cielicesky

@cielicesky (71)

Philippines • Age 44

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Open your heart and love will come to fill your thirst ......

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How long did it take you to get over your first true love ?

steele4real @steele4real (107) • United States 17 Nov 07

I must say its been 3 years since my first true love (at age 15) and it still hurts me to this day thinking about her ... So my question to you is ... how long did it take you to get over your first true love ?

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cielicesky It was 11 years aho when i had my first love, i was 14-15 then. Though i didn't have a formal relationship with him then, we had what the what they call mutual understanding. There was no commitment but we had a good "relationship" then. I guess distance and...

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Could you forgive your partner for cheating on you?

dutchess67 @dutchess67 (917) • United States 15 Nov 07

I have been involved with someone for almost a year now. I am very much in love with this man. He's the kindest man I've ever known and treats me like a queen. I've never known a man to be so generous and loving, not to mention...

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cielicesky My husband cheated me countless times. I had forgiven him for all those times, but it is hard to forget. Right now, we are trying to fix things over, though on my part, it's all over. I've forgiven him not because i love him, but because it's so hard to carry...

16 Nov 07

Normal or caesarian delivery???

marissa0124 @marissa0124 (179) • New Zealand 14 Nov 07

I have experienced caesarian delivery to my daughter who is now 2 years old. Its hard and really painful. I need to stay in the hospital for 4 days due to my operation and was not able to move well for another week. It also leaves...

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cielicesky I also underwent caesarian operation. And because of this that as much as possible, i still don't wanna get pregnant again, though i have strong desire to have another child...but not in 3-4 years as my boy is still 4 years old. Giving birth through caesarian...

15 Nov 07

do you know your father?

kittypinky @kittypinky (245) • China 14 Nov 07

i don't really know my father,i can't understand so many things about him. i began to live with him when i was 16.before that ,he was a business man ,and then he became a manager of a state-owned insurence company.he was always...

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cielicesky I am not close to my father. I was even feeling bitter towards him. But that was during my younger days. My father is not showy of his affections. I couldn't understand why. It cause so much crisis in me then cause i was thinking that we are not having a good...

15 Nov 07

Name: Where? & What? (What does your name mean & where did your parents get it)

maverixk @maverixk (15) • Philippines 14 Nov 07

I'm just new here in myLot and i'm thinking of a discussion that i can post.. Here's the first topic that popped up.. I'd just want to know from where were your names from and what do they mean.. So to kick off, my real...

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cielicesky i have three names. The first one is maria, which is needless to explain. They got the second one from my godmother who happened to be a nun, and that name is the latin term for sky and heaven. My third name was given by a clergy, monsignor then, who is now an...

15 Nov 07

I'm a little bit confused

fanji008 @fanji008 (775) • China 14 Nov 07

Hey,guys! I'm a little bit confused.Today when I logged in mylot and then after a while,I saw my earnings decreased $0.01,then after I post another comment,it decreased $0.02 but soon $0.01 went back. So how come it happened?It...

confused

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cielicesky It is the same thing that happened to me just now. Last night, my earnings increased by $0.06. But then, when i logged in this early evening, it was decreased by $0.01. I don't know how it happened this way. Even one of the reponses in one of my discussions...

14 Nov 07

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would you love someone for money

nishurs @nishurs (582) • India 14 Nov 07

i want a sincere answer

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cielicesky I could never love someone just because of his money. I may like his company because of treating me (lol), but his money can never make me fall for him in anyway. For me, one's traits, personality, and character are the first considerations for someone to be...

14 Nov 07

Are you an only child?

dhedows118 @dhedows118 (891) • Philippines 14 Nov 07

How many are here who are an only child? Well, I'm an only child so I can't help but asking how does it feel to have a brother and a sister? I used to dream having one but I prefer an older brother or sister because I want...

life

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cielicesky I was an only child for 9 years...then 2 younger sisters were born. For me, having siblings is one of the best things in this life. Inspite of the wide age gap i have with my younger sisters, and the fact that i am already married which means we're no longer...

14 Nov 07

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Do u still believe in the old ways?

lisacraigx @lisacraigx (19) • New Zealand 13 Nov 07

Do you still believe in the old way of living where men go out and earn a living while women stay at home being a housewife and looking after the children?

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cielicesky I am a housewife, but i disagree with this. Being a housewife is not my decision, but my husband's. My mother is a career woman, so i expected that i would be the same way...but it was the other way around. Having a career gives so much growth to an...

