annanina1975

@annanina1975 (32)

Philippines • Age 49

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Love Oneself

edvc77 @edvc77 (2140) • Philippines 4 Nov 12

Do you believe that to love other people, one should love oneself first? What is your opinion about this?

love oneself

love thy neighbor

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annanina1975 I think that it is difficult to love anything and anybody if you don't feel good about yourself or just simply feel good deep down inside your very self.. If you love yourself, you begin to appreciate things around you.. You begin to feel happy about your...

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How can you identify true friends?

edsonluck @edsonluck (11) 17 Aug 12

Friends are everywhere and they are categorized unknowingly in our brain and heart. But true friends are rare species. so how do we pinpoint true friends to let us know which friend is worth keeping for?

donex

jacelle

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annanina1975 I guess when I am young, my friends are real, they are being black and white, what you see is what you get. But as I grow older, I've realized that there are fake people now.. Seldom can you find a real friend.. But, one of the benchmark to know a real and...

17 Aug 12

Spending time together as a family

Pocs39 @Pocs39 (39) 10 Aug 12

It is a way of life nowadays, working, school, dance class or baseball practice, we are all busy. You have your schedule, your husband as his as well as the kids. Do we still spend time together as a family? I'm not just talking...

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annanina1975 Well for my part, I experienced lots of family time when I was young. Now that I'm old, my other siblings had gone out of the house already. I have had memories of our togetherness during meal time, during night time watching our favorite TV series and most of...

15 Aug 12

Are you an adult?

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 5 Aug 12

When did you realize that you were an adult? I'm almost 30 but I still feel like a kid. I know I've changed a lot and obtained experience and knowledge as the years gone by, but I cannot confidently claim myself as an adult. So...

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annanina1975 I guess there are some factors why people still feel like a kid in their adult age life, some of which are if they are the youngest in the family, chances are, they don't age that fast that much; others, when the parents or family members make baby talk or...

6 Aug 12

Misunderstood.

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 20 Feb 11

Yesterday, I said "Welcome back" to someone when they came home. Suddenly the started to act weird and give me some defenses. I got confused to realize that they thought I said "What (do you want)?" instead. I didn't bother to fix...

communication

misunderstood

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annanina1975 Yes, I guess people can be so grumpy at times that they fail to see your good intentions.. Maybe it's because they have a bad mood, it's bad timing, or they are just stressed out that they fail to see the brighter side of life at that time.. Well, some also...

21 Feb 11

what was your dream?

bravowoo @bravowoo (78) • China 18 Oct 10

I know everyone had your own dreams when you were a child. now with your growning age, your dream were still in your mind? for me, I dreamt of being a chemist. At class of the middle school, I found it interesting to know the...

life dream

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annanina1975 When I was young, I would observe the ants, where they go, what they do.. For hours, I would just be looking at them observing.. Then it daunted to me that hey, this is what scientists do, they observe, tests, and make conclusions.. I was young by then, when I...

19 Oct 10

If Today Is Your Last Day Living in Earth, What Is The Last Thing You'll Do?

ivanmarginal @ivanmarginal (675) • Indonesia 17 Oct 10

Just imagine, today is your last day, and you are allowed to do anything you want in your last day. What's that then? Tell us please.

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annanina1975 If today will be my last day on earth, I would spend it with my family, with people dear to me.. We would just be talking, enjoying each others' company.. We would talk about anything, just easy and relaxed talk.. Because well, it may be the only time that...

19 Oct 10

Women are bigger spender than men, do you agree on this?

asxenon @asxenon (1440) • Malaysia 19 Oct 10

I think women generally are bigger spender than men. Just look at the shoe rack and closet, how many shoes and dresses does a woman has and how many does a man has? Why do women spend so much money on this? Imagine a woman...

women spender

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annanina1975 Hahaha! Well, if you count item per item, it seems that women spend a lot more than men do.. But, if you would dig deeply, if you would consider the price of the item, I think men's shoes, wardrobe, etc. are a lot expensive than women.. So, if women have 5...

19 Oct 10

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Nature

mahash19 @mahash19 (9) • India 14 Oct 10

iam a nature lover if i see the senaries i forgot my sadness and i feel very happy my mind get relax that day fully iam had peaceful mind

nature magic

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annanina1975 I feel happy and serene myself if I see a scenery of beaches, trees, rice fields.. It refreshes my spirit.. It brings joy to my soul.. I've found peace and serenity.. Tranquility..

14 Oct 10

Are we all selfish?

kendrathil @kendrathil (308) • India 14 Oct 10

Are we all selfish? Is it that you are selfish when you think of yourself, your kids and your wife? As every action of an individual is related to the self, is selfishness good or bad?

individual

self

selfishness

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annanina1975 I think we should qualify on the word selfish because it connotes negative implication.. And selfishness is being childish, you want everything for your self even though it may be bad for others as long as you get what you want.. But thinking for the good of...

