chalanash

@chalanash (59)

Philippines • Age 50

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Have you came to an instance of wishing a 3rd relationship partner?

aRiSdGrEaT @aRiSdGrEaT (621) • Philippines 27 Feb 08

Exactly... Threesome is being said here. Have you experienced with your gf/bf having rent or flirt with other guy/girl? But still, you and your partner have commitment. Response is appreciated

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chalanash honestly, this is happening to my friend! all i can say is they are grown ups who knows what is right and what is wrong! my only advice is that u should know when to stop & what is at stake... u should learn to accept the consequences....

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More and more pregnant teenagers!

superchook @superchook (1786) • Australia 11 May 07

There seems to be more and more pregnant teenagers these day and I really feel sorry for them. I feel sorry for them because they will miss out on their freedom as they are growing up, they won't be able to do what their friends...

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chalanash you are correct when you say they might not know what they're missing. I feel pitty for the pregnant child because how can a child take care of a child. i think she's not that equipped to take care of another innocent child. proper guidance will really help...

12 May 07

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Have you evre loved someone so much..........

mssnow @mssnow (9484) • United States 29 Apr 07

Ok here is ms romance again with another romantic question. Have you ever liked someone so very much. With your heart and soul. You were scared you would smother them to death? You try to act cool and stay friends as they...

love

romance

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chalanash one thing i've learned abt love, when you love someone let the person know you care, tell them how you feel while u can, otherwise, the moment will just slip away & u may never get the chance to tell them how u really feel. tell it in a nice way not in a...

30 Apr 07

Who makes a better BESTFRIEND, girls or boys?

maple_kisses @maple_kisses (2156) • Philippines 21 Apr 07

I've grown up in family wherein the only male is my Dad (I've got 3 sisters). When I was in high school, I belong to this group of girls called "Models Inc.". Girl friends are fun to be with, we share the same fondness for...

bestfriend

boyfriend

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chalanash well, they both have different traits, so i guess you just have to choose what information you should feed each other. i h ave 1 male best friend & 1 female best friend, both good confidants, knows different things abt me. the boy bestfriend might not know...

21 Apr 07

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are you pleased when you recieve flowers from men?

aciddrop @aciddrop (798) 20 Apr 07

apparently sending flowers is not a funky idea nowadays.but ladies,do you still look forward to getting a bunch of flowers from ur man or the guy you have a crush on?do you always feel romantic and pleased when you recieve them...

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chalanash receiving a gift/flowers from somebody you love will always give you the feeling of excitement/happiness. it may not be that meaningful to the one giving it but it is to the one receiving the gift whether expensive or not...it's the thought that counts.......

21 Apr 07

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What made you smile today?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 6 Apr 07

The world would be a much happier place if we all smiled more, and looked at the positive things in our lives instead of concentrating on the negative. So I thought I would start a thread where we could talk about the little...

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chalanash aside from my daily dose of kisses from my dogs, what really made me smile was a text meassage & call from the person i like to be with... guess what we're going out later.... the feeling of being wanted & loved makes me smile everyday

7 Apr 07

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If you were able, would you have hired a nanny for your newborn?

kynni204 @kynni204 (2031) • United States 6 Apr 07

That first day home from the hospital we all just want to sleep. The first three months of your baby's life can be exhausting. Did you enjoy getting up in the middle of the night sometimes for hours. Some nights I just wanted...

babies

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chalanash though i don't really under estimate the nanny's but i believe that both parents play a role on bringing up their child... those are precious moments to be cherished.... alternate w ur husband so both of u can have their moments w the baby....

7 Apr 07

What Do You Look For In a Friend?

Darkwing @Darkwing (21583) 6 Apr 07

I have made many friends on the Internet, and most of them have stayed, loyal and by my side. The first of these friends I met six years ago, in a Pogo games room and we are still constantly in touch, even though I haven't met her...

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chalanash the one thing you should look for a friend should be honest and somebody you could rely on....i have friends from the net & we've been friends for almost 2yrs now. we still keep in touch....

7 Apr 07

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I feel so tired, but I can't sleep

recycledgoth @recycledgoth (9894) 6 Apr 07

With all the stresses and strains of day to day living lately I have felt more and more tired, yet I can't get a decent night's sleep. I know I am worrying about things, money and the lack of a job, but now it is reaching a stage...

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chalanash i think you should consult a physician/psychiatrist, relax, sometimes or most often it has something to do with the food your eat.

7 Apr 07

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HELP! How do I stop a puppy from chewing cords?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 30 Mar 07

We have a "foster pup" right now that was rescued from a puppy mill. He is so adorable BUT he loves to chew cords. He's a terrier mix, not sure what else he has with him. Cute as a button but has already ruined 3 cords. Not only...

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chalanash my dogs name is also charlie.... he hehe they love to chew on things... i just give them toys to chew on...sometimes dogs do that because they're teething or stressed...

31 Mar 07

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HELP! How do I stop a puppy from chewing cords?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 30 Mar 07

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chalanash distract the dog and give him another toy to chew....

31 Mar 07

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I'm an unmarried mother-to-be and my family doesn't know a thing...

maxen7 @maxen7 (54) • Philippines 29 Mar 07

Mom-to-be with plans on leaving home for a temporary group home for single mothers, I could only hope that by the time my parents read the letter, my dad won't succumb into a heart attack. My boyfriend, though I love him is still...

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chalanash deary, i know it's very hard thing to do, be strong in times like this when you're suppose to be w your loved ones. what saddens me is that the father of the child is not sure whether to take the resposibility or not... anyways, be strong... i belong to a very...

30 Mar 07

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Do you let them lick your face????

mummymo @mummymo (23706) 23 Mar 07

Here is the thing, I don't have any dogs myself but I do love them - apart from when they try to lick my face! I get really freaked out by this, I know they have germs on their tongue and they lick their rear ends right before...

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chalanash i love dogs & they lick me on the face like a kiss most of the time when i feed them.... but here is the trick.... wash your face afterwards.... he he he clean afterwards

24 Mar 07

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Who was in the delivery room when you gave birth?

gapeach65 @gapeach65 (805) • United States 23 Mar 07

This morning I was reminded of a funny situation when I gave birth to my youngest son. The room was dark, it was about 4 AM, my husband was by my side, there was the doctor and a few nurses (I don't remember how many). After my...

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chalanash i have never given birth but when i do so in the next future months, if i could turn back time i would want my mom & husband to be there w me.... sad to say my mom already passed away & no father of the baby on hand.... kinda like moral support of what to...

24 Mar 07

mrs/mr right?

aRiSdGrEaT @aRiSdGrEaT (621) • Philippines 15 Mar 07

I am enjoying having committes to girlfriends.. I have experience how to love and how to be loved.. But i dont know how would i know that she is the right person for me to the rest of my life... Yeah i am admitting that having...

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chalanash we can never tell whom are we going to end up w, we might have even met the person but didn't realize it. we have to depend on our instincts & what our heart & mind is telling us... balance is the key, should be 1. nobody's getting hurt 2. feeling is mutual 3....

19 Mar 07

Can someone truly love YOU if they are always trying to change you?

sharone74 @sharone74 (4837) • United States 12 Mar 07

I don't think that if a person is always trying to change you that they can really say that they love you. If they love YOU, unique and individual you then they would stop trying to change you so much and engage in deatling with...

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chalanash my answer to that would NO, the person doesn't truly love you. here's my theory if a pers on truly loves you or viceversa, you will love everything in him/her, the whole package, no if's no but's... unconditional

12 Mar 07