13 Nov 07

When you say your spouse "I love you" Do you really mean it? What if it's a lie?

oarnamav @oarnamav (2708) • India 13 Nov 07

Few of my friend pretend their spouse as this. I just wonder how can one do like this. How could one reply conscious? I dislike such people!

i love you

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cielicesky I can not remember the last time i said i love you to my husband! I never said i love you to a person if i don't mean it. I couldn't lie to him, nor to myself. It loses its essence if saying this without feeling it.

13 Nov 07

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how often do you go into a relationship?

megaplaza @megaplaza (1441) • Nigeria 12 Nov 07

i have been into a relationship just a couple of times, but none lasted for long.

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cielicesky I have been also into relatioship couple of times, but mostly lasted for just a month or two only. Right now, I am in a relationship for 3 months, and for me this is already an achievement as to the span of relationships. I don't stay long in a relationship if...

12 Nov 07

What's your feeling as a parent, when a son thrashes his parent?

oarnamav @oarnamav (2708) • India 12 Nov 07

Do you respect your parents? Upto what extent? Even if the things cross the limit of tollerence? Could you forgive your old helpless parents even if the differences are beyond your imagination? I personally could not...

son thrashes his parents

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cielicesky I respect my parents so much. I have high regards for them. I look up tp them. But i think, there's something that your parents did to you coz you're asking if it's alright to forgive old parents. Whatever your parents did to you, parents will always be...

12 Nov 07

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being an only child

mwala1287 @mwala1287 (284) • Canada 11 Nov 07

I'm an only child! Sometimes I wish I had an older/ younger brother or sister only because my parents are OBVIOUSLY new at being parents and now a days many ppl aRe NOT only children. My parents are on my case a little too much...

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cielicesky I was an only child for almost nine years before, i was 9yo when my younger sister was born. I feel for you. Aside from the focused attention, being a lone child was so boring, most of the time sad. It arose insecurities in me because of the feeling of being...

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Should I wait or not wait?

bethel_101 @bethel_101 (432) • Philippines 7 Nov 07

i have a friend, he's in Iraq right now serving the army and his contract will end on 2010... We really enjoy each other's company and we like each other... I love the way he treats me, he's so kind and understanding and he...

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cielicesky You are thinking if you are waiting in vain or what...flirting among guys is just but natural i think. Try to enjoy being single and not focus your attention to him. Who knows, there's a much better guy for you there. You say you love him, but you can still...

8 Nov 07

Do you have children?

Skittlez352 @Skittlez352 (216) • United States 6 Nov 07

How many children do you? I have 2. My daughter will be 3 in Decemeber. And my son is due in February!

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cielicesky I have a 4-year old boy, i want to enjoy and give much time to him so no plans of having another one yet. Give yourself and your kids extra care....congratulations on your coming baby!

7 Nov 07

Developing more parks in downtown areas

aussiedream @aussiedream (272) • China 27 Sep 07

For or against? I think it's a very good idea to develop parks in downtown areas. They will create better environment, which is good for business. It can also improve the living environment for the city dwellers, such as degree...

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cielicesky Yes i'm agree to that , park is important place to where you can spend your time when you are free or not but just taking your sort of relaxation or whatever it also extends our pollution free and increase fresh air..

31 Oct 07

Mother Earth in danger ??

sumitsonu @sumitsonu (598) • India 28 Oct 07

Today I read a shocking news that we the humans are utilizing 50% more resources than what nature can regenerate, in an alarming report by UNO it is clear that the amount of resources which we require are more than what the earth...

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cielicesky Yes i believe that mother earth is in danger as of these days she could not recover the resources that human needs for the daily cycle of their life.If we never aware of these resources that we have to be taking care of and aware of everything that mother...

28 Oct 07

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To forgive or not to forgive...

girlgonefishing @girlgonefishing (2174) • United States 25 Oct 07

I had someone do something horrible to me and my friends say to forgive. Well, I forgave and he did it again. According to my religious friends, the bible says we must forgive. Well, I forgave and it didn't get rid of the evil....

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cielicesky Forgiving is not as easy as we want to. It doesn't even come in our hearts as fast as we wish. But the best thing that you can do if you can't feel forgiveness is to pray for it. I'm not trying to be sounding spiritually, but it really works. It also burdens u...

25 Oct 07

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Why do women have to wait.

lilaclady @lilaclady (28207) • Australia 30 Sep 07

I am watching a couple on TV being interviewed, the man always said to his partner that when his favourite football team wins the Grand Final then he will marry her, WHAT, well his football team won the Grand Final on the weekend...

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cielicesky Waiting doesn't happen among women only, but yes, women, are the ones who mostly wait. The person who makes his/her partner wait might have so much baggages still, so as to say it, he/she is not yet ready to tie the knot. Being ready emotionally, financially,...

23 Oct 07