abhisree

@abhisree (520)

India • Age 42

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Friends....Is it fair for me?

ihsanul_aniq @ihsanul_aniq (1118) • Malaysia 1 Mar 07

Today is the fourth day since my soul mate start working. Actually i'm happy for her cause getting good jobs. But what make feel so upset is, she have little time to spend with me and sometime not at all. Old days, we at least sms...

relationships

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abhisree by the time i read all responses i realized there was no scope of advise so here is just a word of thanks to all of you because i was myself going through the same turmoil and reading through this discussion has made me think differently..thank you once...

2 Mar 07

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Am I the only one that is getting bored with MyLot?

Giggles88 @Giggles88 (542) • United States 1 Mar 07

It just seems to be getting really old. There are no discussions that are interesting to me and the ones that are have already been done. It's just a waste of time for me now sitting here trying so hard to find a discussion worth...

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abhisree in a way i have started feeling the same.in fact nowadays i do not even log in here just because almost all discussions are utter wastage of time and as you said some which are good have already been answered.i have myself become very bored and i wonder why we...

2 Mar 07

Euthanasia: Would you do it?

coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 29 Jan 07

In general, euthanasia is an act of killing painlessly - MERCY KILLING. If your loved one is in a hospital bed, brain dead with no hope to live except for the machines that keeps him/her alive, would you, as an immediate family...

euthanasia for terminal sickness

mercy killing

pulling the plug

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abhisree i know its very painful and unimaginable for what a person goes through when a loved one is on deathbed with no hope of surviving.my grandma suffered from cancer and by the time it was diagnosed she had only a few days to live. and once my grandpa learnt it,...

30 Jan 07

Do you write your grocery list?

CatEyes @CatEyes (2448) • United States 29 Jan 07

Do you write your grocery list or do you just wing it? If you do write you own list, do you actualy stick to it and save money or would you save money if you had not written it in the first place? I have to say I like to write...

grocery shopping

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abhisree well i have to write my grocery list to remember it and not for budgeting.if i ever go without a list in my hand i remain clueless about what i wanted to buy and which brand or what quantity i wanted:)

30 Jan 07

bumper stickers to combat alternatives to overcoming depression

Jewels @Tetchie (2932) • Australia 29 Jan 07

I am very concerned at how quickly people decide to take medication to solve their sadness issues. People are too quick to diagnose themselves as depressed and without taking other considerations into account, such as good...

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abhisree i dont believe in all that crap about chemical imbalance. if you ask me i personally feel that chemical imbalance is caused because of several other factors combined together like the wrong attitude, inability to cope up with stress; the wrong outlook toward...

30 Jan 07

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Do you keep the money you find when doing your family's laundry??

lifeis2good @lifeis2good (1183) • United States 29 Jan 07

I am the only one in our house who does the laundry and yes it seems like it's a never ending task. But I was wondering what you do when you find money while doing the laundry whether it's in a pant's pocket or falls out during...

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abhisree well i myself return all the money i ever get while washing the laundry but after reading your discussion completely i think it is not really wrong!! you are using the money for fun together and not alone so i dont see anything wrong in it..

30 Jan 07

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Saying THANK YOU...how important?

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 29 Jan 07

Sometimes in our busy lives, we often forget how to appreciate what we have. We often forget how to say thank you on receiving grace, service given by someone or any small favors. How important is saying Thank you? I know I...

appreciate

thank you

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abhisree saying thank you is of course very important as it shows our gratitude for someone or something done by someone. i think in everyday life people do many things for us which go unnoticed. however it is essential to realize what others are sacrificing for us and...

30 Jan 07

where do you stand?

epenner @epenner (162) • United States 28 Jan 07

The state of California has proposed to ban spanking. Anyone caught spanking their child will risk facing fines and even jail time. Do you think this is right? Or is this just another way for the government to take away...

children

discipline

spanking

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abhisree spanking is a way of telling your child that u disapprove of something. is it necessary to be violent to get your message across? children learn very fast. if they get spanking from parents they might themselves get into physical fights. instead children can...

29 Jan 07

If you were adopted, would you want to find your biological parents?

Backpack30 @Backpack30 (924) • United States 27 Nov 06

I would want to know who they were, but I probably wouldn't want to form a relationship with them. I'd consider the people who raised me my parents, not them.

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abhisree i dont think i would like to know.parents who brought me up and who taught me whatever i know are more important to me than parents who are responsible for bringing me to this world.

28 Jan 07

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Do you care about what other people think?

sweetlady10 @sweetlady10 (3611) • United States 27 Jan 07

Life goes through ups and downs. We all have to face some down time at some point of life. If unfortunately you fail to do something or can't pereform nicely in some aspect of your life, at that time do you care about what peole...

life

people

relation

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abhisree i dont bother that people might consider me as a loser but i do think about what others think of me as this gives me avenues where i can improve myself. i like positive criticism as it makes me work harder and i strive to hear that compliment!!

28 Jan 07

How many best responses do you have ?

SimplyJo @SimplyJo (1694) • India 27 Jan 07

How many best responses do you have in your kitty so far - i'm sure you all are proud of each one of them, eh ? Do you always make it a point to mark best response in all discussions you start? As for me, i have around 17 best...

best response

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abhisree i got 3 so far..though i am working for more:) i do try to mark a best response for each discussion once there are at least 5 responses.but sadly at times i dont get enough responses.anyways congrats for that good number of best responses!!

28 Jan 07

Mylot members how do you come up with discussions?

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 27 Jan 07

This is what I do if I am watching the News I will make a discussion from that. If I am in a conversation with my friends at home and I think that its a good discussion, I will use it. I will even take a discussion for Mylot, I...

discussions

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9 people

abhisree thnx dude..all these days i have not created many discussions but now after reading your discussion i have some new ideas and i would surely put them here as discussions.i think thats the best deal-to open a discussion on your concerns or things happening...

28 Jan 07

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HEADS UP!!! We have another SCAMMER

AskAlly @AskAlly (3625) • Canada 27 Jan 07

I accept this guy/girl as a friend. This is the PM I got and the reply I gave back DO NOT FALL FOR THESE SCAMS I sent the following accepting Obisco as a friend .......read on Just to let you know, I have a very awesome...

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abhisree wow!!the head of the file department writes to you in such graceful words!!you should be enchanted!!am happy he/she got a good reply from you!!

28 Jan 07

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Do you ever reply to a closed discussion ?

SimplyJo @SimplyJo (1694) • India 27 Jan 07

Once you mark the best response in any of your discussions it means the discussion is resolved/closed - Do you ever respond to such closed/resolved discussions ? I do respond to these as well. It doesn't matter to me if the best...

discussions

mylot

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abhisree i dont really see whether there is already a best response or not. i simply respond to a discussion if i find it interesting and if i feel i have something to say on it.

28 Jan 07

Would you stay with your partner if he/she went to prison?

somnolence @somnolence (460) • United States 27 Jan 07

I can't imagine ever staying in a relationship with someone who went to prison, unless maybe I knew for a fact (with absolutely no doubt) that they were innocent. I don't understand why people do this.

relationships

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abhisree i think i would stay because i love my partner too much to leave her. its not possible for me to leave her under any circumstances. if she is innocent then there is no doubt and if she has committed a crime even then i would support her and help her rectify...

28 Jan 07