chiragvadher

@chiragvadher (83)

India • Age 46

Joined myLot 18 years ago

live and let live

Responses (65)

chiragvadher's Responses

MyLot is a waste of time!

InspirationStation @InspirationStation (188) • United States 27 Jan 07

Ok, I'm getting frustrated here. I spent like 5 hours writing yesterday and hardly anyone even responded to my posts nor to my responses to others' discussions. Not to mention the fact that I made a whopping 75 cents! Don't get...

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chiragvadher well why dont you take a break.

28 Jan 07

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Is yelling at your children ok?

nexis777 @nexis777 (133) • United States 28 Jan 07

Do you think yelling at your children is ok? Why or why not? I tend to think yelling does more harm to a child than a properly given spanking, although it may depend on the personality of the child. As a child I far preferred...

emotional

spanking

yelling

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chiragvadher if the child is not at all listening to you, you should do it some times, but if the child is much older and is able to understand then you should talk to him and make him realize his/her mistake.

28 Jan 07

Punishment for rape

prettypinkbug @prettypinkbug (437) • United States 27 Jan 07

What do you think is the correct punishment for a person who has raped someone? My husband and I don't see eye to eye on this one. What do you guys think? If I were raped, I would want to kill the guy. Should the rapist get the...

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chiragvadher well the punishment should be DEATH for a rapist.

28 Jan 07

Candy Cigarettes A Good of Bad thing? Effect on Children?

crazynurse @crazynurse (7482) • United States 27 Jan 07

Candy cigarettes were on candy counters when I was a child. I have never smoked nor will I ever smoke. Candy cigarettes are only rarely seen on candy counters now, but ARE still available. They have not been outlawed as many...

candy cigarettes

children

influence

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chiragvadher sure candy cigarettes are bad things for children. they affect them psycologically.

28 Jan 07

Do You Read With Your Child?

devideddi @devideddi (1435) • United States 27 Jan 07

It is so so so very important. I don't think some people realize the importance. Not only do they learn things, it is quality time together, they respect the fact that you read, the practice is important to become a better...

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chiragvadher well you should really do that. I dont have a child but would really do it for his/her better future

28 Jan 07

I'm thinking of taking a break from myLot.......

ShadowWalker @ShadowWalker (969) • United States 27 Jan 07

Why? Because there are no original topics to post to. I wish these repeat topics could be weeded out because it would make myLot a much better place to be. I don't know what the remedy is but there has to be one. I've seen where...

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chiragvadher I think you should take a break coz you need it badly.

28 Jan 07

ur reason for being on mylot?

Khyatii @Khyatii (237) • United States 20 Jan 07

is it only money or timepass? i m thinkng money..right?..well then y do i see all these discussions ppl complaining abt people being here only for money? i think its nice that this site is attracting ppl unsing money and helping...

help

money

mylot

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chiragvadher money ofcourse

21 Jan 07

Such A Good Day

Tokz @ilocosboy (45156) • Philippines 6 Sep 16

No rain and no gloomy day. This is indeed a good Wednesday this September. I have a forecast this will be a very fruitful day.. The plants can make a smile now for the warmth of the sun and our activities now will not be limited...

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chiragvadher No rain and no gloomy day. This is indeed a good Wednesday this September. I have a forecast this will be a very fruitful day.. The plants can make a smile now for the warmth of the sun and our activities now will not be limited due to rain. And if this...

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What operating system do you prefer?

uselesspowers @uselesspowers (240) • United States 5 Jan 07

The majority of the world uses one of three major operating systems: Windows, Macintosh OS, or Linux. The question I have for you is which of these do you use/prefer? Also, which version of the operating system are you currently...

panther

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chiragvadher Well I at present use Win 98 but will soon be installing Win XP

6 Jan 07

My Bestfriend....

cachekitten @cachekitten (463) • Philippines 5 Jan 07

I have a bestfriend..She's like a sister to me..whenever im in hard situation she used to help me..But my parents and relatives dont like her a lot. She doesnt have a good reputation in our place..She use to be slot just to earn...

bestfriend

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chiragvadher well I too believe in that saying. I too have frnds but come of them r special. and thats why they are called BEST FRIENDS.

