crisella74

@crisella74 (32)

Romania • Age 50

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Miserable Depression

Ainokea @Ainokea (162) • United States 15 Feb 09

I've been in a terrible depression episode for the last year. This is around my 3 or 4th one and I'm still an adolescent. I've been in an out of hospitals for the last year or so. Yes I am going through therapy and all that other...

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crisella74 Adolescence is a hard time and it can take a hard tool on you. You have asked for help and that is a major step, I wish I have done that when I was a teenager. You are already on the road to recovery. Medicine can help to deal with the symptoms but it won't...

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What make a woman?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 15 Feb 09

Ask any men you're likely to get 'A good heart' as an answer. Even better 'Sexy' or the classic motherly. But those are rubbish, I don think women need to have JLO's body or Mitchell Obama intellect to be the most eligible...

dates

women

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crisella74 In my personal view it's how you make the other person feel. And that goes for both women and men. We love the person we see in the other person eyes. How many times we heard "She makes me feel happy", "He makes me feel beautiful"... it's how we see ourselves...

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when you come across people who don't bleive in mental illness like bipolar ?

syankee525 @syankee525 (6261) • United States 14 Feb 09

ok i have bipolar no big secert i tell anyone that i do. and i also depression as well. but to me when you get telling people about my mental illness and i often get some crazy respones. well we all have bipolar,! ok my reply...

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crisella74 Bipolar is an illness just like any other, people saying "It's all in your head" don't have the intelligence or the general culture to understand it. Of course, nut cases like Tom Cruise didn't help at all. I haven't seen any of his movies since then. I think...

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Be my friend

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 14 Feb 09

If a stranger of the opposite gender asked you to hug them and hold their hand because they felt down and lonely - would you? Or would you back off faster than Casey Jones steaming towards a fallen tree on the line?

concern

friendship

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crisella74 I would probably think it's very strange to go around asking people to hug you or hold your hand. I think it's more difficult for women, guys might not have such a problem with it, apart from the fact that in general they are not the most hugging kind of...

15 Feb 09

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What do you think about the black and white photos?

youless @youless (112488) • Guangzhou, China 14 Feb 09

I think today most people take color photos. But I think the black and white photos are cool and they seem to have a better taste. It's quite easy to use some softwares to make the color photos into black and white photos. It has...

black and white

photos

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crisella74 I love them, they look excellent and I had quite a few of them put up on my walls.

15 Feb 09

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Do you collect sand from the different beaches you have visited?

moneymommy @moneymommy (3418) • United States 13 Feb 09

I have a nice sand collection. I like to collect sand from every beach I go to. I keep the sand in bottles and display on my shelf. I do label them so I know which is which. Do you ever collect sand from different beaches? Do you...

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crisella74 I never thought about it, what a neat idea!

14 Feb 09

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Is Suicide A Cry For Help or A Way To Escape The Situation?

thedailydisco @thedailydisco (180) • Norway 13 Feb 09

I have a friend who has two suicide attempts on her shoulders. Both were not to kid around with since it could have cost the persons life. Lucky and alive:-) So as i have dived more and more into the sea of depression knowledge...

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crisella74 I think there are various reason for suicide attempts. Suicide attempts connected to depression are usually a way out. When you feel depress you can actually feel pain, and a lot of pain I may add. Emotional pain is one of the worst pains out there, you feel...

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who is the one person that you can turn?

shawnk20 @shawnk20 (38) • United States 12 Feb 09

who is the one person that you can turn to when it feels like the world is at it's end. well the one and only person i feel like i can talk to about anything would be my sister. i can always turn to my sister to give me advise...

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crisella74 That would be my husband. It's been a very long road, but we have become best friends. He's smart, he's funny and has an answer for everything. I turn to him even if we're having a fight and I'm mad at him lol I suppose it's because I really value his...

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An Interesting Experiment.....

weinreich_s @weinreich_s (7) • United States 12 Feb 09

I'd like to run a little experiment, and what better place to start it than here on mylot??? What I'm asking is for you to answer a simple question, that you've probably answered many times before. Don't think too much about the...

life

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crisella74 Interesting. My first thought is to answer what I do for a living (I haven't read any answers yet, but I have a suspicion this will be a commune answer). And I'm a freelance translator, thou that's probably irrelevant. As for what I really am doing right now,...

13 Feb 09

9-11 is a hoax

lilnono @lilnono (228) • United States 11 Feb 09

This morning as i was taking my son to school I saw a lone protester with a sign saying that. Our own government was behind the terrorist attacks on September 11th. I've read a lot of articles and seen a few documentaries on the...

911 truthers hoax cheney

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crisella74 I don't believe it was, it was just a situation that could have been prevented and this is where the government has its own fault. I don't think they needed an excuse to start a war. The war in Iraq was about so called weapons of mass destruction, which they...