14 Oct 10

Teah them how to fish & they will live a lifetime. How, anyone?

Rainselle @Rainbowliselle (498) • Philippines 10 Sep 10

I do some charity works with my friends. We distribute slippers to the less-fortunate children who live in far-flung areas in our city. At times we distribute school bags and other school supplies. And when the fund is more than...

charity work

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annanina1975 I admired most people who are generous in giving their time and money to our less fortunate brothers and sisters.. Though I think giving them all of those simple things doesn't make them dependents because it's not really their source of day to day living,...

14 Oct 10

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People in the Slums, The Squatters. Are they really uneducated?

Graceekwenx @Graceekwenx (3160) • Philippines 14 Oct 10

Are they uneducated? or simply unlucky? or are they plain lazy? What do you think?

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annanina1975 I think it's just in their environment, the way they speak and act.. But there are also lots of talented people in the slums.. If given a chance, they can do far better or equally with those who haves in the community.. Well, some we may say are lazy or just...

14 Oct 10

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give or received?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 31 Jan 10

Would you prefer to give or to receive? Being given, like a gift or somethings always bring happiness to us,the same as being cared and appreciated. But giving could also give you special kind of happiness,a sense of fulfillment...

choose

give

received

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annanina1975 Well, it's kind of tough question.. Because it both gives the same.. satisfaction, joy, happiness.. love... But for me, I think it depends on the level of satisfaction that you will receive.. the level of love, joy, happiness.. I think anything with love is...

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Giving until it hurts.

ericsoncud @ericsoncud (2) • Philippines 18 Sep 10

"When you are giving it should hurt, and if it does not hurt you are not giving at all". Some of us give out of love, but some give only to extent wherein they are comfortable. Why is this? Is it because of Human nature of self...

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annanina1975 I thought before that giving until it hurts is the right way of giving.. like sacrificing.. But then again I would think, why would you do that when giving.. Isn't giving a joyful occasion? Why be sad when giving, isn't it pride after all? There's a Bible...

14 Oct 10

Are U Giver or A Receiver?

alejasite @alejasite (37) • Philippines 2 Jun 10

For me its better to give than to received , I believed in this saying, which I did in my-life since I was young till now. Its a great feeling when you extend help. Its better to give help than to seek help. Am grateful to GOD for...

giver

helpful

understanding

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annanina1975 The most that I receive when giving is the pleasure in the eyes of all those kids in the streets.. The happiness that they share is the most wonderful feeling a giver can receive.. It makes my heart big.. However, it is also nice to receive gifts.. Especially...

14 Oct 10

iam a giver

mahash19 @mahash19 (9) • India 14 Oct 10

giving is a wonderful one if u give money it will coming to too more if u giving love that will come more and more so giving is a good strategy of our life.

giving strategy

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annanina1975 I was raised into a family of givers.. We would often share on the food on the plate.. Since I was the youngest, my elder brothers and sister would give in to me, they would give their share of food to me.. Since then, I began to give also some of my bread to...

14 Oct 10

Everyone will always have a say no matter how you do it.

totallyundecided @totallyundecided (3190) • Philippines 7 Oct 10

Right or Wrong and whatever. LOL Seriously. Did you ever feel that you know you did something right or wrong perhaps and then someone will share their opinion and would say, "it's suppose to be this way" or "I think it would be...

people

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annanina1975 Uhh.. I share the same sentiments as you do, because it's not my day too.. There are lots of bright people nowadays, and it seems like they all have a thing to say or two.. I'm irritated by all those winning.. As if they know it all.. Or that they are the only...

9 Oct 10

What is friendship?

idroezt @idroezt (7) 8 Oct 10

Hello all... I am new here, and i do not know how to add as friend. Somebody tell me please.. I have a friendship, but just 2 people's on the world. Friendship more than just a friend for me. How about you? give me your reason...

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annanina1975 For me, friendship is like a shoulder to cry on, someone to laugh with, someone to be with, someone who share the same sentiments as you do, or just to be there beside you, for the sake of just being there for you..

9 Oct 10

Friends that stab you in the back...

Riette @Zorrogirl (1502) • South Africa 2 Oct 10

Why do they do it? when you care so much for them and do absolutely everything for them, they go and stab you in the back. Why do people hurt us so much? I don't want to go through this anymore. Is it best to go without friends,...

care

friends

hurt

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annanina1975 People who stabbed you in your back, especially your so called friends, who are nice to you when your in front of them, and then pull you down when you're not around, are not true friends.. Real friends are those who don't put on masks, and are loyal to you...

4 Oct 10

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