bluebutterfly1234

@bluebutterfly1234 (92)

United States • Age 46

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Is it ever ok to wear a pair of undies twice?

coffeeshot @coffeeshot (3783) • Australia 22 Apr 08

Just say you were about to go out somewhere and you just got out of the shower and opened your drawer to find that shock horror! all of your underwear are in the washing basket. You have no clean undies to wear at all. What do you...

clean

dirty undies

grot

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bluebutterfly1234 I would say commando. Depending on what I am putting on. If it is a skirt then I would put on panty hose.

23 Apr 08

How if you fall in love with a person who had a baby in the past???

manya_pearl @manya_pearl (1901) • Singapore 23 Apr 08

What if you fall in love with a person that had a baby in the past, would you still love that person? Hmm... very difficult question right. But this question was asked by my friend few days ago, and its difficult for me to answer...

fall in love

person who had a baby

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bluebutterfly1234 I think I could as long as it had not been kept a secret from me. I would have trust issues if he tried to keep it from me and I found out from someone else. My sister had this happen only it was a little different. She was married and had been for a while...

23 Apr 08

Is it moral to go through your partner's things?

trusko @trusko (198) 23 Apr 08

One of my very good friend was suspecting that her partner is up to something no good. When he had a shower, she looked into his mobile. She then discovered that he was exchanging saucy picture text messages with some...

jealousy

picture text messages

trust

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bluebutterfly1234 I dont agree. One reason you my find something in there that is may make you angry or upset that really is nothing and you think should I ask or just keep it to myself and not trust him/her. I think if you feel like something is going on then confront it head...

23 Apr 08

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How good of a friend are you?

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 22 Apr 08

Think about this for a minute. I happened to show up on your doorstep crying, Would you care? If I called you and asked you to pick me up because something happened, Would you come? If I had one day left to live my...

friends

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bluebutterfly1234 I have always been there when My true friends really need me and even when they are not true friends i am there most of the time. I Hate to see anyone crying so I give people the same consideration that I hope would be given to me. I have even sat with people...

23 Apr 08

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Do you allow your dog or cat sleep on your bed at night?

lotsofpuppies07 @lotsofpuppies07 (39) • United States 18 Apr 08

My pets are my life. They mean the world to me. There are a total of nine dogs living with me and my family in our 2 story house. Each individual one chooses which "human" they are going to sleep with at night. Most of the time I...

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bluebutterfly1234 We just recently got a new puppy and for now he sleeps in his kennel at night. My 3 year old daughter wantes him to sleep with her in her bedroom but I have to keep him in the kennel as that he is not fully potty trained yet and chews on most everthing in...

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Do you use shower gel or soap?

TriciaW @TriciaW (2441) • United States 31 Mar 08

My SO thinks that only soap can get you clean so he hates when I have my shower gel all over and he can't find his bar of soap. What do you think? What do you use?

people

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bluebutterfly1234 I used to use shower gel all the time cause I could not find a bar soap that made me feel clean. I always seem to get a better lather out of the gel. But I decided to try caress bar recently and I really like caress. It makes my skin feel as good as shower gel...

31 Mar 08

Do you use the same shampoo everyday?

TriciaW @TriciaW (2441) • United States 31 Mar 08

I used to just buy whatever was cheapest until I started selling AVON. Now I get shampoo that I use depending on the day and what I am doing. I have a daily shampoo that helps restore my hair and cleans it really well. If it is a...

people

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bluebutterfly1234 For the most part I use the same shampoo everyday. I don't buy several different kinds but change up almost everytime I buy I have found that My hair does better with the change.

31 Mar 08

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is it safe to say about our past to our partner?

lucksath @lucksath (92) • India 25 Mar 08

In a perfect relationship, you would not keep any secrets from your partner.And you would never had to worry if he/she keeping anything from you because his/her life too would be an open book. But we live in the real world,...

hide

past

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bluebutterfly1234 The way I feel about it is that if you are asked questions be honest about your past if the questions are never asked the why bother bring it up. I don't hide anything from my husband that he ask me about. We have no need in doing that. He is the type of man...

27 Mar 08

Do you think the man should be the one bringing home the Money

beccarose @beccarose (121) • United States 18 Mar 08

What do you think about the man bringing home the money for the family and the woman staying home with their children to raise them? Some believe that women and men are equal in those areas, and others believe that its the mans...

head of the house

man

man bringing home the money

money

women

women bringing home the money

work

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bluebutterfly1234 I am a stay at home mom who has found some work that I can do at home with my children. But we also discussed my husband staying home with the children if I had a job that ment he could stay home. but since he made more money than me and I refuse to let...

