alfred8

@alfred8 (61)

China • Age 43

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Resolutions or Bust

chulce @chulce (1537) • United States 31 Dec 10

I always hear of many people creating a "New Year's" Resolution. But, I never hear of anyone who has been successful at completing that resolution. It is really interesting that it seems to be more popular to start and then not...

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alfred8 I never created a new-year solution,Perhaps I worry I will be disapponted if it doesn't come ture.Besides,after repeating several times I may get used to results.That will be the biggest failure.I also tend to make some little resolutions that can be achieved...

31 Dec 10

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White Peach and Almond roll on from Marks and Spencer

Metatronik @Metatronik (6199) • Pasay, Philippines 26 Dec 10

Have you tried to use this roll on? This has unique sweet smell that will stick to your under arms the whole day even if you are sweat. Not only that even the next day you are not using it there will be a bit good odor that will...

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alfred8 How many kinds of the smell do rolls have in marks and spencer?You know everyone has his/her favourate smell.Sometimes if I use sanitizers with smell I don't like,that may cause bad mind until I wash my hands again.I guess roll is like sanitzier I usually...

26 Dec 10

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Why do you give Christmas presents to your boss and not to your co-workers?

CrimsonRain @CrimsonRain (336) • United States 26 Dec 10

I work at two companies and noticed that the bosses always get Christmas presents from their underlings but the underlings don't give Christmas presents to one another. Or if ever, the bosses still get the better ones (like Parker...

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alfred8 Underlings by nature need to please their bosses, so buying their bosses good presents is just one of the ways in which they have to do.But if they give the coworkers presents not as good as bosses',they will lose harmonious relationship with coworkers,and be...

26 Dec 10

city vendor permits

bigcgifts @bigcgifts (87) • United States 25 Dec 10

how is this for something that is counter productive. Our city coucil passed an ordinance that requires beggers or panhandlers to pay 25 dollars for a permit to hold signs and ask for help. yes you read it right. a homeless person...

permit vendor homeless money

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alfred8 I often come across many panhandlers in big city where I am living.From appearance, I am unable to judge who are real panhandlders and who are not.Sometimes I want to hand out in mercy, but with mind I may be not cheated I can not decide whether I do that.

25 Dec 10

Do you think the economy is improving?

asyria51 @asyria51 (2861) • United States 25 Dec 10

I was hearing reports that spending was up 3.3% for the holiday season, people are buying cars and houses again, but is it just the calm in the storm, like the eye of a hurricane, or are we really through the worst of it? Me...

economy

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alfred8 I thought little about economy before.But recently my coworkers whispered about slump of company and how long it could exist.All that I heard made me worried about my job in future.Maybe soon my boss would ask me to his room and tell me I have to leave company...

25 Dec 10

tired of my life,,,,!!

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 25 Dec 10

have you ever feel sometimes once in your life that you are tired? coz i am now, im tired to love someone,coz it will hurt me at the end, im tired to understand my father in terms of having a boyfriend, im tired to look...

tired

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alfred8 I also tend to be tired when encoutering something unhappy.And i would like to keep me in separated places to let me calm down. Soon I am able to adjust my mind not to think more.I suppose everyone's life is unable to smooth all the time and is going on with...

25 Dec 10

Songs before sleep ..???

gengeni @gengeni (3308) • Indonesia 25 Dec 10

Are you the type of person who often or even always listening to music before bedtime? If yes, whether through computers, television, radio, dvd, mobile phone or your iPod? Where preferred, use a headset or directly from the...

sleep

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alfred8 I often listen to music using mobile phone with a headset if I can not get to sleep quickly. But I would not like to listen too long, or I will become more sleepless. I prefer Soft songs that can lead me to sweet dreams.

25 Dec 10

Do you think there should be greater censorship of the Arts in your country?

mayrah @mayrah (1144) • United States 25 Dec 10

I believe art is a way of showing people that you have talent to be appreciated. However sometimes for the sake of Arts there's a tendency that people violate the decency or morality taught by church. Sometimes they go beyond the...

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alfred8 If the arts are shown for business profit, the censorship is necessary to avoid negative effects in pulic.Taking movie for a example, it need to be graded before showing.You know some moives are not suitable to children.

25 Dec 10

self-confidence.

DoctorDidi @DoctorDidi (7018) • India 24 Dec 10

I have no hesitation to admit that I am lacking in self-confidence. Sometimes I feel extremely nervous and fail to control in spite of being fully aware that it is not good and rather harmful. Can you suggest any remedy for it?...

