benjamendeng

@benjamendeng (46)

China • Age 42

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Does Your Boss Refuse to Listen?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 4 Nov 09

Everyone want to improve the relationship with their boss because it is very useful to lower the workplace stress. What's more, for staff, they can increase theirr workplace happiness and have more chances to improve themselves if...

boss

refuse to listen

staff

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benjamendeng Hi, there, sometimes, I got the same situation, but I have no idea if my boss pretent to listen,I just present my suggestion based on fact. if i can not convince to adopt my suggestion, that is not my lose, just my boss. I think a good boss should allow...

5 Nov 09

Do you always make sure that your things always new look for many many years?

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 4 Nov 09

I have this habit when i buy things that i want it to always look new, glossy and scratchless as much as possible. For example , in books i read or buy like i don't like any fold or creases on the pages. i don't write on the pages...

new

things

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benjamendeng Hi, hotsummer, you are an absolutely good habit, but as far as so long, I have not gotten a habit to keep things looks new here. maybe i am a little lazy and used to its natural. i need to learn from you, that not only is a good habit, but also can get a...

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Have you ever had your fortune/future read by a fortuneteller?

earth2jacq @earth2jacq (1502) • Philippines 4 Nov 09

I have had my fortune read 3 years ago. There were points that came true and there weren't: The one that did come true was: I would resign from my current job (at that time)...well after a year I did resign and I am glad I...

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benjamendeng Hi, earth, just reviewed you thread, you were so lucky that you did not trust the fortunetellers' words, as a matter of fact, no one can completely predict future. just do you like doing and treasure the present possession. In my opinion, Life is a bit of...

4 Nov 09

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Do you know how to change a flat tyre???

bodhisatya @bodhisatya (2384) • India 3 Nov 09

I haven't yet changed changed a flat tyre. Once the tyre got flat and fortunately my friend knew how to do it, so it was done. I have got my fair bit of theoretical knowledge, that I have to put in the jack, bring in the...

driving

spare

stepney

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benjamendeng Hi, bodhisatya, that is an excellent question, I had an experience in changing flat tire, but the car was not belonged by me, it was of my friend's car. the story is like this: Saturday in week. we four guys just finished dinner, and planed going to one...

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DO you think that you can live a life without all the gadgets and technology?

werdan88 @werdan88 (272) • Philippines 3 Nov 09

How do you think your life would be without all the gadgets like computer, mobile phones, televisions, etc.?I think I could not live with all these things. Once they were merely luxuries. However, at the present age, they have...

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benjamendeng Hi, werdan, in my opinion, i pretty agree with your point. electronical gadgets change our life, and now it to be necessary for living, present society is an efficient development society, people around the worldwide have got a strong feeling with high...

4 Nov 09

What are you going todo when you retire?

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 24 Oct 09

Have you ever even thought of what you are going todo with all that time that you will have when you get to retire? Me and my husband have along while togo until we retire and i would like to think that we could sell this house...

move to the beach

retire

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benjamendeng Hi, there! it is hard to say, To be frank, I have no idea of when i will retire yet. in other hand, if i want to do something , I will do in my spare time. I don't want to wait till someday i retire. the future seems out of our thinking. only the present time...

25 Oct 09

Do you keep your doors unlocked when you leave your house?

Sheri @tuckersheri (1327) • United States 23 Oct 09

I keep my doors locked when I leave home. I want to be safe than sorry later. I would never leave my doors unlocked. I live in a small town but I would not say it safe just becuase it is a small town. I do not want to be robbed...

house

lock

locking doors

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benjamendeng Hi,there, I think it is necessary to lock the doors when all familial members leave the house. Otherwise. i always worried there will be something happened in my unlocked house. i can't concentate on doing anything.

23 Oct 09

Slumdog millionaire I enjoyed the film did you enjoy it too?

apples99 @apples99 (6556) • United States 21 Oct 09

I just recently saw Slumdog millionaire three days ago on cable, and I really enjoyed the film. in fact I had to watch it agin later that same day, I thought that the film was really fascinating, and it had a really sweet love...

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benjamendeng HI, I like this movie too, a good indian film. as you said, it has a good ending. maybe i will watch again in my light schedule. thank you for share with such a good movie.

21 Oct 09

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What causes people to migrate?

Andrew O @creationhub (3066) • Malaysia 18 Oct 09

When I was young, many of my friends migrated to other countries giving the reason of studying. There are many reasons for one to migrate. Whether it is for the good or bad, we should never forget our homeland. Have you friends...

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benjamendeng Hi, creationhub, In china, As I know, In my hometown, Many farmers migrated to other developmented Province for earning money. but at present. there is impossible to give them a comfortable position in the migrated city as the related ploicy limited. so...