19 Mar 08

I am a people watcher...

whywiki @whywiki (6066) • Canada 18 Mar 08

I don't mind sitting in a mall waiting for someone. I use the time to people watch. I don't mind sitting in a car while someone runs into a store, I just sit and watch people. They fascinate me. Everyone is so different yet so...

day to day discussions

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bluebutterfly1234 I love to people watch. It is a great way to pass the time. But I have to watch myself sometimes i just get lost in it and find myself off in my own little land thinking about other peoples lives.LOL

19 Mar 08

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Do you IRON your clothes only when you need to wear it?

whyaskq @whyaskq (7523) • Singapore 18 Mar 08

Ironing is one chore I dread. I feel it is a waste of time just getting that piece of apparel creaseless and shine. I have the luxury of my mum doing the ironing for me. I am aware some of you do not get to enjoy such luxury...

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bluebutterfly1234 I only iron if I have to. I don't enjoy ironing. And not very good at it. I ususally go visit my mom if I need something ironeda and that is not very often.LOL

19 Mar 08

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Smoking, addictive or not?

jules1977 @jules1977 (48) • Qatar 13 Mar 08

Not only my friends, generally, all people, they say that smoking is very addictive, once you get into it, u can never be stop or eventually will become your vice,. I started smoking, when i was in high school, i was thirteen...

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bluebutterfly1234 I have to think it is additive but also habit. If you notice people who quit even after a few years still feel the urge to smoke even everyonce in a while. I feel that smoking is just like any other addiction. Look at a person with a drinking problem years...

14 Mar 08

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whats you music style ?

fabzyboy @fabzyboy (130) • Belgium 13 Mar 08

what is you music style ? it can be anything from rap to metal. :) just speek up and tell me what it is ;)

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bluebutterfly1234 I like all types of music but mostly listen to country. I go in phases sometimes i listen to country, others rock, rap I think the only think I never really listen to is death metal. I figure if i cant understand what they are saying not much need to listen to...

13 Mar 08

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someone is steeling my spoons!

aretha @aretha (2538) • United States 6 Mar 08

am i the only one with this problem? someone comes in in the moddle of the night and steels my forks and spoons. i just had to buy more forks because i only had a few left and i had a ton of spoons now i am down to about 5...

forks

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bluebutterfly1234 I am always after my 1 year old to get out of the dishwasher. she has to have a spoon for everything. You give her a bowl of pretzels and she needs a spoon. I keep finding spoons in several spots in the house. Luckly I bought them some of there own special...

13 Mar 08

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What do you wear to bed ?

Sissygrl @Sissygrl (10912) • Canada 11 Mar 08

well.. just as the header asks, what do you wear to bed? or do you wear anything at all? this is mostly a test discussion to find out what is going on with the darn emails.. Now my email filters are all messed up! But i'd love to...

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bluebutterfly1234 I like a T-shirt and panties sometimes shorts. I cant bring myself to sleep without clothes I am always worried something will happen in the middle of the night and i would not have time to get dressed. LOL

12 Mar 08

Do you take your child to the Dr for everything or try a more natural approach?

goodhappens @goodhappens (671) • United States 11 Mar 08

I like to take a more natural approach to medicine most of the time, but I know my kids. My 16yr old complained of a stomach ache, he said gas all sunday, didn't even eat till 6pm. He said he felt better on Monday morning, so he...

childrens pain tolerance

natural medicine

surgery

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bluebutterfly1234 I try to not go to the doctor. Lots of times I may call the doctor and tell them of the kids symptoms if it is really bothering me and they will let me know if it warrents a visit. Well that was with there old doctor the new one wants to see them any time I...

12 Mar 08

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Stop Calling Me!!!

Stormy @Little_Stormy (6883) • United States 10 Mar 08

There is a company that keeps calling me to tell me that I won a trip and I have told them (now 12 times!) to take my number off their calling list.. and they keep calling! outside of having my number changed, is there...

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bluebutterfly1234 As you have already heard you can be put on the do not call list. And if they keep calling after you are put on the list then the first time you tell them I am on the do not call list. They usually stop calling. My aunt always ask how did you get my number I...

11 Mar 08