asgtswife04

@asgtswife04 (2475)

United States • Age 45

Joined myLot 17 years ago

my love

mylot.com/asgtswife04

Responses (1399)

asgtswife04's Responses

What things do you do as a wife

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32191) • United States 27 Feb 09

I was just wondering if anyone can tell me a few things that they do for their husbands that they weren't expected to be doing? Do you do all the chores and expected him to do some? Do you make all of his meals and expect him to...

4 responses •

1 person

asgtswife04 where to start...I wait until my husband goes to bed and write little notes to him so he will have them when he gets up early to go to work, when he wasn't deployed of course. while he was deployed last time i worked very hard to have all the things he wanted...

28 Feb 09

•

1 comment

•

1 person

Bouncing back and rebounds

bamakelly @bamakelly (5191) • United States 27 Jan 09

Do you believe that a rebound relationship can truly work? I personally believe that coming out of a long relationship just to jump into another one can be detrimental to someone's well being emotionally and people...

11 responses •

4 people

asgtswife04 I, personally, don't think that rebound relationships work out. That is why they call them rebounds. It's not the fact that you love this person your with, i think it's more to do that you were devestated by your recent relationship that you need to find...

27 Jan 09

•

1 person

Why Flowers?

smurfuk76 @smurfuk76 (360) 27 Jan 09

I just dont understand, what is it about flowers that people love? yes there good looking but i dont get it, they last a few days and die for the money you spend on flowers you could buy something usefull. I would rather have a...

flower

flowers

romance

3 responses

asgtswife04 I think more than anything it is the thought behind the flowers that count. Yes, flowers die, but for someone to think about you enough to go out and buy you some beautiful flowers just to say I love you and appreciate you is an awesome thing. it's definitely...

27 Jan 09

Plugged Ear Tubes

glords @glords (2614) • United States 27 Jan 09

My son had ear tubes put in about six months ago, and now the ear troubles are back again. Yesterday I took him to the ENT who told me the ear tubes are still in (different from what his pediatrician said), but they are clogged...

advice

infection

life

4 responses •

2 people

asgtswife04 my second child had ear infections all the time, so they suggested that we did the tubes. we did and his ear infections got worse. it wasn't until one of them fell out that he never had an ear infection again. i would recommend asking the doctor to take them...

27 Jan 09

•

1 comment

•

2 people

Holy Eight!

asgtswife04 wow, that is quite a few children and breastfeeding them all? that takes a strong woman. i definitely wish her the best and good luck to her. i'm guessing she did some fertility stuff to get pregnant? and i thought i had my hands full with the three children i...

27 Jan 09

•

1 comment

•

1 person

I'm having this tendency to shout when I'm angry, any tips to control it?

marisriel @marisriel (1156) • Philippines 25 Jan 09

I think it's my temper and maybe psychologically, I think that shouting makes my audience understand me better. But I don't think it's correct or proper because I think I am getting scandalous sometimes. Sometimes I also do this...

7 responses •

2 people

asgtswife04 Sometimes you really just need to walk away for about five minutes until you can calmly talk to people. Shouting does make people not only loose respect for you, but it also makes people fear you. It is something that you have to consciously say, "I am not...

26 Jan 09

•

3 comments

•

1 person

Daughter-Mother Drama Questions

ShellyB @ShellyB (5241) • United States 21 Jan 09

I have noticed there is a lot of drama in my home cause between me and my daughter. It is based on nothing. Just yesterday, my daughter was moody, and continue to get even more moody before she went to sleep. Our last...

drama

5 responses •

1 person

asgtswife04 Unfortunately at that age it's quite normal for her to be acting out and getting her feelings hurt and being oversensitive. I was awful when I was seventeen, sometimes to extreme. My mother and I would argue all the time and I would just want to get out of...

23 Jan 09

•

1 comment

•

1 person

When their emotions can be overpowering... ....

gemini_rose @gemini_rose (16264) 22 Jan 09

I find it hard sometimes not to get cranky. What I mean is my daughter just recently has become very attached to me and I have become the centre of her world. I absolutely adore her, but just lately she is becoming very...

