barbara7321

@barbara7321 (240)

United States • Age 53

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Falling in love with a married person, right or wrong?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 23 Nov 09

I've some friends who unfortunately in love with a married person. Some of our friends thought that it's not a real and true love when it comes to loving someone who's already attached. And it's a sin to have a relationship with...

falling in love

married person

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barbara7321 I believe we can not help who we fall in love with, however, even if you love this person you have no right to act upon it. It is not right.

24 Nov 09

To My Friends Whor Are..............NOT SO SINGLE.....

Drsunny21 @Drsunny21 (556) • India 24 Nov 09

Love isn`t about becoming somebody`s else "Perfect Person".... It`s about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.... To My Friends Who Are........ENGAGED.... The true measure of compatibility is...

love

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barbara7321 This is beautiful, thank you for sharing. Even though I am not engaged, the words are still important.

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Does age matter in a loving relationship?

rorisricha @rorisricha (732) • India 23 Nov 09

What do you say about the rule that the age of a girl should be lesser than a boy.....does it matter if boy is younger than girl in a loving relationship.....marriage? Will there be a good relationship if the girl is elder than...

age

life

relationship

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barbara7321 To me age is not an issue, but maturity is. Both should be mature and be able to respect the other in a relationship.

24 Nov 09

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Be patient in a moment of anger.. you will be free from many days of sorrow...

rorisricha @rorisricha (732) • India 24 Nov 09

Learning to curb your anger can be a hard thing to do, but if they can master that then the world is their oyster and they can learn to deal with sorrow so it does not pull them down....

angry

patience

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barbara7321 Why couldn't I have read this discussion about three days ago? *Shakes head, and runs off to the corner.* You are completely right.

24 Nov 09

what kinds of odd foods have you eaten?

bucketkid @bucketkid (237) • Australia 23 Nov 09

today i ate peacock. thats, right peacock. i am at my grandfathers and there has been this peacock eating his cool feed and trying to mate with his chooks. this morning he was actually able to shoot it. we plucked and gutted...

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barbara7321 Sure, I have had swamp cabbage, squirrel, deer, dove, rattlesnake, squid, octopus, oppossum, buffalo, dandelion greens, poke salad, frog legs, pigs feet, beef tongue, chittlins, fish roe, ummmmm all sorts of goodies.

23 Nov 09

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What you will Gift your Mother on her Birthday?

sahilpadhiyar20 @sahilpadhiyar20 (532) • India 23 Nov 09

Hello Mylot Friends,Today I am really Confused because Tomorrow is my Mother's Birthday and I am totally confused what to Gift my Mother? If Suppose Tomorrow is your mother's Birthday then what you people will Gift Her which...

birthday

gift

mother

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barbara7321 Well, I would say that a nice new picture of her children would make her happy. That is a nice gift that would make me happy. I love and treasure all of the photos I have of my children, and especially the surprise ones! Your welcome, and feel free to stop by...

23 Nov 09

fat in legs and thighs

HeidiD @HeidiD (167) • China 17 Nov 09

I always feel terrible there's so much fat in my legs. I'm not a fat girl, to a certain degree, I'm slim. I'm troubled with my fat legs. I cannot buy some beautiful pants and jeans. I have tried a lot of ways to lose weight, but...

fat

leg

sport

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barbara7321 I have the opposite problem. I am fat in my tummy and have chicken legs and thighs. Yes, look on the internet for some exercize ideas that will help you.

23 Nov 09

What is the weather like in your home town?

froggieslover @froggieslover (3069) • United States 15 Oct 09

Our weather here is rainy and cold here today...it has been like this for almost the whole summer, I kid you not. This summer was terrible weather wise, the summer nights were chilly like it was fall weather and the days were...

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barbara7321 It is humid, and I have my air conditioning on. I am in florida. It has been rainy, but still the river here seems too low. I am glad it is warm at this time of year, I don't do well with the cold.

23 Nov 09

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Do you prefer city or country life?

kjess77 @kjess77 (40) • United States 23 Nov 09

I grew up in a small town, and always wanted to move to the big city. When I went to visit family in New York a few times I fell in love... and always wanted to return and live there. Then I got older, got married, and was living...

city

country

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barbara7321 I love the country, but I would like to visit New York some day. I love the people in the small towns, they are not in a hurry. They seem friendlier to me.

23 Nov 09

Do you prefer long nails or short nails, polish or no polish?

kjess77 @kjess77 (40) • United States 23 Nov 09

I personally prefer long nails with white tips. When they are short, I prefer to keep them unpolished because my nails tend to chip easily. I think that too long of nails is silly because you cannot do normal tasks, but a nice...

nail

polish

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barbara7321 I go back and forth between long and short. I am pretty efficient with the long nails too. I find that both long and short nails can get pretty dirty underneath, and clean under them often. I was also a cosmetologist at one time, and have seen many nail...