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alfred8 You should carry out training your self-confidence in daily life.First you need figure out what cause you lacking in self-confidence, and confront them calmly.I believe you may often meet some public actities, you need hold every chance to speck out your...

24 Dec 10

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do you think plastic surgery is an option for who are less fortunate in looks?

fgb_fritz @fgb_fritz (278) • Philippines 23 Dec 10

i think yes, because most of the jobs today are looking for the applicants who have pleasing personality, this is so unfair, but admit it. this is the reality..

beauty

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alfred8 We have to admit that a good looking really affects job hunting in reality.But I think it is not most important and can't guarantee people to be good workers in future. In Contrary, now that they much focus on their lookings, they would not concentrate on...

24 Dec 10

i always donot know what is the best way to dealing things!

callofwind2010 @callofwind2010 (70) • China 22 Dec 10

well,maybe this could be rusluted to be " skills". When facing problems, i donot know how to deal and was afraid of making that screwed. Some decisions are not be made by me, but my workmate, because she is the niece of our boss,...

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alfred8 I suppose you should learn to deal with your things by yourself.Other people can only give you advice but not decisions.The way of dealing with things is various.And Everyone needs get the most suitable one to self from carrying out.In other words, people...

23 Dec 10

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Are you working towards a certain goal here on mylot?

asyria51 @asyria51 (2861) • United States 20 Dec 10

What is your goal? I do not have a specific goal perse. Any money that i earn here, will be transferred into my santa saver account. Ideally, i would like to make $30 or $40 dollars on this site alone over the next several months....

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alfred8 Actually I am a very simple perason and living a solitary life though I have a wife who loves me so much.I am not good at making friends in real life because I may be afraid of being hurt and hurting others.So I want to be here for other kind of world full of...

20 Dec 10

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Do you clear your credit card debt each month or only pay the minimum payment?

asxenon @asxenon (1440) • Malaysia 15 Dec 10

Most of us do have credit cards nowadays and i feel like credit card actually brings more benefit to us as we don't have to bring so much cash and the tendency of being robbed is minimized for that. However, recently i heard that...

credit card payment

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alfred8 Recengly I often receive messages from credit card's sevice office that are full of ads. I am harassed too much because the messages' ring often awake me at midnight, and during the rest of the night I can't sleep again.I complained about this to service...

15 Dec 10

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What kind o f movies do you like?

yoniarnon @yoniarnon (1079) • Israel 11 Dec 10

I like mostly Comedy movies, because it's funny and makes good time, and after i watch them i feel good. Drama movies sometimes make me feel sad.. And Horror movies in general i don't understand why to watch it... So what kind...

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alfred8 I also fancy comedy movies.They are able to take my mind off the stresful work ,and make me pleased again when misfortune happens to me.They cheer me up

11 Dec 10

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My little sister knows I smoke now! =(

maezee @maezee (41988) • United States 8 Dec 10

..but I told her I was trying to quit. I've been a pack-a-day smoker for about 2 years now.. And I've hid it the whole time from my 8 year old sister, Leah, until last week - when she and her mother happened to be...

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alfred8 Now that your habit of smoking disapoints your little sister, you should do more to get her trust.First you need make a decision of quiting it, if you get your sister to supervise in the coming days, it will be easier to let her how important your trust is to...

8 Dec 10

Will you try to get the same old phone number in case you lost it?Why?

dragonangel @dragonangel (551) 7 Dec 10

Hi friends!I ran into an old friend today and he asked me if I still use the same telephone number.I wanted to tell him that I have already changed my number sveral times since I often lost my phone.Whenever I loose it,I just go...

phone numbers

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alfred8 I will get the old phone number becuse when your friends call you, you can save their numbers that have been lost.That way you can rebuild most of the contacts.

7 Dec 10

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Pearl Harbor Day

MakingCents @MakingCents (743) 7 Dec 10

For all the USA people on here, did you hear much about Pearl Harbor today? Today is the 'date which will live in infamy" and yet I barely heard mention of it. I know we live in an era where kids in this country barely know what...

pearl harbor

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alfred8 Speaking of Pearl harbor Day,we surely never forget what happend that day in World war.But thinking about the world pattern and relationship between Japan and USA,it is wrong time to emphasize the event.

7 Dec 10

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