Charis Chavez

@ccarabuena (442)

Cebu, Philippines • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

I am a 3rd year law student, who loves to cook and doing outdoor activities such as wake boarding, mt.climbing and trekking. I am also working at the same time.

Responses (152)

Charis Chavez's Responses

Worry About My Future

helenworry @helenworry (71) 11 Oct 12

Now I am a sophomore student.My main major is English and my second major is accoutancy.I don't know whether I need to take part in the postgraduate entrance exams or to find a job when I graduate from the college.I don't know...

future

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Charis Chavez Well, if you can do both why not? But first, you need to determine what really interests you either English or Accountancy. You make your own MAP with the possible jobs you can end up with, with each course you have at the moment. Are you inclined with...

12 Oct 12

Task rejected, cause: not natural English

alberello @alberello (4752) • Italy 12 Oct 12

The other day, I decided to participate in a task here on Mylot, where there was to rewrite a text of at least 500 words relating to a specific topic (which I do not remember), without making the copy / paste from other...

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Charis Chavez You don't have to feel bad yourself, because when you tried the task and put your best effort on it you're already a WINNER! Yes, it's true that not all countries do have English as second language and with this, they are unable to communicate themselves well...

12 Oct 12

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I stopped at a car accident to assist but was annoyed, too.

nanajanet @nanajanet (4436) • United States 20 Sep 12

Home from work, a little late. There was an accident on near my home. Luckily no one was hurt bad. I was coming up the hill and someone flashed their headlights at me, but my brights were not on. Then it dawned on me that...

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Charis Chavez It was so kind of you to help that person, nanajanet. Other people are hesitant to help because they are too afraid to involve in such scenario like that, probably of fear seeing someone full of blood or that they were shocked and was stucked and they couldn't...

21 Sep 12

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Your way of saving money...

bev_arch_20 @bev_arch_20 (842) • Philippines 13 Oct 10

I know most people struggle in saving money, and if anyone is successful in saving money, i know they have surpassed the struggles and finally found a perfect way to save money. On my part, I would like to save atleast 10% of...

money

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Charis Chavez For me, I saved money because I have a goal to reach. If you are up to something, you need to have it as your motivation to reach that certain goal, it's like when your getting married or for emergency cases. Who know's when that time comes no one can easily...

13 Oct 10

What would you do in this situation?

chanchalchopde @chanchalchopde (361) • India 12 Oct 10

Friends,Suppose you are in relationship with your lover from many years,you both have a good relationship and maintaining very nicely.Your parents knows about the your lover and they dont have any problem with it.You get settled...

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Charis Chavez If that would happen to me, I really don't know what I can do. Probably trying to work things out and still no change I will just love him until it hurts no more. I let myself to love the same person even if he's not with me anymore in that way I can heal...

13 Oct 10

Would you rather share your room or you want it for your privacy only?

SimpleBB @SimpleBB (1329) • Philippines 8 Oct 10

I've been in a considered big family and we're not that wealthy. We used to sleep together in usually only one room. We never experienced to have our owned house. Since my adolescence stage, of course I got envy to my friends...

privacy

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Charis Chavez To share a room with a family member is okay for as long as he/she knows how to keep it tidy. I am really O.C when it comes to rug, it should not be step on with your shoes and it should be your feet on it. Strange because it call rugs / dirty rugs but I dont...

9 Oct 10

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Is Anyone Here Sick Of Ryan Seacrest Always Making Excuses?

snoopyfan @snoopyfan (1312) • United States 31 Mar 10

I am so sick of Ryan trying to make excuses for why the idols are bad or give a bad performance. Even last night after shoban(sorry if spelled wrong) gave a so-so performance and was called out there goes Ryan trying to make...

idol

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Charis Chavez Hi, snoopyfan. I won't agree with you. Ryan Seacrest is just being articulate and I think people who watch American Idol would ask the same question as to why they choose that song. Sioban is great and unique. Cyrstal Bowersox also. And I wonder why Andrew was...

6 Apr 10

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Do you think there is still a lot of faithful guys?

markmoney @markmoney (2868) • Philippines 5 Apr 10

With the modern society, most guys are becoming more aggressive and less patient in terms of love. It is also said that guys are polygamous in nature. Most men are not satisfied with one girl, for them, the more the merrier....

faithful guy

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Charis Chavez Of course! I don't think there's nothing left in this world and I am excited to meet that person. It's good to have friends "good and real friends"

6 Apr 10

Am I asking too much?!?

anjel016 @anjel016 (329) • Philippines 17 Jan 10

Okay right now I am not feeling too well. I am sick and just wish to rest, but I can't cause I can't breath well right now. Well, my bf and I got a long distance relationship and we just mostly communicate through phone. A couple...

comfort

relationship

sick

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Charis Chavez Long distance relationship is really hard. There are so many things will happen, and too many reasons for you to be strong especially when you and your love had an argument. Sometimes, it's so nice to have someone to talk to when your lonely and not feeling...

