blueunicorn

@blueunicorn (2401)

United States • Age 50

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Shopkeepers not to report thefts?

derek_a @derek_a (10873) 23 Jul 10

I read in the news today that police are telling shopkeepers not to report thefts of under £20 in the UK. Do you feel that theft is theft and should always be reported? And could this mean that young people will now start...

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blueunicorn I do think that announcing to the public that "small" thefts won't be reported will increase shoplifting. It's sad that all over the world we are choosing to "look the other way" because of "small crimes." It is the small crimes that turn into big ones. If...

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how close the relevance between your music and your lifestyle ?

kuyangmaneuver @kuyangmaneuver (66) • Indonesia 14 Oct 09

my friend told me that music is not only a fashion or lifestyle? is it true?

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blueunicorn I do believe music can be considered part of your lifestyle. Whatever you choose to surround yourself with tells something about you, thus being a lifestyle choice. For example, I don't listen to a lot of music with swear words and topics I find offensive....

15 Oct 09

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Should health care workers be forced to take the H1N1 vaccine

spalladino @spalladino (17891) • United States 14 Oct 09

New York health care workers are required to take the N1H1 vaccine or face losing their jobs. A group of them...

forced vaccinations

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blueunicorn No one should ever be forced to put something into their body they don't feel comfortable with.

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What's the worst accident that ever happened to you as a kid ?

nagikka @nagikka (407) • Italy 15 Oct 09

Most of us have good memories of our childhood, but somewhere there had to be a little something that's upset us and that we'll hardly forget. What's yours ? As for me, my worst memory and accident involved glue (the super...

accidents

childhood memories

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blueunicorn OMG, that is really scarey! No wonder you remember even the small details. I would totally freak if that happened to either of my girls. Wow! The worst accident I had as a kid also involved the eyes. When it is one of your main senses I think you remember...

15 Oct 09

When you are lonely ,why not try something different? Volunteer.

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 12 Oct 09

Reading some older discussions I noticed so many people' are lonely and there were great ideas put forth to help cure loneliness. But I remember that there are a lot of places that always need people to volunteer? and what...

volunteers can garner large rewards

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blueunicorn That is a GREAT idea! Thank you for pointing this out to people. I have volunteered for years in different areas and met some great people. I have more events happening than I know what to do with, so I don't have time to be lonely. You don't only have to...

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What was the snazziest, fanciest hotel you ever stayed at?

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 23 Aug 09

OF all your travels..what was the fanciest, most expensive hotel you ever stayed at? How much did it cost? Did you book it online or call up hotels from the yellow pages? I would say the most expensive is where I am...

hotels

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blueunicorn The most expensive hotel I've stayed at was actually a bed and breakfast. It was $200 per night, but it was FUN! We only stayed one night. In the evening the place had a happy hour where all the guests gathered for a snack which was big enough to be a meal,...

23 Aug 09

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When did you last see a movie in the theater?

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 22 Aug 09

IT's been a question in alot of surveys lately. You know I haven't been in a movie theater since my oldest who's almost 7yrs was 5 weeks old! My hubby has been only once since then & that was to take my oldest to see Cars when it...

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blueunicorn It's been about a year and a half since I've been to a movie theater. We usually go about once every 2 years. It's just too expensive for a family anymore. When we do go we go to the discount theater. Even at only $3 per ticket, though, we can't go too often.

23 Aug 09

Do you prefer a shower or a bath?

Sheri @tuckersheri (1327) • United States 23 Aug 09

I prefer to take a bath because it is so relaxing. I find it to be more relaxing than a shower. You can lay and lounge in a tub. You can also throw in some fun stuff like a bubble bath, bath salt and good smelling body wash. A...

bath

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blueunicorn My bathroom is not a relaxing, pleasant place to be so I would choose the shower. That way I can get in and out.

23 Aug 09

Is it right to give children presents everytime a mother comes home from work?

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 23 Aug 09

The separation anxiety of my daughter has been solved. If before I had a hard time leaving my daughter at home, now it's not a big problem anymore because she got used to me leaving the house everyday provided I give her something...

children

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blueunicorn I personally think this is a really bad habit to get into. Why don't you make the gift something like a hug or a walk around the block? Something that a child can enjoy but is not a tangible thing. That way the child has the satisfaction of having you home but...