23 Nov 09

Michael Jackson Dies

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4605) • United States 25 Jun 09

I know he was very talented. My grandmother grew up on him. It's like..you come into the world, realize there is the sky, apples, trees, colors, god, and Michael Jackson. No doubt this is a surprise to all. Nevertheless, good...

king of pop

michael jackson

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barbara7321 Money can buy you anything. What a shame.

23 Nov 09

Why Men Cheat 4 Real

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4605) • United States 5 Apr 07

Myth: Because they just do. It's normal, harmless, and don't me anything. Fact: If he is already satis w/ the car he's got in the drive way, he wouldn't have a reason the lust after another one in a car lot...or maybe he's...

cheating

relationship

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barbara7321 I am tired of being trustworthy and reliable. *SIGHS* Not really, but it seems as we are not respected sometimes.

23 Nov 09

Do You Think It Is Annoying When Someone Sleeps Alot?

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4605) • United States 13 Jul 09

i was wondering if anyone thought about people around you who sleep a lot. once i hung around someone who just went to sleep all the time. do you all think that this is rude? does that mean that we are boring to hang around?

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barbara7321 Oh god! Your boyfriend too? Mine goes to bed at 4am and wakes up at 5pm. *SIGHS* I guess I must be boring too. Oh well.

23 Nov 09

Were You Really A Michael Jackson Fan Before He Died?

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4605) • United States 6 Aug 09

all over the net, on forums every where people are messaging death threats to all those who express opposition to michael jackson. his twisted father, joe said it best. he is larger in death than he EVER was in life. it's kind of...

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barbara7321 You really are my sister..hahahah. I just posted on this subject tonight. This is scary.

23 Nov 09

Excuses

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4605) • United States 6 Aug 09

i hate it when people make up excuses, and act like their intentions are everything other than what they are not telling you. for example, my boyfriend just made new friends upstairs that he could smoke and drink with. he says...

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barbara7321 MoonGypsy, I think we might be sisters..lol. This is my exact problem sometimes. I am getting tired of this too. How long have you been dealing with this?

23 Nov 09

trying to quit smoking

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4605) • United States 6 Aug 09

who ever made trying to quit smoking is worse than the person who made cigarettes in the first place. trying to quit is one of the most excruciating things someone could ever put themselves through. before you say it, i know...

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barbara7321 I went the past three days without smoking. Tonight I am smoking again. Did you ever stop smoking? Isee this topic is 4 months old?

23 Nov 09

I hate Video Game Addicts

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4605) • United States 23 Nov 09

they are selfish, and lazy people. furthermore, they are fools. each and every single one of them. how do i know? because i am with one. ALL he does is sleep, eat, and play video games (on and off line- he switches from one to the...

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barbara7321 Yes, my boyfriends best friend is this way. We invite him over and he brings his game system to dinner...lol. He also talks about nothing other than games. That is when I will get on the internet and find something to do. My boyfriend is not much into the...

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Why Don't People Respond To Post On Mylot?

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4605) • United States 23 Nov 09

i know i really shouldn't care whether or not people on this board responds. let's face it, as long as i post, i get paid. i know it is also not politically correct to say that here, but let's face it. why else would someone waste...

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barbara7321 Sometimes I don't know anything about some of the subjects that are being talked about. Sometimes I don't have an opinion. Sports for example, I don't know the first thing about football, so that would be a subject I would pass by. I like to try and answer...

23 Nov 09

Do you have a neighbor who keeps borrowing things from you?!

xio shi @simonelee (2715) • China 23 Nov 09

I was not used to this. We move to this place 2 years ago when my sister and her family decided to leave miles away(we where neighbors). We have this one pesky neighbor who keeps borrowing our things, at first they borrowed my mom...

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barbara7321 I would have to simply explain to them that you can not afford to keep giving them these things. Tell them times are tough but you are sorry. Or when they ask for something, just simply say: I am sorry, I can't. Don't give them a reason why. IF they don't take...

23 Nov 09

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When you open the mylot account, what do you check first.

neelimaravi @neelimaravi (1793) • India 23 Nov 09

hi friends, from past two months i am working in mylot, i was so happy in mylot, that i have improved so much, and as well as i have got good friends too.. so, from starting onwards, i do check my friends started discussions and...

earnings

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barbara7321 Here lately I guess I upset someone with my Michael Jackson comment. So I am waiting for a response. I think it is ok to have a diffence in opinion. I am stubborn, cheers!

23 Nov 09