analupinho

@analupinho (34)

Portugal • Age 36

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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What should I do?

Alex18 @Alex18 (169) • United States 16 Feb 09

Hope everyone is having a great day! :) I had been dating a girl long distance. I live in the U.S. and she lives in the philippines. This morning she was on yahoo messenger and I was asleep so the messages she sent me I...

love

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analupinho Hi! I think you must consider the fact that she can no longer be in love with you if she has another bf. I don't mean to be rude, but I think reality hits hard in these situations... I know many people who have long distance relationships and honestly the...

16 Feb 09

Did you ever have the nervous habit of biting your nails?

moneymommy @moneymommy (3418) • United States 8 Feb 09

I used to bite my nails all through my childhood,teen years and into my twenties. I believe this to be a form of anxiety and a habit. One day in my late twenties I just stopped without even trying. I have not bite my nails since...

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analupinho I have never bited my nails. Actually, I think that's a terrible habit, and this could sound futile, but I couldn't even think of what it is not to get my nails done, because when I look at them all long and painted it's such a satisfaction to me. Besides, I...

8 Feb 09

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Do you have time for reading?

anetteh @anetteh (3590) • Sweden 6 Feb 09

Now days with the internet connection, I wonder how many of us have the time to read books. I usually did read books before I discovered how much fun it is to be connected and online. I found myself thinking I have not even read...

books

reading books

time for reading

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analupinho I always take the time to dive into some pages of my books at night because it is when I let go of all my problems and frustrations. I couldn't go to sleep without reading, as it settles me down for a good night sleep and keeps me in touch with everything else...

6 Feb 09

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if you have a friend who cheats on their spouse, what do you do?

doc_alma_jones @doc_alma_jones (822) • Philippines 4 Feb 09

it's there, your friend is your friend. that person is great to you. but what do you do when your friend tells you he/ she is cheating on his/ her spouse? and what if he/ she looks at it as a "human" thing? do you give...

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analupinho Something like that never happened to me, but you have too see, if your friend who's cheating on his wife is more important to you than his wife, than you should consider not to tell her, but still try to encourage your friend not to do that, giving him some...

5 Feb 09

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Do you think that love is more important than security? Why?

Jenaisle @Jenaisle (14078) • Philippines 3 Feb 09

Would you trade security for love? or would you select love over security? I, for one, would select love because I believe that love is the answer to all problems. If I happen to fall in love with a poor man, who has no financial...

love

security

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analupinho I don't share your opinion, because I could fall deeply in love with a drug dealer knowing he'd never change, although he loved me very much too. I could get killed by some of the people he were in debt with and I'd never live safely, although I had good...

4 Feb 09

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What do you do whenever you're feeling insecured?

rychelle314 @rychelle314 (285) 9 Feb 08

Do you ever feel insecured? A lot of us hides our insecurities through various defense mechanisms, like that infamous bully in school, that snobbish next-door girl, that self-righteous bloke we know, etc. etc... the thing is a lot...

insecurities

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analupinho I can be very insecure at times and I always try to hide it shutting myself off to the world, or being aggressive to people because I don't want them to notice I'm vulnerable, as you said. But I guess that vulnerability is what allows people to enter your...

4 Feb 09

Do you take the phone?

missybear @missybear (11391) • United States 4 Feb 09

You know when you got to go to the Bathroom you just got to go. What if you expecting a phone call and you really have to go? Do you take the phone with you or do you hope they don't call while you in there? My...

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analupinho I sometimes take the cellphone with me when I go to the bathroom, especially when I'm going to have a shower and I'm expecting a call for someone really important to me. It even happened once that I dropped my cellphone down on the toillet and I was so shocked...

4 Feb 09

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Forgiveness

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 4 Feb 09

What are your feelings on the subject of forgiveness? Are you the sort who can forgive anybody pretty much anything? Does it depend on what they did? On how repentant they are? On how close you are to them? Have you ever...

forgiveness

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analupinho When I forgive someone I always think I'll have to forget, because if it isn't so I wouldn't be confortable with myself and I'd prefer not to forgive. I always take the time to ponder what I might lose and what I might get forgiving, and if it's worthy the...

4 Feb 09

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If you saw an animal locked in a hot vehicle, what would you do?

yparson @yparson (581) • United States 4 Feb 09

If you were passing by a car on the street or parking lot on a very hot summer day and saw a poor dog inside a hot vehicle with the window cracked slightly- what would you do? Would you try to find the owner, would you try to get...

