AFI34974

@AFI34974 (61)

United States • Age 34

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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First and last love

pbbbsra @pbbbsra (1214) • Philippines 22 Jul 11

I am proud to say that i ended up marrying my first love. i fell in love at the age of 22 and ended up marrying. that moment sparkes came and i told myself i cannot let this man go... i cannot live without this man. this is the...

love

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AFI34974 That's very rare, so consider yourself lucky! I sadly did not end up with my first love. Two years into the relationship he finally admitted that everything was a lie, and walked out. So, I guess it's a good thing I didn't end up with him. Who wants to live a...

22 Jul 11

Charging Maids for Damaged Properties

Graceekwenx @Graceekwenx (3160) • Philippines 22 Jul 11

To those of you who have housemaids, do you charge your maids for any damaged property; like for example, charging them for accidentally breaking expensive chinaware or charging them for incorrect plugging electronic stuff at 220...

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AFI34974 If it was truly an accident and it didn't happen often, I may let it slide. It also depends on how expensive it was. A $20 plate isn't all that important, a simple scolding would do. But if she broke a $1000 television or something, she would pay for it, and I...

22 Jul 11

Best Ever TV Show

dmiangrcia @dmiangrcia (29) • Spain 2 Jul 11

Which TV Show you consider the best of all times? Some say Friends, which as a comedy is amazing, but is one of those shows that don't keen a story through so sometimes gets boring... Some say CSI, and it is really great, but...

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AFI34974 I really love both House and NCIS. The Sopranos is good too, but honestly not my cup of tea, I prefer the medical drama or the mystery drama. So, if you haven't seen them already, check out "House" and "NCIS" on Hulu and see if you like them :)

2 Jul 11

Can you live without your TV or computer for one day?

Fireheart @Fireheart (683) • India 30 Jun 11

For me, in a way it possible and not possible too, although i never tried it out, what if just simply taking a challenge to avoid both computer and tv in your life, i ask of you for one day, can you do it. People nowadays are so...

can you do it

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AFI34974 I could live without the TV since I never watch it anyway, but NEVER my computer! Honestly, I'd have to say my computer is my life. If I'm awake, I'm on the computer. Sometimes I'm even asleep on the computer, haha :P But no, if I had to give up my computer I...

30 Jun 11

Do you accept the request of unknown person in facebook

1anurag1 @1anurag1 (3576) • India 30 Jun 11

Do you accept the request of unknown person in facebook. I don’t get many request of unknown people on facebook, but some time there are request from them. I am in state of irony whether to accept or not. but at the end I accept...

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AFI34974 I get them constantly, and I usually do accept. Most of my random friend requests have to do with the games I play on Facebook, where you need lots of "helpers". I'm not too worried about it.

30 Jun 11

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Is it safe to buy items in eBay?

heaven921 @heaven921 (68) • Denmark 30 Jun 11

I am an internet surfer an certified shopper, well if it's fit with my mood and budget. But I've come across this eBay site. Is it safe to buy items here? I mean, for example if you want to buy products like lotion, creams,...

ebay

online shopping

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AFI34974 eBay is really safe! I usually don't buy liquid things, or things that can be added to like lotion, but almost all of my electronics and such come from eBay. You must keep in mind that not all of the eBay sellers are personal, there are some stores on there...

30 Jun 11

Are Atheists scared of dying?

mathikyu @mathikyu (46) • Malaysia 21 Feb 11

Many people who follow a religion are not scare of dying, their many concern is to be good in this world and the after would be good. Some even look forward to it. SO , I was wandering if atheist think that their is no life after...

atheist

god

thinker

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AFI34974 I am an atheist and I personally am not afraid of dying. As I see it, it's simply the end of an era, so to speak. Because I believe there is nothing after I die, I am working as hard as I can to make this life one worth living. Therefor, hopefully by the time...

30 Jun 11

Why do you think athiests are looked down upon in society?

oscar6 @oscar6 (1938) • United States 13 Jun 11

Whenever I tell people I am an athiest they give me a wierd look or try to convert me. Why do you think that athiests are looked down upon?

athiests in society

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AFI34974 I'm very looked down upon here where I live, because almost everyone here was born and bred on religion and most of them had never even seen an atheist before me. One woman actually asked me what atheism was! I think we're looked down upon because of the way...

30 Jun 11

Depression taking too long, or not?

ieniemienie @ieniemienie (232) • Netherlands 30 Jun 11

Hello my fellow mylotters, Should be starting with, this friend of mine... But it is about me so who am I kidding? I wanted to ask you and please be honest but kind, how long will it take to recover from a severe...

depression

medication

therapy

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AFI34974 Sometimes people never recover. I personally never really "recovered" from depression, I only learned to deal with it through medication. You seem to have an anxiety disorder, which comes with depression. There are medications, but it's bad to over-medicate,...

