bembzee

@bembzee (768)

Philippines • Age 50

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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What would life be like without electricity ? .. real dark :D

silverfox09 @silverfox09 (4708) • United States 28 Oct 12

Can you imagine not being able to store your grocery in the refrigerator ? having to hunt for food daily ? You will not be able to travel too far away from home and stay in touch with the people you love . A lot of people...

electricity

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bembzee Electricity is a tool to make our life easy. We can do manual things in an hour or two yet with the help of electricity work will be done less than ten minutes. It is a fast way to do many things in just one click to make things handy for people. I guess it...

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I Am Learning New Things with the Help of Reading.

adforme @adforme (2114) 28 Oct 12

I am learning new things with the help of reading. Sure, one can take a class that offers instruction in addition to books, but I am choosing the book for instruction. It is a good challenge to choose a book and see what it can do...

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bembzee Reading is the best way to widen your knowledge about many things. It will help you improve your writing skills from correct usage of words in the sentences to good and proper grammar.

28 Oct 12

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Achoo, Achoo, acho, acho Oh my !!

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 28 Oct 12

Here I AM tyingg and seeing the end of the month flashing by and happily not making typos and suddenly from out of nowhere I am going Ahcoo, Ahcoo without stopping til I did it five times. your take m ylotters how many sneezes...

achoo

bless y ou

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bembzee Hello Hatley, when i'm having that irritating sneeze i immediately take antihistamine. It completely took off all my uncomfortable feelings. You'll feel better after 15 minutes.

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do you reuse cooking oil?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 27 Oct 12

Times are hard and we all know how expensive commodities are these days. Are you too picky and health-conscious that you only use cooking oil once and throw it away? Personally, I use it two times at least. After using it once, I...

cooking oil

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bembzee My mom reuse cooking oil in the restaurant for stir fry purposes only. I think we can use it again only if it is not dark brown and was safely keep for proper storage. We can save by reusing it after all we are using cooking on almost all of our cooking menus....

28 Oct 12

Fight for everyday life

tinetine161992 @tinetine161992 (431) • Philippines 23 Oct 12

Their is a fact that there are people that fighting for their lives everyday. In day to day basis they strive so hard to live. It so sad that they need to do that things just to live for a day.

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bembzee We are the one working for our future. It is our responsibility to make sure that our life would be less a burden. If one marries and knows he can't raise a child then it's only a matter of decision. Have one child to raise and i'm sure you can provide for all...

24 Oct 12

"Life without hope"

prashu @prashu228 (37524) • India 23 Oct 12

hello friends, Many times in life, we find ourselves in confusion thinking that there is no hope in life. Many of us can go through this process. Even after trying hard ,we don't find answers we are looking for. We still have...

hope in life

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bembzee Every time i feel down, i just reflect silently. I look back in times where i experienced difficulties and how i survived them. Then i would realized that God is always their for me. When in the edge of losing hope he will be their. He works in mysterious ways...

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"called a blasphemer and poseur . that is an insult."

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 23 Oct 12

I responded to a mylotter who was hurt by being called the above terms she did not report it bt I did. I do not often report people here but this mylotter w nt out of his wa y to really be totally rude to her...

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bembzee That was a very sweet move Hatley. I guess what you did was right, protecting those who can't defend their selves to others. I just recently an active member and if those things happened to me, i think i don't know either how to react. But thank you for what...

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Regret from the past

tinetine161992 @tinetine161992 (431) • Philippines 22 Oct 12

Mistakes are part of person's life. Actually it become a normal thing to commit. No one is perfect and it's so hard to be. I done so many mistakes that i regret. Wrong decision and choices in my life. I regret things in my past...

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bembzee But don't forget tinetine that from mistakes we learn. The most important is you know how to pick up a pieces of it and start over again. I commit several mistakes in my past. Some are acceptable in my adolescent stage but few are really big bad marked up. Who...

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I Am Having the Laziest Sunday Ever!

adforme @adforme (2114) 21 Oct 12

I am having the laziest Sunday ever. It took all of me just to start this mylot discussion. At least I was able to. I am really doing more than I know sometimes. I believe I am recovering from a brainstorm I had yesterday. I was...

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bembzee I always find my Sunday a lazy day. I just want to stay home and do nothing. If i get tired of watching tv while lying i just hang out with my computer. Sometimes i would realized that i had done nothing for the whole day.

22 Oct 12

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When would you quit your day job

silverfox09 @silverfox09 (4708) • United States 21 Oct 12

If your passion is to make money online , set your own hours and work at your own paste . That would be ideal for me , I would love to lying in bed and still make a income . [b]How much online income would you have to make in...

income

leave job

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bembzee I like to earn money on line maybe just enough to buy my fancy things as teenager. But if ever i am in such situation,i won't choose to make on line my bread and butter. It can be a big help for an extra income but i would still prefer to work and get some...

