adapots

@adapots (82)

Philippines • Age 49

Joined myLot 16 years ago

"Aim for the moon, if you miss atleast you will land among the brightest star"

Responses (42)

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Having an adopted child in the family.......?

yogambal_64 @yogambal_64 (1014) • India 31 Jul 09

How would your reaction be if you come to know that one of your sister or brother whom you have been thinking is your biological sibling is not one. Would you start hating her/him or would you be as affectionate as you were...

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adapots I think the love and affection is the some coz you love him/her before as a brother and sister. but the different is you are not relatives in blood. If you born and see him/her as a brother and sister i think the love and affection is the same and if he/she...

31 Jul 09

Can you marry someone you don't know?

janzki @janzki (49) • Philippines 27 Jul 09

I just had a friend who planned to marry someone he has not seen yet. They knew each other through phone, they we're introduced by the girl's cousin, they communicated for less than a year then they agreed to get married next year...

marriage

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adapots If they love each other why not! sometimes the love works like that. but there is a big adjustment both parties. there is a big difference of knowing a person through the phone and net than the personal contact. That happened to me i meet my husband through...

28 Jul 09

As you wake up what do you do first?

ramirodelarosa @ramirodelarosa (21) • Philippines 1 May 09

Thanks God it is morning again, He had given me another day to enjoy. The first thing I do is to praise God, then immediately drink water at least 4 glasses because i have read that it is good for ones health them clean up, eat...

morning things

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adapots Yes always thank GOD that we are awake. But what are you doing if you wake up every morning and think all the sad thing happened to you. But i try to cheer my day every morning and cry to wash my eyes. lol then after that i feel ok. Yes water is good. and...

2 May 09

What do you do when you're stressed out!

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 3 Apr 09

I am truly feeling stressed these days, bombarded with problems financially, physically, and emotionally. One way to de-stress myself is by sleeping, but sometimes it's just a way for me to escape but not really face the...

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adapots Wow!I also do that. listening classic music and meditation or relaxing music. Im almost depressed in my entire life. most of the morning i don't feel good coz i woke up early and still in bed and thinking of what happened to my life coz I'm still blaming my...

2 May 09

lover

mhafe09 @mhafe09 (31) • United States 30 Apr 09

Did your partner or lover mention his/her ex-wife/gf/bf name while his/her asleep? Because my beloved husband he did one time!

to my love

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adapots Hmmmmmmm If he is doing like that i suspect that he still love his ex hahhahaha be careful.

2 May 09

has anyone's dream come true or are they just dreams?

akt1843 @akt1843 (207) • India 1 May 09

i have seen uncountable dreams till date but not one has come true. i want to know if anyone's dream has come true in this world?

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adapots Dream is just a dream. sometimes what we had dreamed is opposite of what happened to us and i think dream is only a guide in our life and it's depend on how are we going to interpret that. Their are dream that we always dream in life that remain a dream....

2 May 09

Kiss with a smoker?

kodigo @kodigo (171) • Philippines 26 Apr 09

Had an ex-girlfriend before. She is a smoker. Kissing her after she smoke isn't good. It's like something is wrong with the taste. I'm not a smoker so I think its the problem that is why I don't like kissing her. After my...

kiss me

lovers in paris

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adapots I don't like to kiss an ASH TRAY!!!!!!!!! I don't like smoker'sssss!!1 If a woman is smoker she must have a smoker bf vice versa! so they taste each other smoke taste.Wahahahahahaha

27 Apr 09

Auto or Manual Cars?

allentcl82 @allentcl82 (590) • Singapore 8 Feb 09

Do you drive auto or manual cars? Which do you prefer to drive? Personally, i prefer auto cars, it makes things so much simpler without a clutch, with just the accelerator and brake, i feel much more focus on the road! Ok, i...

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adapots mmmm driving is fun! If you want to drive very smoothly I like to drive an automatic car. BUT if you drive like fast driving like a racing then i like a manual car.

8 Feb 09

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Money to Give

kellys3ps @kellys3ps (3723) • United States 4 Dec 08

If you had $100,000 to give away, to what person(s) or organization(s) would you give it?

give away

money

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adapots If i have $100 to give I will to my mother.I know she would happy on that. coz i did not give money to her and she need money. lol

8 Feb 09

Are you 100% happy with your life?

natromana @natromana (44) • Malta 3 Feb 09

Is there anyone here that can tell me they are 100% happy with there life? That you have no regrets? No dreams that never came true? No goals that you never managed to finished? Can anyone actually say that there is nothing more...

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adapots No one is perfect in this world! NO ONE! We feel happy in different way but! still we are finding something things. as I can say no one is perfect.

