archie20

@archie20 (39)

United States • Age 47

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My Relatives' gossip abt my father making our life more miserable :(

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 13 Feb 08

As many of you know i am very much worried about my dad's health. He was hospitalised with ulcers in food pipe.Now he has been discharged but we are awaiting the result of the biopsy done. it is taking a lot of pressure on my...

gossip

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archie20 Dont worry your father will be just fine.Relatives can be cruel sometimes. why dont u tell then when u need their input u will ask and not to disturb u now. Its better to be blunt then get hurt later. Anybody is not worth losing your peace of mind in such...

13 Feb 08

what is more inportant to you in you career?salary,interest or promotion

lisa_wxy @lisa_wxy (393) • China 4 Sep 07

when i just graduated from college,i thought that interests must be a prior factor of considering a job. i like english,and i really want to find a job related english,such as international business trader or translator....but my...

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archie20 I would say interest . Then only promotion and pay follows

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Need some advice... here's my story

wisconsin26 @wisconsin26 (3859) • United States 29 Jul 07

I need some advice people the more the better... Here is my story.. Yesterday I noticed a truck come down my road and went threw my drive way a few times.. Well i come to find out this person (male) raped women he was in prison...

advice

rape

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archie20 I would just call the cops and have them keep an eye on him.

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How to Fold a Fitted Sheet

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45942) • United States 29 Jul 07

One of the many tasks I have in my job duties is doing laundry for those who can no longer accomplish this on their own. I don't mind doing laundry or folding it when it is done. But, folding a fitted sheet in a neat fashion has...

folding clothes

instructions

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archie20 Thanks for the link. Its a pain to fold a fitted sheet and i hate crumpled and creased sheet . Its like trial and error to get it right in a few shots. Thanks

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How do you feel when...

wooitsmolly @wooitsmolly (3613) • United States 16 Jul 07

...people hit on you online? I often get messages from men hitting on me and although it's flattering, sometimes I get creeped out by it! Especially if he is a lot older than me (I'm 21). I get the most messages from guys who are...

people

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archie20 I feel its disgusting. They look for cheap entertainment and where else to find but the net. Its a menace.

16 Jul 07

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Do you think your partner is smarter than you and does it bother you if they are

chileman @chileman (967) • Australia 15 Jul 07

I have a good job but didn't really get a chance for any extra education after school as my parents back then couldn't afford it. My wife did secretarial studies and I believe is smarter than me anyway in many things. Doies it...

education

partner

smarter

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archie20 Compatibility is what that shud matter. Not anything else. I personally wud be proud of my spouse,if he is smarter than me.But hey ,thats the way i feel and i think there are some people who dont to. No big deal.Its their personality. I wud personally...

16 Jul 07

wish me luck...

katied1985 @katied1985 (147) 15 Jul 07

well the day is here... i am due to go back to work tomorrow after being off for nearly 1 1/2 years with postnatal depression..Im actually looking forward to it but i have been back a few times before now and always ended up...

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archie20 First of all congrats on going back to work. You can do it.Why dont u try to get a makeover and change your wardrobe a little. It will change your whole perspective and u will be excited to work.

16 Jul 07

The difficulties of being vertically challanged....

twilight021 @twilight021 (2059) • United States 12 Jul 07

I'm not a tall person...not at all. In fact I'm only about 5ft tall...and I don't where heels or platform shoes or anything like that, so yeah, I'm pretty short. One thing I have realized is that the world is not a friendly...

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archie20 Hey dont worry about not being tall. I myself am 5ft 6 in tall. You need to be confident about yourself.i myself cannot reach so many shelves in shopping centers. I do ask for help.Why dont u try using platform heels . start from maybe 1 inch heels and get...

13 Jul 07

If you think your kids are safe on thee internet ,,, read this xx

weemam @weemam (13372) 11 Jul 07

This was E-mailed to me by a friend tonight and I just had to post it to warn you all ,it is really scary . Put your parental controls on or watch what your kids are doing , please watch them carefully xxx EVERYONE NEEDS TO...

plese watch them carefully xx

softball

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archie20 Oh my God .Poor kids. I will tell about this to all i know.