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How would you feel when your pet dies?

leeandrew @leeandrew (1225) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

I just saw someone on tv how devastated she is when she lost her best friend.. her dog. I can tell that she is really grieving though her dog passed away for more than a month already. It sure feels like you have lost a loved...

animals

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bembzee I hardly talk to my dad for a week when my dog died. My mom don't want Peachy off to her chain because she had a tendency of running away. Many would be interested in her because she was hairy and black cute pup. One day my dad took off the chain because he...

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Why Every Woman Should Be Financially Independent? Even the Married one...

aliahnicole69 @aliahnicole69 (231) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

Money causes a lot of arguments between couples,only because it's a topic we're not usually comfortable discussing,make sure he is mature enough to understand that equality in income is not the standard for a happy marriage,that...

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bembzee I believe women should be financially independent. I also believe in the equality of man and woman. It is not about who earned big but it is a self satisfaction and personal achievement that you can be proud of.

21 Oct 12

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OH MY..How can you handle this?

montevilla @montevilla (550) 20 Oct 12

I'm talking about a noisy neighborhood. We are leaving in an apartment she stays in 3rd floor and my wife and I stay in the 2nd floor. Early in the morning I can hear her speak like holding a microphone,she laughs loudly as she...

noise

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bembzee Good thing i am raise in a restaurant business. It is some sort of my study room and my playground as well. I think i'm kinda use to rushing noise while studying. I learn how to focus even if my surroundings are kinda noisy. I think my adaptability is really...

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When adults act like kids

arizen @arizen (152) • Philippines 21 Oct 12

It is not unusual for children to act like adults. These scenes are most commonly witnessed when children play dress up and the likes. On the other hand, when adults act childish, it is rather bizarre and often distasteful. Some...

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bembzee I think my grand mom acted like kids. She is very stubborn and believe what she wants to believe. Sometimes i heard my mom said, "Move on you already have everything within reach. Your sacrifices are over, enjoy what is today."

21 Oct 12

Do you believe, 'first impression is last' ?

maurya83 @maurya83 (923) • India 21 Oct 12

All we heard this- First impression is last impression.. Do you believe it is right, people change time by time according to situations, Its true that how you present yourself makes the greatest impact on people and the first...

first impression

socialising

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bembzee In some cases yes, first impression's lasts. Especially in a competition, you need to be eye catcher to leave an impression. And i believe it will lead you to achieve something. But in some cases like meeting someone and be friend him/her for a long time it...

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Do you think it's normal ?

puiuioandaniel @puiuioandaniel (182) • Romania 20 Oct 12

A friend of mine said to me that he wants to move with his girlfriend. They talk about this big step and they have some discrepancies. I believe that's ok. But what shocked me is that the girl wants very much to spend some time...

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bembzee It's proper. Give some time for her privacy married or not. It will be unfair if you would cage each other. Let your partner grow as you grow. Learn how to trust each other it will give you peace.

21 Oct 12

I keep returning to some places for vacations.

marguicha @marguicha (223776) • Chile 20 Oct 12

I went to Aruba for the first time over ten years ago. I stayed in a resort where a friend had a timeshare and we loved it so much that we bought a week. The weather was totally wonderful and so was the wonderful Caribbean. Over...

aruba

vacations

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bembzee My favorite place that i keep on visiting almost twice every year is Boracay Island. I feel at home and at peace when i am with my whole family. I try some other resort and vacation places but my heart really love the place.

21 Oct 12

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She's too annoying

tinetine161992 @tinetine161992 (431) • Philippines 21 Oct 12

Yes, she is my friend but she really annoying. I hangout with them yesterday evening, my old high school friend. We are talking about the courses we took in college. Then she keep on asking what will our job in the future. And...

annoying

friend

people

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bembzee A true friend knows how to make her friend realize her mistakes. She knows to say it appropriately in a manner that she will most likely understand. That's what a friend can do to her friend.

21 Oct 12

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Is he serious or not? Until now we are not married and I feel like he is playing

ggubatina09 @ggubatina09 (36) • Philippines 21 Oct 12

Hello friends. I am in a relationship with almost 4 years with the same person and the "main topic" is, I don't know if he is serious with me. We have a daughter who is 3 years old already. If he is serious, why in the world that...

serious relationship

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bembzee In my young and ideal heart, i will say what i understand about you have shared. I just thought that love would do anything to make her woman feel secure and wanted in his life. That without his woman he is nothing. I see love that way. Your heart can only see...

21 Oct 12

You're the cause of jealousy!

Daisy_22 @Daisy_22 (1229) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

I have a friend who is very very close to me ever since and until up. He even stayed in our house for some special occasions. Some think that were really having that mutual relationship but they're wrong.Honestly there's nothing...

jealousy

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bembzee Hello Daisy, it is hard to make an immature listen, especially a very jealous one. But what you had with your friend is special. Let him decide for it. Don't make any move to destroy the friendship. Just ignore the girlfriend as long as you know that your...

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