bmodlin

@bmodlin (14)

United States • Age 42

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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The meaning of "punk"

olisaur @olisaur (1922) • United States 20 May 10

I don't know if any mylotters have noticed but the usage of the term "punk" has come to the point where it is way over-used- abused, in my opinion. Original punk music consisted of something like simple-ish power chord/chord...

music

punk

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bmodlin This is something that drives me nuts! "Punk" has become so trendy and poppy. I hate seeing 'Avril Laveigne' ..or whatever her name is under the "punk" section of music stores. Punk to me is rebelling against all the trends. Punk to me is bands such as Iggy...

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Are you raising your kids the way your parents raised you?

OpinionatedLady @OpinionatedLady (5965) • United States 20 May 10

I have three soon to be four kids, and although I am raising them a little differently then my folks raised me I am still raising them close to how I was raised. I have family though who are definitely not raising their kids the...

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bmodlin I am raising Aiden very much as the way I was raised. My mom did it all by herself with no help from my dead beat father. I want Aiden to be grateful, honest and a strong young man. I feel like I turned out very well. I'm drug free, I appreciate every little...

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Would you rather...

criizz180 @criizz180 (42) • United States 10 May 10

Would you rather have experienced love and lost it or not go through any of it at all. I say experience it and lose it.

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bmodlin VERY good question. I think both have pros and cons. Loving makes you vulnerable and no one likes being vulnerable. Life would be a lot easier if we were all born asexual with no desire for companionship.

20 May 10

Would you let your 12 yr old child get a tattoo!!??

kerryokequeen @kerryokequeen (46) • Canada 20 May 10

my ex husband has promised our daughter she can get a butterfly tattoo when she turns 12 next month! I think this is terribly wrong! My ex thinks this is perfectly fine because he has tattoos and says if she can handle the pain...

tattoo

young daughter

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bmodlin I got my first professional tattoo when I was 15 so of course I'm going to be on the husbands side. I had always wanted one, the only reason I bought cracker jacks was to get the temporary tattoos that came as prizes. I really don't think its that big of a...

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Hot or Cold Water for bathing...

tolted @tolted (190) 19 May 10

Which do you prefer for bathing- hot or cold water? Personally I love my water HOT especially when I use the shower, it refreshes me and I feel am cleaner (just my thoughts). Even when the weather is hot I still like my water hot...

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bmodlin The only time I like cold water for my bath is when im burning up with a fever. The water has to be so hot it almost melts my flesh off. I heard that a hot HOT bath is not good for you, but I heard it was because it dries your skin out.

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What do you do when your only invited to a wedding for the gift?

moonlitmagikchild @moonlitmagikchild (22181) • United States 20 May 10

recently got an invitation to a wedding and this person doesnt like us and arent on speaking terms with us yet we get an invitation to this persons wedding that is across the country! (they live locally) anyone that knows me well...

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bmodlin Perhaps they are trying to make themselves feel like good people by sending the invite knowing you cant make it? "Well honey, we TRIED to invite them." A lot of people think that way. It makes them feel better that they at least attempted to invite you. Don't...

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What brings you out of a sad mood? Any specific object or action?

eddyspaghetti @eddyspaghetti (1225) • United States 20 May 10

Anime and manga bring me out of sour or sad mood. I'm a little bummed out right now and so now I'm about to watch Naruto anime. So fellow myLotters what brings you out of a not so nice mood? Hot chocolate? Screaming in a pillow?...

moody

sad

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bmodlin THE GOLDEN GIRLS! haha And if you saw me, you wouldn't guess it. I'm an edgy tattooed girl that curses more than a sailor and looks like shes mad at the world. Nothing makes me laugh like those old women though. I can be sad, angry, whatever. I pop in the DVD...

20 May 10

Have you ever been in a longterm relationship where there was no I love you?

divineathena @divineathena (1746) • United States 19 May 10

A friend of mine once told me he just started a relationship. After 8 months he was still with her. Once when talking he showed frustration towards the relationship. So a question popped up from my mouth. I asked him whether he...

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bmodlin I have dated people that I had love for, but was not IN love with them. I think its common actually. "I love you" is a term thrown around a lot, I am a firm believer that if you don't mean it, than you shouldn't say it. If your saying it and not meaning it,...

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Here today, gone tomorrow.

AjaySinghBaghel @AjaySinghBaghel (5506) • India 19 May 10

Nothing in life is as certain as death. Everything living is bound to die one day. We appear on the world scene only to disappear after a short span of time. This is the cycle of terrestrial life. Finally a time will come when...

life and death

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bmodlin Again, I believe people fear what they do not understand.. I recently lost my stepfather and my own mortality has been weighing on my mind. The doctor said its perfectly normal though. I think the thing that scares me the most is thinking that I'm going to...

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Typing

thanks1961 @thanks1961 (7033) • India 20 May 10

Many of us are spend a lots of time with computers. This is about while sitting with myLot. How many of you will review after writing your response before start discussion? OR Once submitted, have you ever noticed some...

typing

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bmodlin I reread my submissions, I even do it when I'm sending a text to someone. No one wants to sound like an idiot. Its actually a habit that my fiance pointed out about a week ago. I don't reread for spelling errors I just want to make sure that what I'm saying...

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Are You Quick to Yell Scam or Do You Do Your Research ?

daveyboy54 @daveyboy54 (517) • United States 20 May 10

So many people are complaining that they have been scammed by ptc sites. Unfortunately, there are a lot of scam ptc's out there. But I've also noticed that many people have developed "scamophobia", that is, they are quick to...

determining ptc scams

ptc scams

ptc sites

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bmodlin I believe its human nature to fear what you do not understand. I was taught that nothing in life is free. If i hear of a great deal that seems too good to be true, I assume it is too good to be true. I am not one to sign up for something or order something...

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