19 Oct 09

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What do you guys think about "Who wants to be a Youtube Millionaire" Video?

crystallight1l @crystallight1l (347) • Canada 16 Oct 09

It's a virtual game on youtube where you can win real "imaginary" dollars. Not only that but you can be rick-rolled by the one and only RICK ASTLEY ! :D

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benjamendeng Hi,crystailight. Money comes from hard works, Game just is a game. I have no more expectation to earn million dollars by games. Just do the things I should do. concentrating on works or studies would make more sense. Yes. there are so many attractive things...

16 Oct 09

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Should I ask with a mail or stay silent?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 15 Oct 09

Last week I attended a telephonic interview with one IT MNC. I am employed at other MNC. From the interview it seemed they were ok with me. Plus I did my best there and could answer most questions. Yet there is no communication...

interview

mail

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benjamendeng Hi, subha, I think you should not be so worried. wait for a couple a days. of course, if you feel you can't wait any longer. keep doning your own things soomthly. sometimes. if you care more about the things you want. maybe bring a immature attitude for the...

16 Oct 09

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All you can eat for one price ... do you like these? Have them where you live?

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 14 Oct 09

Hi all. In the USA, many restaurants often have "buffets" of a variety of food, or they have certain days where a meal is on sale ... all you can for just one price. Does your country have such places? Do you...

all you can eat

all you can eat for one price

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benjamendeng Hi, peaceful, i should not be so luck to find out a restaurant like you said. I hope I can stand a chance to get it . One price for variety foods, good things! good luck to you. have a nice meal.

15 Oct 09

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Do you have any goals?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 2 Oct 09

I don't always have goals but on occasion I do set myself some. I have been really thinking about taking a class and have pretty much come to the conclusion that I'm going to do it. I have set goals here and there and was kind of...

big and small

goals

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benjamendeng Yeah,JeninTN, I do set goals for myself in different period. I like doing things in purpose.of course, goals is more related jobs project or financial investment.For daily life, I grab interesting things to be my goals. I have many goals in my life. but first...

15 Oct 09

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Impatient customer service

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 14 Oct 09

Today, my mom wants sign up with a new phone service which she can make international calls on a cheaper rate. She has so many questions to...

customer service

patience

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benjamendeng Hi, clorissa, you are quite right, patience is very important for a successful salesman.customers always want to know more about promoted product. especially about the function and using notice of the product. if customers make moeny for buying product but...

15 Oct 09

What do you do in your spare time?

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 13 Oct 09

If i get any spare time i always end up on here as well as other sites.I am trying to get into more of a routine with all those

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benjamendeng Hi,there, I often watch some new movies in my spare time. if i have not gotten some new movies. I prefer to go out for a walk or exercise. of course, the best way to enjoy the spare time is gathering good friends to go out for picnic or KTV.it will be neat!

14 Oct 09

counting my blessings

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 13 Oct 09

Sometimes Cary can be difficult to deal with. If he wants something and he can't have it, he gets upset. If he doesn't want to do something and he has to, he gets upset. Sometimes sitting him on my lap will calm him down to where...

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benjamendeng Hi, dawnald, I am so worried about such a 7 years old boy after reviewed your story. yes, we all said one word "autism", but who know why a kid become autism. the main reason, personally, I think they all lacks a close parenting education. to be a father or...

14 Oct 09

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Mylot I s Already Working Now!!! I Miss Mylotting!!

rberon1985 @rberon1985 (5359) • Philippines 12 Oct 09

After monitoring the site for 2 days, finally the site is already working. We can now respond and post to different discussions. This will be my first discussion since two days of monitoring. Guys let's rock and roll and let us...

back

discussions

mylot

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benjamendeng Hi,again, rberon1985. that is good news to mylotters. we can free discuss and respond again. Ok, I have no words anymore. it is time to enjoy mylot discussion!

12 Oct 09

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Mylot I s Already Working Now!!! I Miss Mylotting!!

rberon1985 @rberon1985 (5359) • Philippines 12 Oct 09

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benjamendeng Hi,rberon1985, thank you for your information, I am just waiting for the notice right now. I have posted two discussion before,but no responses, meanwhile, I received several alert. I was so wondering at that moment. and now I just know I catch up the...

12 Oct 09

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Do you want to marry a foreigner if your chance comes?

karenkarenkk @karenkarenkk (1121) • China 8 Oct 09

My husband's hometown is pretty far away from mine. It takes about 3 hours' fly or more than 50 hours by train. We are living in a city close to my hometown. So we only go back his home once in a year. His parent miss him very...

foreigner

marry

marry with foreigner

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benjamendeng Hi, karenkarenkk, That should not be a problem. love is so powerful, Distance will not be able to affect it deeply.

8 Oct 09

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