12 Feb 09

Birth of octuplets

wrongway @wrongway (277) • United States 11 Feb 09

I am a mother and I love my daughter very much, however I am having a problem understanding why a single mother of six kids who lives with her parents and is not working would want to become pregnant again, especially the way the...

adoption

babies

octuplets

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crisella74 In a perfect world most women would love stay home with their children. But we need to provide for them. Welfare is supposed to be for those who are going through a hard time in life, not as a choice to stay at home. That's insane, we are working to provide...

12 Feb 09

Rhianna beat up by Chris Brown??!!!!

Calsuli @Calsuli (14) • United States 9 Feb 09

Did Chris Brown really beat up Rhianna? I heard alot of different rumors about domestic violence, weapons, that she was at the hospital, that he was arrested.Whats the real story??

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crisella74 I haven't hear anything, but if that's true, it's a real shame. Violence should never be tolerated.

10 Feb 09

How often do you hear your kids say I love you to you?

hibiscus_mel @hibiscus_mel (719) • United States 9 Feb 09

I always say I love you to my children more than a couple of times a day and in return they tell me I love you even without prodding them to say the word. My niece who visited us felt awkward when my children tells her that they...

kids

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crisella74 I think it's at least one time per day. I grow up in a house where we never said those things. We knew our parents loved us, we just didn't say it. I think that affected my ability to express my feelings and my communication abilities for a very long time. In...

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Today is the 2 year anniversary of my mom's death

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 7 Feb 09

As most of my friends know, I'm not speaking of my biological mother. My bio mom is a horrible person, who neglected me as a child, allowed others to abuse me, and as I got older she herself used and abused me. Thankfully as a...

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crisella74 She sounds like a wonderful person and I'm sure the world is a better place because she was in it.

8 Feb 09

Someone help

suegt31 @suegt31 (165) • Australia 7 Feb 09

I don't know what to do. This depression has got a real hold on me. I am ready to give up on the world right now. My life is killing me. Ive lost my uncle, my daughter and now i might loose my partner. I don't know what to do. I...

depression

needing advice

needing help

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crisella74 I know depression is very hard to deal with. You must feel like you are caring the weight of the world on your shoulders and the pain in your heart won't go away. Every day is worse than before and there are times you would do anything to get rid of the pain....

8 Feb 09

do you ever feel your kids do not want to listen

momtrying2makeit @momtrying2makeit (3270) • United States 7 Feb 09

my girls listen to there father more than me. Does this happen in your home as well? If so how do you deal with it? I feel weird sometimes because I can site there until I am blue in the face to get them to do something and he...

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crisella74 They listen to me, in fact they are both very good about it, but they don't listen to their grandmother at all. There are many ways their grandmother and I are different and I think this is why. Firstly, when I ask them to do something I explain why. I treat...

7 Feb 09

I love lslands

maximax8 @maximax8 (31046) • United Kingdom 6 Feb 09

I bought a book with money that I got for Christmas and it is called 501 Islands. I have been to some of the islands in it and the book that has many color photos of islands that I would love to discover in the future. What...

beaches

islands

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crisella74 My perfect idea of an island is one with lots of palmiers, luxurious vegetation, nice white fine sand beaches.

7 Feb 09

This is for woman

jessi0887 @jessi0887 (2788) • United States 6 Feb 09

Do you'll sleep in bra's? The only reason i ask is some of my friends sleep in a bra. I can't. Its too uncomfortable for me. I have before like if i fall asleep watching tv then i am not going to get back up to change.

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crisella74 Absolutly not, it's too uncomfortable. In fact, when I am at home I don't wear it either, unless I have guest coming in.

7 Feb 09

Will you spend money when you play the online games?

youless @youless (112488) • Guangzhou, China 6 Feb 09

Some large online games can be free. But if you want to have a better achievement, you have to spend real money to buy the virtual equipments. Although some people are crazy about it and don't mind spending a lot of money to buy...

games

money

spend

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crisella74 There was a game I used to like a lot and membership was 5$ per month. The game itself was free to download, you only had to pay membership. I didn't think 5$ per month was a lot so I didn't mind. Now I don't have the time anymore, but I wouldn't pay more than...

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Are U Able To Save?

Chevee @Chevee (5905) • United States 6 Feb 09

Listening to the these professional legal advisers on this telly is just plain getting under my skin and making me itch. Their advice is to save for a rainy day or save and prepare for being laid off from your job. How are you...

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crisella74 It is hard, before I didn't save cos I didn't think I had to, now you cant save cos life is harder. However, I have learn my lesson and I do save a little. I made a separate saving account and after paying the bills I put a little bit there as well. And don't...

7 Feb 09