BrandiLenee

@BrandiLenee (17)

United States • Age 44

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Do you increase your wants according to the availability of resources?

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 9 Apr 10

People may tend to expand their wants according to the availability of resources. As resources increase their life style may change. This certainly has some disadvantages if there is a downswing in earnings or if there is some...

wants increase with availability of respurces

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BrandiLenee What an excellent topic. I have actually considered myself lucky that my resources were so limited. I don't waste time wanting what I can't have. I don't personally like the feeling of wanting things. To me it is such a dissatisfied feeling. When we're busy...

11 Apr 10

what happen with you when get drunk?...

anitarei321 @anitarei321 (548) • Japan 3 Apr 10

I often seen my friend drunk and they always act like crazy,my friend is got birthday party last night,she got drunk too much,she was laugh then cry she trow thing and mix up the place i was watching her feel shy myself.she can...

drunk

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BrandiLenee I guess it depends on what I feel like when I start drinking. If I'm angry when I start, I will usually get hostile and start a fight. If I'm in a good mood, then I have a good time dancing and talking. I actually rarely drink. Not because of how I act when...

4 Apr 10

Facebook---is it really addicting?

lliaynth @lliaynth (20) • Philippines 1 Apr 10

I've got friends who say that they can spend a whole day using FB(Facebook) without even having lunch or dinner. As some people had also told me, it is addicting enough for them to forget/miss class or to change their schedules....

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BrandiLenee I think computers (internet) can be very addicting, Facebook especially so for the people who use apps. After I started seeing my home page filled up with others' game stats, I knew the apps weren't for me. I check daily and then jump right off before it sucks...

2 Apr 10

Who cheats more? the guys or the girls?

shermaine1112 @shermaine1112 (203) • Philippines 1 Apr 10

Ladies and gents...WHO IS THE REAL CHEATER?? Who cheats first? I myself cheated in a relationship but not intentionally. He cheated first! Despite of all the sacrifices I've done for him,he cheated! Our relationship was...

cheating

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BrandiLenee My opinions tend toward the derogatory side when it comes to men, but it's because of real life experiences. I'd have to say that men cheat more than women. I have noticed that the way men and women love is different. This is just generally speaking and I know...

2 Apr 10

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Did you give yourself a treat today?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17387) • Canada 30 Mar 10

For the past few days, including last week, I’ve been dealing with a couple of major issues at work. I’ve been coming in early, staying late, and sometimes barely have time for lunch. Well today, I’ve come to a breaking point, for...

treats

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BrandiLenee Does taking a shower count? Staying home with a two year old who doesn't nap makes anything but a short shower near impossible. I used to complain that the last bubble bath I had was 8 yrs ago before my oldest was born. Now, I'd love a shower I could linger in...

31 Mar 10

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strip clubs bad for a relationship?

kittykatxox845 @kittykatxox845 (20) • United States 30 Mar 10

is letting your man go to a strip club bad for your relationship? A lot of woman think so, but a lot of woman would also let there man go to a strip club. some woman say its disrespectful to them and some woman think its...

advice

relationships

sex

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BrandiLenee Absolutely not, will my man be at a strip club. For one thing, there is too much money spent there and I won't have my family's money spent. Not when it is available for free at home. Pursuing interests in other women says one thing to the woman you have left...

31 Mar 10

Smoking - Do you remember why you started smoking?

dr9rim @dr9rim (247) • Australia 31 Mar 10

I have been wondering, how many of my friends really remember why they started smoking. Mine would be because my friends smoke and I just wanted to try. Yes, peer pressure. I was still in high school then, maybe I was 16....

health

smoking

social

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BrandiLenee My boyfriend and my brother smoked Newports. When I got to missing my boyfriend, I stupidly decided to smoke a Newport because the smell reminded me of him. The boyfriend's gone and I still have the habit!

31 Mar 10

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I just sold my car. How did you feel when you parted with your first car?

recycledgoth @recycledgoth (9894) 31 Mar 10

I sold my car today. Nothing unusual in that, after all people sell their cars every day, but this was the first car I had ever owned. I feel very sentimental about that car, I loved it so much and lavished a lot of time,...

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BrandiLenee You will probably feel that way about every car you ever own, not just your first car. I have always felt like I was saying goodbye to an old friend everytime I sold or traded a car. You don't realize the memories you associate with your vehicle until they are...

31 Mar 10

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ME vs MY GIRLFRIENDS DAD! please help.

jmservese @jmservese (43) • Philippines 31 Mar 10

I feel so down now. Please tel me what to do. My girlfriend's father keeps on doing things that would break my relationship with his daughter. I hate to tell him that I have had enough of what he is doing because I wanted to gain...

relationships

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BrandiLenee Your situation is a tough one, for you as well as your girlfriend. You didn't mention how your girlfriend feels about the situation? I have been in the same spot as your girlfriend with an ex-boyfriend who my parents didn't like and it was very stressful. I am...

31 Mar 10

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If your husband often beats you would you still hold on to your marriage?

khaezi @khaezi (1001) • Philippines 29 Mar 10

Hello..I have known a woman who's constantly being beaten by his husband even in front of their children. But in spite of everything she tends to stick with him for the sake of their kids. There are also rumors of her husband...

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BrandiLenee I thought I might try to shed some light on this subject, as domestic abuse can be easily misunderstood. I was in an abusive relationship for six years with 2 children. I did leave him when my children were 16 mos and 3 mos. The ONLY reason I left was because...

29 Mar 10

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Do you acknowledge your mistakes?

rizadel @eloveriz2004 (499) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

No one is perfect enough to do things without any errors. We are only human, all our weaknesses and defects outnumber our strengths. For this, we do commit mistakes intentionally or not. The little faults we do can even lead to...

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BrandiLenee They say that everything happens for a reason. I have had many experiences in my life where I made a mistake or the wrong choice and the "reason" it happened was because I needed to learn something in order to grow as a person. In order to learn from our...

23 Mar 10

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An 10-year Old Child try to hide from his friends he has a broken Family :-)

Proud Dad of Twins :) @primeaque86 (8108) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

Please try to impart your time reading this. I want you to know all that I had just received the phone call of my Aunt and we talk a seemingly endless discussion tonight. I was enjoying my discussion here when my phone rang. I...

broken family

children

mature content

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BrandiLenee I am so sorry to hear of your family's sadness. So-called "broken" families occur all too often these days and the worst of it seems to fall all on the children. It is especially hard when the children keep their feelings to themselves and pretend that...

22 Mar 10

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Would you survive if you dont have a boyfriend or a girlfriend?

p3ks626 @p3ks626 (6538) • Philippines 22 Mar 10

I always here my friends who are younger than me that they need to have a boyfriend after the having a previous relationship. They said they needed to have a boyfriend or a girlfriend cause having one is already a part of their...

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BrandiLenee I have had periods in my life where I did have a long time boyfriend and I found that the periods in between without one were a very valuable time for me. It is a time when I found out who I really was without having to adapt to who someone else wanted me to...

22 Mar 10

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