11 responses •

6 people

asgtswife04 All the time! I have three children and a husband, I am usually drained. Not only do I have to deal with my children dealing with my husband being deployed, i'm having to deal with my husband being deployed as well. Of course, I am supposed to be the strong...

23 Jan 09

Confused! Advice needed! Parents Vs. Me...

asgtswife04 oh my goodness, when you get the chance don't walk...RUN!!!!! Of course you are doing the right thing. Neither you nor your son are in a good environment and you need to get the two of you away from that man as soon as you possibly can. I would even see about...

23 Jan 09

•

1 comment

Newborns

stardustw83 @stardustw83 (435) • United States 23 Jan 09

I recently gave birth to a beautifull baby boy =). This being my first child i am sensitive to his needs. So when he crys i make sure to pick him and find out what he needs. Now my child isn't even two weeks old. My thought...

birth

daddy

newborn spoiling

49 responses •

12 people

asgtswife04 okay, first let me say, "Let your son cry every now and then". I, too, did the same thing with my second son and my almost three year old daughter. With my 9 year old, up until he was four, I had to lay in the bed with him until he went to sleep or he would...

23 Jan 09

•

1 person

do you believe that love is enough?

nyao2x @nyao2x (53) • Philippines 23 Jan 09

do you? why? i don't think that love is enough to stay in a relationship. differences may always be there but love is the thing that binds a couple no matter how big their difference is. But sometimes, when circumstances become...

4 responses •

1 person

asgtswife04 Love can always be enough! It has to go both ways though. You can't,by yourself, keep a relationship going just on your love alone. It has to be a love that both people share that is worth fighting for and working out. If a person is getting abused or cheated...

23 Jan 09

•

1 comment

How would you define an Attractive Woman?

jaymeeliz @jaymeeliz (505) • Philippines 23 Jan 09

I want to hear from both men and women. Sometimes we see ladies who are so beautiful even if she isn't like the image the media imposed upon us? What makes a woman stand out?

3 responses •

1 person

asgtswife04 I personally think that what is coming from the inside is what makes a woman beautiful. A woman can be beautiful on the outside, but the way she acts and talks reflects whether or not she stays beautiful or if that beauty is overshadowed by the filth on the...

23 Jan 09

•

1 comment

Is the a beginning to a brighter future or the beginning of the end?

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 20 Jan 09

I know that today is supposed to be a great day. We are inaugurating the first African American president. G W is gone. GOOD RIDDENS and thanks for absolutely NOTHING. I think the fact that he is making history because of race is...

african american

bankruptcy

race

11 responses •

3 people

asgtswife04 I am not looking forward to today at all! I voted for Bush both times and considering what Clinton left him with, I think he did the best he could with what he did. Did he make some bad choices, of course, but what President doesn't. No one is perfect, but I...

20 Jan 09

•

1 comment

•

1 person

When you were a child, was the person of your dreams the same you married?

Pleiades @Pleiades (846) • United States 19 Jan 09

Heh..."Practical Magic"...the main character did a spell when she was young to create the "perfect man". As most stories went she found that man of her dreams...right down to the cactus pancakes. Me...when I was little, I did...

10 responses •

3 people

asgtswife04 I don't think any woman can honestly say that she married her prince charming and he stayed her prince charming. When I married my husband he was everything I had ever dreamed of and more, but eventually that prince does fall off the horse. He's military and...

20 Jan 09

•

2 comments

•

1 person

Have you ever thought about adopting?

rodveiga @rodveiga (333) • Portugal 20 Jan 09

Last night I was talking with a friend. She has 42yo and one child of 12yo. She is thinking about trying to adopt a child, now that her daughter is grown up. Here, in Portugal, is a very difficult task, since one can have to wait...

18 responses •

2 people

asgtswife04 I have actually been thinking about adoption a lot here lately. I'm have three children, two boys and a girl, but I would really love to have another little girl for my daughter to grow up with. There is a big age difference between my boys and my daughter. I...

20 Jan 09

•

1 comment