23 Aug 09

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What is left after the passion gone?

riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 19 Aug 09

Once, I met my friend. She told me that her husband was sick badly almost two years. He couldn't make love anymore because of his sickness. She looked depressed because of this. She is thinking about to get divorce but on the...

make love

passion

sickness

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blueunicorn I'm sorry to be so blunt, but to get divorced for this reason is stupid. If this is an otherwise healthy marriage, I am not sure why this woman would get divorced. What is the meaning of the vows we take when we marry? Do they not say in sickness and in...

20 Aug 09

I finally got a JOB! AT LAST!!

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 11 Aug 09

Yes, that's right my friends I am now again EMPLOYED! I was called yesterday morning and did the interview. We hit it off like we were best friends. Very good sign. About twenty five minutes later the manager called me back and...

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blueunicorn Congratulations on your job! I love when interviews go so well like that. I recently got a job and had the same experience. I felt GREAT leaving the interview. I had to wait 4 days before finding out the good news, though. I wish you luck in all you are taking...

11 Aug 09

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At what age did you first fall in love?

shhheila @shhheila (1845) • Philippines 11 Aug 09

I was 16. He was an amazing guy and still is to this day. Unfortunantly, he is someone else's amazing guy but I will never forget him....i'll wait for my mr. right! have a nice day!

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blueunicorn I think I was about 14 or 15 when I first fell in love. We dated off and on from that time until I married my first husband at age 22. Boy did I choose the wrong guy! :) Anyway, the boy I fell in love with was wonderful and turned into an awesome man. I am...

11 Aug 09

You never realize how important something is until you dont have it....

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 7 Aug 09

For those of you who dont know, I started school this past Monday. Since then I have be bombarded with homework, studying etc. I have had no time to log on to any thing much less MyLot. All week long I felt as if I was forgetting...

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blueunicorn Congratulations on starting school! I completely understand what you are saying. All summer long I have been waiting for my kids to go back to school because of their fighting and their boredom. On the first day (Wednesday) I dropped them off and almost cried....

7 Aug 09

How do you feel about co sleeping?

polo_princess @polo_princess (803) 7 Aug 09

What are your opinions on co sleeping? Did you or do you do it with your baby? All through my pregnancy i was adamant that i wouldnt co sleep as i felt it would encourage bad sleeping habits later on in life for my daughter but...

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blueunicorn I think cosleeping is a lot more common than people will admit to as well. I think we all say we won't do it, but when it is 3:00 in the morning and the baby is not sleeping, well, things change. I had a co-sleeper attachment for my bed. It was great! It...

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Are you afraid that your parents may die right now?

kenchobi @kenchobi (147) • Philippines 7 Aug 09

I just felt so sad when I heard that my uncle just died last week. He's just too young to die. And can't help myself thinking what if my parents were next. I can't bare the thought and I'm really really scared of that to happen....

parents

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blueunicorn As I am getting older I realize my parents are, too. I do think about the fact that they could die, and it makes me terribly sad. I do not fear that day, but I definitely don't like to think about it. I heard a song on the radio one day about a dad that was...

7 Aug 09

Milk chocolate or dark chocolate

hunnie1979 @hunnie1979 (270) • United States 7 Aug 09

Hi their , Well I am a chocolate lover like most of us.I prefer dark chocolate . Im not to sure why,but the taste to me is more intense,or maybe its bitter.I can't figure it out. What do you prefer?

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blueunicorn I prefer milk chocolate. Up until a couple of years ago I didn't care for chocolate at all. So, I guess I am making progress! LOL

7 Aug 09

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Are you satisfied with your name? Would you change it if you have the chance?

jenskye03 @jenskye03 (354) • Philippines 7 Aug 09

I have a short and unusual name. People sometimes thought that I am a guy when they haven't met me yet. My mom named me from a tennis player she liked then did some modification. And poof! That's my name now. LOL.. I don't have...

change name

names

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blueunicorn When I was younger I used to want to change my name. I don't now, though. I am content with the one I was given. Coming up with names for my two daughters was a pain. I think that's when I realized I was just happy that I had a name! LOL

7 Aug 09

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if your boyfriend told you he'll leave you if you get fat, what would you do?

raenie @raenie (705) • Philippines 28 Jul 09

I have a friend whose boyfriend told him that (I don't think he was joking though) my friend is not fat at all but she got hurt when he said that--if you were in her shoes, what would you do? I told her that was...

breaking up

relationships

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blueunicorn I actually had this situation, except it was my husband. He is, for many other reasons, now my ex. I would advise your friend to find out where the comment was coming from. Is she currently gaining weight and it was a threat? Was he talking about 5 or 10...

28 Jul 09

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