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I give my kids chores to do, am I a slavedriver?

snoopy04 @snoopy04 (718) • United States 11 Jul 07

When I was growing up my brother and I have chores, now that I have kids each child has chores of their own. I believe that it teaches them responsbility and maturity as well. I want my kids to realize that no one is going to hand...

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archie20 You are definitely doing the right thing. The kids will learn to be more giving this way. otherwise imagine when they get married . My husband is a classic example. He is the baby of the house although he is over 30. He is youngest so everybody has pampered...

12 Jul 07

Annoying friend?

Sushicook @Sushicook (690) • Sweden 11 Jul 07

Ever had a friend that is getting on your nervs so much, but you don't want to break it of with him/her because he has his fun moments? I have a friend just like that. We are complete opposites, and every time I talk to him...

friend

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archie20 i had one like that . When i moved from that place i stopped having contact with her. She acted like a nut almost all the times. ASking about everything about everybody and poking her nose where it was not required.

12 Jul 07

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Do you think I am asking too much?

patgalca @patgalca (18424) • Orangeville, Ontario 11 Jul 07

When my husband proposed to me he told me he already had the wedding band as well because he bought the set. He also told me he bought them off a friend whose engagement broke off. So my rings are virtually secondhand. A couple...

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archie20 This is really a case with some men. My husband didnt even buy me a ring. Of course in our religion its a choice. But he got one from me.His family is a series of tightwads who weigh money theirs and others to satisfy their wishes and needs. I think if your...

12 Jul 07

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Would you be a little suspicious with this?

brendalee @brendalee (6082) • United States 11 Jul 07

Okay, so lets say you have a 15 year old son and he has been bugging you for about a week to exchange some change for him into bills or at least take him to the bank. He says its only about $22 that he wants exchanged. He tells...

money

saving change

teenagers

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archie20 Why dont u ask him how he got it and without his knowledge cross check with people whom he worked for. With kids you can never be sure.How is he otherwise. If he is a good boy still cross check and be relieved.

12 Jul 07

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Where did you get married (court, church, temple,...)??

cutieepie @cutieepie (35) • India 30 Jan 07

Where did you get married (in court, church, temple,...)?? At which place & country did you get married?

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archie20 I got married in a marriage hall in bangalore.5 days before the tradional wedding i had a court wedding for my immigration purpose.

12 Jul 07

why do children start retorting back in their teens?

lp_apudi @lp_apudi (39) • India 10 Jul 07

Dear friends, I have two sons. One is 21 and the other is 18. With both of them I faced this situation. Until 14-15 years both of them were like good children who used to consider why elders are saying something. But from 15...

why children behave different in teens

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archie20 that is an awkward age where they are not kids anymore nor they are grown up. But they chose not to believe they are still to get experience and act like know alls. Hey i did and anybody in that age will do.only thing is we need to pick our battles and deal...

11 Jul 07

Would you let your child help in decorating his room?

snoopy04 @snoopy04 (718) • United States 10 Jul 07

I am going to be helping a friend decorate her sons room but I feel like she is taking over and decorating it the way she wants it done not the way her would like it. He asked her if he could have his room decorated in cars items...

bedrooms

decorating

famalies

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archie20 Yes.I would listen to my kid and decorate the way he wants. He is going to spend the most time in the room and he shud have a say.

11 Jul 07

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Which Do You Prefer In Using: Backpack or Shoulder Bag?

diannebcrs @diannebcrs (1549) • Philippines 11 Jul 07

In college, most ladies I see use shoulder bags. They say it would make them look really grown up - and it's fashion.. But I'd like to use my old backpack in high school because I have a lot of things to bring - and it's easier to...

backpacks

bags

college

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archie20 no definitely not. You shud use what you like. i remember when i was studying for my undergrad all my classmates changed their bags to the then trend ones. But i used my backpack and they mocked me. I didnt care as i liked using my backpack and you dont live...

11 Jul 07

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