6 Jan 07

love vs friendship

rglodak @rglodak (573) • Indonesia 24 Dec 06

a few times ago, i met a girl. she`s a nice and very kind to me. i admire her as one of my best friend. our friendship was just fine, until one day she told me that she had been in love with me. in fact, for about this time, she...

friend

girl

love

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chiragvadher well I think you should tell here as soon as possible before its too late. Then let her decide.

25 Dec 06

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Forgetting what my only child did to me when I was ill

whiteheather39 @whiteheather39 (24403) • United States 24 Dec 06

When I had an accident a year ago in October I was given 3 hours to live, well obviously I didn't die but I was told I would never walk again. After 4 months of intense physical therapy I was walking (I was considered a miracle)...

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chiragvadher Well I think you have done a great job forgiving her and it is obvious that you r not gonna forget it. but you have to do a bigger job than this and it is that you should make ur daughter realize her mistake and try to make her a better human being. after...

25 Dec 06

The big question!? You visit MYLOT for MONEY or for FUN!?

Danielu @Danielu (599) • Romania 24 Dec 06

Please be honest and tell us your opinion. For me the first time i entered here i stayed just for money and after 20-30 posts i realised that if you don`t like this you can`t earn money . so like in every job i made disscusion...

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chiragvadher well I havent earned anything so far but would like to. i guess i am here for both money and fun

25 Dec 06

Rahul or Saurav who is best as captain of India

shanku @shanku (25) • India 21 Dec 06

Atlast Saurav Ganguly come back. What a come back man, he proved his critics wrong, Greg chapel give a big somersault telling he is agree to get back him on one day team, Ravi Shastri tell there is never any question about his...

saurav

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chiragvadher I think both r best.

22 Dec 06

do you think geniuses are born or made?

jonathon_poe @jonathon_poe (156) • United States 21 Dec 06

The title might explain it all. Do you believe there are people with better knowledge-acquiring skills than the rest, or is it just a result of hard work? Let me explain why I'm asking. I recently entered university and am...

intellegence

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chiragvadher well some r born geniuses while some r made due to circumstances.

22 Dec 06

can you lose you'r personality forever?

kavita23 @kavita23 (2995) • India 22 Dec 06

i'm 19, i've had ocd for about three years now and i'm finally trying to tackle it head on. The thing is i've kind of isolated myself these past three years, only really hanging out with my brother and seeing people...

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chiragvadher well sure u can everything is in ur mind. just remove all the negative thoughts that u have and see the difference. it may take time but never give up.

22 Dec 06

How long should you date a person before you say "I Do"?

unlimited7 @unlimited7 (92) • United States 21 Dec 06

Hello, my baby Sister is getting married. I'm scared and excited at the same time. She's known this brother informally for about a year, been dating for about 2 months, and now she is planning a wedding. I don't believe in a...

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chiragvadher well thats upto u. whenever u feel like doing it u can but think a lot before doing it

22 Dec 06

Do you really think that EYES are the best way to express the feelings????????

andyishere @andyishere (345) • India 21 Dec 06

hey, i really do feel that eyes are the best and most important part of the life as,it make one to see the colours of life as well as,one can feel the feeling,without saying anything through his or her eyes. The feeling are...

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chiragvadher yup i think that u can tell everything looking at the eyes of a person

22 Dec 06

Is it bad for a 6 years old talking back to you and yelling?

succed @succed (879) • United States 21 Dec 06

I have seen this boy talking back to his parents and yelling. And when he does bad thing, parents usually say "No" or stop hin and this boy went bullistic and start yelling and screaming and does not want to hear anything what the...

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chiragvadher I think its the upbringing of the child that counts the most. If the kid is pampered a lot then it is bound to face these kind of situations.

22 Dec 06

Do criminals & terrorist use networking sites like Orkut ?

ronyjohn007 @ronyjohn007 (449) • India 15 Dec 06

this is a weird question, but I was talking to my Mom about LinkedIn, Orkut and Ryze when she got a funny look on her face and said “I bet criminals use these sites to buy and sell illegal stuff”? I laughed at the time, but now...

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chiragvadher well i cant say they might be using it

15 Dec 06