mum pays the bills

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aCavin No offense Sir... I really do agree with you 41? thats like already a father with a college daughter or son... he should already learn how to stand on his own feet... the case is our father or our mother will never always be their for us...

26 Jul 11

would you admit you're wrong if you are?

toonatoons @toonatoons (3737) • Philippines 21 Oct 06

sometimes, one of the most difficult things to do is to say "sorry" and really mean it. perhaps, it's pride that's holding us back to admit we're wrong. what are your thoughts on this?

apology

pride

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aCavin Sometimes our ego is one of greatest enemy specially when we highly think too much our self... sometimes we always think that were right and we neglect other things... I do agree sometimes saying sorry can be difficult but one thing about saying sorry is that...

26 Jul 11

Is it easy to say sorry to all?

Sanjeev @sjvg1976 (41281) • Delhi, India 26 Jul 11

Hello MYLOTTERS, Do you feel is it always easy to say SORRY to people when you are wrong? Many people find it difficult to say sorry to others even when they are wrong sometimes this happens in the case when...

sorry

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aCavin Saying the word sorry is easy when one admits he's wrong, I admit when i make mistake or did something wrong so I say Sorry when I personally did something wrong regardless of age, status, etc... The fact that you did something wrong you should say sorry...

26 Jul 11

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When one door closes, another one opens...

pinkpiglet @pinkpiglet (330) • Philippines 17 Jul 11

It is really sad to tell you guys that my dream job that I applied for yesterday is now over. I didn't make it. :( i felt like crying. I really dreamt of working there. I guess that door just closed... But I believe that when...

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aCavin i admire you for having positive attitude... Goodluck to you...

18 Jul 11

Live life to the fullest

lindaharding627 @lindaharding627 (1442) • United States 17 Jul 11

Life can be too short sometimes. My precious brother Jimmy was only 30 when he passed away. Now I am waiting to hear the latest on a man that was kayaking in the Tuscarawas River. His canoe capsized and it doesn't look good. The...

life

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aCavin Yup Lifes too short... live life to the fullest as you say... we do what we can and we do our best it doing, i remember my father always told me to give it your all cause you never know when things might happen...

18 Jul 11

How would you feel when you come to know that the girl you loved is going to marry your boss??

kkarun @kkarun (100) • India 18 Jul 11

hai friends, its a very sad day for me as i just came to know that the girl i loved was was going to marry my boss. I knew her since the college days we where both in the same class, it was kind of love at first sight but being...

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aCavin sad for you my friend... haven't really known this kind of situation , usually encounter this one on movies... we'll i'm not in the position to say or anything but, if can just share my insight.. maybe its sad cause you really love her but she didn't love you...

18 Jul 11

The Catalyst

PandorasLotus88 @PandorasLotus88 (9) • United States 13 Jul 11

What do you think of the song? I like that little techno solo. When I first heard it, I was at Job Corps dancing in the room that I sleep in by myself. It's one of those I'm alone, I'm dancing, I'm enjoying this more than anyone...

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aCavin Like the song though i like Iridescent more... Like Linkin park...

14 Jul 11

How you deal with failure?

didi13 @didi13 (2926) • Romania 13 Jul 11

You thought that everything goes as you planned, reviewed every detail of the action that would have provided a interprinzi and success ... have reviewed all elements that could interfere unpredictable and you've realized that's...

failure

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aCavin Take a break, review what i've done detail by detail and learn what went wrong so by the next time i plan i may add the things that i've learned from my past experience. When i am face wtih failure i keep in my mind that failures are good. I see it as a...

14 Jul 11

what should i do with my boyfriend

sushi @chayannejaye (136) • Philippines 9 Jul 11

this is what happens..i was in my province when my cousin and my boyfriends where robbed and their phone was took..cause of that my boyfriends parent where afraid that someday or soon their son will be met an even greater...

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aCavin i think you for now you should hope for the best and expect for the worst atleast if you act this way they you'll know how to deal with it. treat this a test/trial of your relationship.

10 Jul 11