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analupinho Hi! I'm from Portugal and I have to say that things don't move very quickly on that issue round here. I always watch "Animal Hospital" and I think that's a very dignifying work they're doing, but here in Portugal we don't have associations like that one, as...

4 Feb 09

Do you buy stuff oline???

djemba @djemba (767) • India 4 Feb 09

Just last month i wanted to buy a laptop and i found one o bestbuy at a reasonable cos but later i found that its shipping cost and taxes included will total up to e a huge amount so i gave up the idea and bought a laptop from a...

online

shopping

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analupinho I never bought things on the internet but I have a friend who does, on e-bay, and it seems pretty reliable! She never does her shopping in the "real world", she buys almost everything she wears on e-bay. I think it's a safe, fast and economic way of buying, if...

4 Feb 09

Exactly how many sites do you belong to???

bookreadermom08 @bookreadermom08 (5614) • United States 3 Feb 09

Everyone seems to be coming on and asking about this site or that site, which is fine, because I am just as interested as the next guy on here and want to know, but there are so many out there to choose from...yes some are scams...

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analupinho Well, I had never thought about that but, in fact, I'm a member of many sites, which are fotolog, hi5, myLot and e-bay. I go there everyday, except to e-bay, where I've just recently opened up an account and haven't had the time to visit. If you are...

4 Feb 09

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Shhh

Humbug25 @Humbug25 (12540) 4 Feb 09

I have got a secret but I don't want to tell anyone about it. I don't want to tell anyone because I fear I will be judged as I have made some mistakes about this sort of thing in the past! This time it is different though and when...

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analupinho I'm not good at keeping my secrets. I find it very hard not to express what I'm feeling because, in fact, I'm a very honest person and even if I wouldn't want to tell my friens about something they'd notice it in my eyes. However, recently I started dating...

4 Feb 09

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What's the average age of having gray hair? Do you have one?

wrangel15 @wrangel15 (1443) • Philippines 3 Feb 09

I just discovered yesterday that I have gray hair. I just pull it off my head this morning. I don't know how I got it but I think I am too young to have many of them. I only saw one gray hair but I guess the number will increase...

gray hair

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analupinho I have a friend who's 19 and he already has grey hair! I guess it doesn't have to do with your age, maybe it's genetic. Besides, I find it very sexy, especially on men.

4 Feb 09

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Beggars: to give or not to give?

icecroft @icecroft (449) • Philippines 4 Feb 09

In some places, we see people asking for alms or begging. Are you that person who gives them some spare change or completely ignore them? I sometimes feel guilty when I don't give alms but I'm wary that they're going to use it...

beggars

life

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analupinho First of all, I often see beggars who show physical defects to wring out money from sensible people like I am sometimes. Nevertheless, I don't think that's the right thing to do because it's like your selling your body just because you have a misformation....

4 Feb 09

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What kind of life you want?

maean_19 @maean_19 (4655) • Philippines 4 Feb 09

Assuming that you are given the chance to choose the kind of life you want, how would it be and why? Would you still choose the kind of life you have now? Share to me your opinion and to everyone here who would be able to...

changes

experiences

life

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analupinho I cannot say I'd want to change my life totally, but maybe part of it. However, as Woody Allen would say on the movie Vicky Cristina Barcelona, "I only know what I don't want", and what i don't want is my life to be miserable or uninteresting, so I'll work to...

4 Feb 09

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30 year old girlfriend and 20 year old boyfriend

miyako @miyako (48) • Philippines 3 Feb 09

Is it possible for a 20 year old boy to fell in love with a 30 year old lady? And do you think it's okay?

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analupinho Actually, I've just posted a discussion on that issue. However, mine's a bit different. I totally understand you, since I'm dating a guy who's 20 years older than me. We assume several times that this is not socially accepted, but we can't fight our feelings,...

4 Feb 09

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How selfish are you???

ketybhagat @ketybhagat (4123) • India 2 Feb 09

I have to still find one person who is totally unselfish in life. I too am selfish to some extent, but I also am kind hearted enough to think of others. When I have something a little extra, I tend to share it with the less...

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analupinho I don't consider myself a selfish person. However, at times, I think I could be a bit more altruistic. For example, I have a friend who's studying in a foreign country and he's a really good friend, but when he comes to my country I often prefer to do the same...

3 Feb 09

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