18 Jan 10

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never fall in love

iqbal21 @iqbal21 (1) • Bangladesh 8 Jan 10

i m 27 years old.i had an affair.but she broke my heart.so now i feel that, love is nothing but a pain.

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Charis Chavez Yes, it is painful when that person is not loving you as the way you do to him. However, when you finally meet the "ONE" I'm sure you will be thankful because you will feel what happiness means when it's a "mutual love" and not the "one sided love" as they...

8 Jan 10

I Hate to be The Bad Guy.......BUT!

kprofgames @kprofgames (3091) • United States 22 Sep 09

Okay I'm struggling here with holding my tongue. I very dear person to me is having a hard time. I can say what I mean and what she needs to hear or I can give her comfort and understanding. I've done the comforat and...

divorce

friendship

helping hands

it just has to be said

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Charis Chavez Well in that case you have to make her realize the fact and also provide suggestion that will boost her confidence and cheer her up. I don't think being honest with your friend makes you a bad guy, instead you are being true to her base on what you observe...

23 Sep 09

I Thought Girls Liked For Guys To Hold Doors For Them?

grumpybear @ShortyAkbar (384) • United States 21 Sep 09

I was going to the campus cafeteria one day and this girl was behind me. She was very pretty and I held the door open for her. The fact that she was pretty wasn't the only reason I held the door open for her. I always hold doors...

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Charis Chavez Ahahaha... you know what dude being nice to someone most of the times girls misinterpret it.. But don't feel sorry about it..atleast you did what you need to do. Maybe she doesn't know the meaning of "nice" instead of saying thank you MR. SHORTYAKBAR but...

21 Sep 09

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Internet money ...

beautifulll @beautifulll (85) • South Africa 21 Sep 09

I was so happy when I learnt 2-3 months ago that I could make money from the internet.I immediatly signed up,and got internet connection and just thought Id make a little pocket money for myself.Its been 2-3 months,and I have...

internet

money

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Charis Chavez aside from making money thru internet you will also gain friends, you get to talk to a lot of things especially individuals interest. you'll get some tips from other mylotters who are business minded, some of them musician you will also learn their music...

21 Sep 09

Today is my anniversay, and I

sudalunts @sudalunts (5523) • United States 5 Jun 09

totally forgot it. Today marks 10 years of marriage for me and my husband. I usually do not forget dates, birthdays, anniversaries etc. Well, last night my husband and I went to bed, and it was after midnight. He said Happy...

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Charis Chavez Wow, he's really a good husband and I really adore him. And despite of the fortuitous events happened he's still there and you guys love each other for sure and God Bless you ^_^ Just don't forget to pray and for sure you will be given if you just asked...

5 Jun 09

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Does older men more sensitive than younger ones?

torchablazed @torchablazed (3218) • Philippines 5 Jun 09

A young lady I was having a conversation with married an old man (she's about 18 and married a 50 year old guy), I asked her why him? She told me that she prefers older men simply because they are more sensitive the needs of a...

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Charis Chavez Hmm I would prefer older men, but not over 8 years older than me. It's so nice to have someone that you can talk with and relate to what you've been through. I'm not saying older men CAN'T but it's good to be with somewhat at your age. I know a lot of women...

5 Jun 09

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will you adopt you husband's child?

ckyera @ckyera (17331) • Philippines 4 Jun 09

this just comes to my mind... given a situation...let say your husband have sinned to you, got an affair with another woman and make her pregnant...and when the other woman gave birth she gave the child to your husband and she is...

adopt

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Charis Chavez Well of course, I will accept that child...It's so nice to have a baby.. Even right now I'm fond of other babies which it's not mine,,,how much more it's from my husband genes even if it's not from mine...

5 Jun 09

Is there something on your mind?

Citychic @Citychic (4067) • United States 4 Jun 09

Hey mylotters, I"m just reserving this section for anyone who feel like they have something on their mind that they'd like to discuss.Something that really bothers you? It can be about anything other than money and paying the...

discussions

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Charis Chavez I'm thinking of having a big amount of money since I want to help someone for the training for him to go abroad. He's my very good friend and in that way also I can help his family as well. ^_^

4 Jun 09