4 Feb 09

Married and NO ROMANCE!

mariedenae @mariedenae (335) • United States 2 Feb 09

So I have been married going on 4 years, and we have 3 children. They are 3, 2, and 1. Lately, there is NO ROMANCE with myself and my husband!!!! HOW CAN THIS BE?! We are both under 30 (he will be 30 next year, and I just turned...

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adapots Wow!! You are very young to stop that thing! and 30 years old it doesn't mean he is old 30 is still young. I think there is a problem between you and your husband you must talk about it communication is the best solution of all problem. Ask him why and talk...

3 Feb 09

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another side of LIFE

ammie07 @ammie07 (322) • India 12 Jan 09

sometimes when someone feels very lonely and thinks that nothing is in his/her favour and everything looks dark then that person gets into depression or may be sometimes gets aggressive and behaves rudely. so what you guys think...

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adapots WILL that's life we in counter a lot of trials in life but sad to say if we are on that trial, we can't think the right thing to do. what we think is negative but if we pass that trial we feel good and complete.

13 Jan 09

I recently knew that its hard for me to get pregnant, how should I tell my bf?

kaliyha @kaliyha (591) • Philippines 16 Dec 08

From my observation, I've notice that my boyfriend adores kids. This can be seen by how he dotes on his nieces and nephews. I have a hormonal problem and my ovaries are abnormal. My doctor said that it would be hard for me to get...

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adapots Hi! kaliyha you must talk to your boyfriend that you went to a doctor and told him what is the finding of the doctor. you must tell him before anything else he has the right to know and its good for you tell him the truth and then and there you can see how...

17 Dec 08

Is it happenning to you?

edujccz @edujccz (929) • Philippines 12 Dec 08

I was supposed to forget this but it always happen to me. I am a married man at 48 and lately, I met a girl at 26 in a party, I noticed that she is finding ways that we talk, assuming that it was a business talk so i agreed. But...

girl proposing

proposal

text message

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adapots No no no no no! Don't do anything that hurt your family specially your wife. NO no!!!!!!! I think you are a lucky guy that most of women look at you and they like you. "BUT" that not a reason that you can do it. Think always your family they are only a...

13 Dec 08

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Do you sleep with the lights on?

Valadynx123 @Valadynx123 (278) • Philippines 5 Dec 08

For me, I always turn the lights off before going to sleep. There were a time when I had a nightmare and I switched the lights on. It was a very bad nightmare that scared me so I turned on the lights as I slept until I woke up the...

sleep nightmare light

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adapots I can't sleep without light. before i sleep if the light is on but one time that i have a very scare nightmare i start to sleep with the light. NOw i can't sleep if the light is off s[ecially if im alone in my room.

5 Dec 08

Money to Give

kellys3ps @kellys3ps (3723) • United States 4 Dec 08

If you had $100,000 to give away, to what person(s) or organization(s) would you give it?

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adapots If i have a $100,000 to give i will give to the children for their s school and to the parents that abandomed by their children. I dont like to give to an organization i want that im the one who give to them and for what purpose. If ever i wgive to the...

5 Dec 08

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Exchanging gifts - do you include your friends in this tradition?

mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 30 Nov 08

The holidays are coming, no matter what you celebrate! Do you shop for your friends as well as your family, just your best friends, or do you only celebrate with friends instead of giving gifts?

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adapots giving gifts is a tradition during christmas i do that every christmas. i give gift to my parents even its a small thing and they appreciate that to my family and cousin's and friend but not all of them i normally give to the kids coz they wait that month. but...

1 Dec 08

Are You selfish ?

musthafa510 @musthafa510 (77) • India 29 Nov 08

Do you ever think about why are most of the people so selfish?

people

selfish

you

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adapots i think the selfish people becouse they only think of their self they don't care what are the feelings of others. and i think also they did not feel of true love from their family friends or even they did not feel from other that they are important person in...

1 Dec 08

Life without friends is more better..

Tshirtkoyak @Tshirtkoyak (86) • Malaysia 29 Nov 08

I dont think that friends can help us in every single thing in our life..sometimes we need time to be alone and dont need somebody to disturb us..am i right.?

life without friends

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adapots no we need friends what ever happen to us. friend can understand us and if you want to be alone then we can tell our friend that we wanted to be alone and that goood friend of ours he/she understand us they can live us alone. Don't think that we don't need...

1 Dec 08

Washing Clothes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

dinkan53 @dinkan53 (99) • Ukraine 1 Dec 08

How many of you used to wash your own clothes?I mean not in a washing machine,with your own hands!How many of you had thoughts that how nice if you had a girlfriend to help u out or have enough money to buy a washing machine,while...

cloth

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adapots yes im not satisfied of using a wahing machine coz i think the dirt is still there. I normally do a handwash but sometimes now i used a wahing machine coz i feel a bcak pain when i do a handwash and its take a time. if you have a gf doing handwash i think...

1 Dec 08