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How do you usually spend your whole day?

Oldsix691418 @Oldsix691418 (3872) • China 29 Jun 11

I'm not rich enough,so I have to live my plain life.I want to travel all over the world,but in fact I haven't been to the capital of my country yet. My work can bring me only about 400 dollars each...

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AFI34974 I am a student, so if I am not doing school work out of school, I am doing school work IN school! I am happy with this though, because I love to learn. I wish you all the luck with your home, workplace, and grove :)

30 Jun 11

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Am I Protecting Them Too Much?

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85285) • Valdosta, Georgia 29 Jun 11

I am protective over my kids like most parents are. I don't want them to get hurt or upset in any way. I think I might carry it a little overboard so I just want to see what all of you think as well. Right now I am talking...

feelings

kids

protection

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AFI34974 To an extend I can understand and agree with what you're doing, because I myself have a lot of emotional trauma because of similar things that my father told me. In my case they were promises about his alcoholism. However, I think that children, in order to be...

30 Jun 11

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Survey says....!

Peaches and Herbs @lipstick2009 (1236) • Philippines 29 Jun 11

Although I have read some negative feedbacks about survey online jobs, I just can't resist some well-presented advertisements about this and that survey website. There was this survey site saying I get a $1 bonus upon...

surveys

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AFI34974 So far the only legit sites I've come across are OpinionPlace and Mylot. If you haven't already, you could try OpinionPlace, they have surveys up to $7 a piece and there's no catch. It goes directly into your Paypal after you finish the survey. Good luck!

29 Jun 11

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do you think the taste of friuts,vegetables and milk are not the same now?

HDHORDA4 @HDHORDA4 (679) • India 28 Jun 11

i think that the real taste of friuts and vegetables has lost due to the harmfulchemicals and fertilizers being put in to excess in them.nothing is spared now everything that we eat is not the "original" it contains harmful...

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AFI34974 I definitely think things taste different now. I'm not sure if it's because of chemicals in my case since I started noticing the tastes after I got sick, but I agree with you fully about the diseases. It would be nice if we could go back to the old days when...

28 Jun 11

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Is There A Pet In Your Life Has Influenced You A Lot.

angelsword @angelsword (73) • India 12 Jun 11

This question is to all animal lovers and pet owners out there. Have you had any pet like my Squeeky whom I lost once in the woods, but who has influenced me a lot. Please share your experiences.

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AFI34974 I used to be very afraid of snakes, but then I got to hold a python and ended up falling in love with them. I got one of my own, his name is Hades and he's a very trusty little fella. Before him, I has a lot of phobias of different animals, but now that I've...

28 Jun 11

How do you feel about shock collars?

Angel @Angelee_27 (3460) • United States 24 Jun 11

Hi fellow myLotters, How do you feel about shock collars for dogs, and other similar devices like shock mats? Do you think they are good to use? Personally, I dislike them. I think it is a form of animal abuse. In my...

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AFI34974 I agree with you. Also, for the most part, they don't even work. My boyfriend's dog was run over even though she had a shock collar on, and all because his family was too cheap and lazy to put up a fence. In my opinion, if you're going to have a pet, you...

28 Jun 11

what is the sweetest material gift that your partner gave to you?

bhonti @bhonti (1246) • Philippines 28 Jun 11

Last Valentines day, my boyfriend gave me a dozen of red roses with a small teddy bear in the middle. I was so touched because I love flowers so much! I even took pictures of it so that even though the flowers withered and...

red roses flowers teddy bear valentines day

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AFI34974 My boyfriend would randomly do things for me throughout the year, and it was usually things that were bought. But one time he, as silly as it sounds, actually made me a really big card by hand while I was feeling under the weather. It was so sweet, I cried for...

28 Jun 11

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I Have A Missing Turtle

margeryann @margeryann (1845) • United States 28 Jun 11

I'm having a strange day. I have 3 pet water turtles. I've had them for 2 years now.I go to feed them today and one is missing. I looked all over the gravel, the surface of the water and the turtle ramp that they sleep on. I...

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AFI34974 It's probably dug itself down into the gravel, turtles are weird like that sometimes. Once my turtle actually ran away...I dare say that the "slow" idea is a myth! Literally in a minute he was completely gone. Do you have other pets? That could explain his...

28 Jun 11

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What would you rather prefer online school or going to a regular school???

l0vxXmusic @l0vxXmusic (179) • United States 28 Jun 11

I would like some opinions about people who have tried online school?. what is it like?? is it better then regular school??

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AFI34974 It depends on the personality of who is taking it. I took online school over the summer in between regular school and loved it because it kept me busy. However, I could never take only online school because being in the house all the time makes me depressed....

28 Jun 11