arnouardian

@arnouardian (286)

United States • Age 40

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Love and family

labea17 @labea17 (443) • Philippines 8 Jan 12

I'm in a committed relationship with a man. He lives in the United States, and I am here in the Philippines. I want to be with him and spend the rest of my life with him. However, I am not sure how I should tell my parents that I...

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arnouardian hi labea, I am sure you should tell your parents about your plan, simply because you should respect them as your parents. they help you grow up since you were kid until you meet this man from United States. moreover, wedding is a very big event in...

8 Jan 12

food addition

HONEYPALS @HONEYPALS (270) • Nairobi, Kenya 8 Jan 12

I must drink a whole litre of coca cola everyday...if I do not I really crave for it...is this dangerous...and is there anything I can do to stop the craving?

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arnouardian I used to read somewhere that 1 can of coke contains 9 tea spoons of sugar and it contains other dangerous substances. but as other people do, they don't just stop any bad habit just because it is bad for health. maybe you can try to find something more...

8 Jan 12

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What Do You Do To Cheer Yourself Up?

Janey1966 @Janey1966 (24170) • Carlisle, England 22 Nov 11

The internet can be used as a marvellous tool to cheer oneself up. I realise that YouTube can be a bit silly or even nasty at times but - now and again, I find a gem of a video and it does what I want it to do..which is, to cheer...

nostalgia

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arnouardian hi janey, yes, youtube can be a fun tool to cheer many people up. i usually watch videos about cities of the world because i like geography and travelling. I just watched your Christmas youtube video. it's so funny:)

22 Nov 11

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Are "Immortal Seekers" Cowards?

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 20 Nov 11

Hello Lotters, Not every one in the first world are having a good time with their lives, more like "Living one day at a time" because most people can either be bored or tired with the way they live. Some people have wasted...

immortality

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arnouardian immortal seekers are not coward. i think most people share the similar interest to live a long happy life. it is more of happiness definition that will motivate people to seek for immortality. i also wanna live forever. I hope I can live that kind of life...

20 Nov 11

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to love or be love?

scheen @scheen (57) • Philippines 19 Nov 11

whoa! this question just pop out in my mind. maybe because i'm single. hehe! anyway, it is already asked by one of my friends a long time ago and still remain unanswered. now i will try to answer it based on my experience. for me,...

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arnouardian hi scheen, i think people cannot choose to love or to be loved, because it really depends on the situation in which people cannot really control. when there is a woman who loves me but i dont love her, I cannot force my self to love her. i am in the...

19 Nov 11

How can you like a person and the other another day?

xxj3ffxx @xxj3ffxx (501) • Australia 5 Sep 11

Here's my friend's problem... He is a fine man with great personality but very bad in love affairs, like myself. The problem is that he went to study his bachelor and met 2types of girls. The first one is a bit easy-going...

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arnouardian hi xxj3ffxx, if a girl/woman says this to me, it means she doesn't wanna have romantic relationship with me. she just wanna be ordinary friend or good friend. maybe she's not interested, or maybe she already has boyfriend or other reasons. but the way...

5 Sep 11

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What about Farmville, Petville or whatever fb game invites, do you accept them?

kccrystalsachi @kccrystalsachi (117) • Philippines 5 Sep 11

There are lots of us who are not just into these online game craze, most especially faceb online games. But we do have friends, and I know, everybody else has, friends who playook a lot online, most especially on facebook. What...

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arnouardian hi kccrystalsachi, since I was kid I am never really into any kind of game.lol.. i tried some computer games like warcraft and some other games which I forgot the names, but then I stopped playing them for several months before i come back to play...

5 Sep 11

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Atheists are the best people?

esuturtingas @esuturtingas (15) • Lithuania 9 Jun 11

I saw one interesting thing: many atheists or agnostics do these things: the are non smokers and complete abstinents, they are vegetarians or vegans and sometimes anarchists. But i think atheist or gnostics really understands laws...

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arnouardian hi esuturtingas, good people belong to every group of faith. there are many good christians, muslims, buddhists, atheists, or agnostics. so, we cannot say a group of people are better than others or the best of others. personally, i do not agree with...

9 Jun 11

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Help...I can't handle stress

wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 9 Jun 11

This is my problem. Everytime I work, after one hour I got no focus in my work. I tend to go to the toilet or take a break outside my office. Sometimes I will just go back home or worst I will resign and find another job. Although...

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arnouardian hi wongchoiyee, i guess you have a bigger problem inside of you than just cannot focus on job. maybe you have a kind of anxiety disorder. have you met a psychologist? he/she is a professional and reliable person to share your problem and most of time they...

9 Jun 11

Does long distance relationship work?

frept83 @frept83 (20) • Philippines 8 Jun 11

I am in a 5-year relationship with someone who is 6832.43 miles from me. We have sustained the distance in our relationship for five years. Sometimes I feel like the longer the time that I get to see that person again, the farther...

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arnouardian wow...first i must salute you to be able to maintain 5 year long distance relationship. it is not an easy thing to do. i used to have this kind of relationship, but it only lasted for 3 months!! LOL... the simple problem: i didn't text for 2 days and she was...

9 Jun 11

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extra money on your mind ?

th3ftxnj @th3ftxnj (1) • United States 9 Jun 11

im 18, looking for a job or a source of income. what helped you make money? any hints/tips/advice?

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arnouardian online business like PTS, survey sites, mylot, etc seem to be good places for additional income. but i cannot give you detailed advice, since i am also a newcomer in online business. wish you all the best!:)

9 Jun 11

Negative effect of excessive reading

rhejans @rhejans (191) • Philippines 8 Jun 11

I have a schoolmate who always go to library to read book. I observed that he becomes out of the reality. He acts different, every time you talk to him, his idea has abroad imagination. i couldn't imagine how he thinks. I realize...

negative effect of reading

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arnouardian hmm i think the problem of your friend is not about too much reading. but he can't separate the event/story in the book from his own reality. he often imagines as if his life were like those in the book. this habit could be dangerous for the long run, because...

9 Jun 11

Do you like the dollar store?

tink91879 @tink91879 (742) • United States 9 Jun 11

I was looking up a cple things online and came across an article some one wrote about the dollar store. Pretty much they bashed it. If the dollar store had feelings it would have felt like the scum of the earth. I personally enjoy...

life

saving money

shopping

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arnouardian oh maybe that woman is a SNOB. poor her.. even if i were a rich person, i would be glad to save money buying things like party stuffs or hand soap in dollar stores. you're right. there is nothing to be ashamed to save money. and if we pay attention to rich...

9 Jun 11

I just Love the Rain :D

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 8 Jun 11

Hello Lotters, When I was a student we love the rain, the typhoon and some strong storms because of the Suspension of classes, having a day off. not to mention i can take a bath also which is cool ever but i still take a bath...

benefits

rainy

season

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arnouardian i only like drizzle because i still can walk to go somewhere in this kind of weather and it won't flood any area:) but living in hot Louisiana, i really hope the drizzle or rain will come more often, because our summer is too hot. we need rain:)

9 Jun 11

What do you do to relax your brain?

LilacFaye @LilacFaye (204) • Philippines 8 Jun 11

Usually, only my brain's tired of working all day. When I try to close my eyes to relax myself, my brains still keeps working, sorting things out. I cannot sleep sometimes because of this. Does this happen to you? What do you do...

brain

relax

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arnouardian hi lilacfaye, if this condition still happens to you, you should go to the doctor. maybe it's a kind of sleep disorder that can be dangerous for your health. usually i relax my brain by sleeping or by listening my favorite musics. but sleeping is more...

9 Jun 11