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winky73 @winky73 (1404) • United States 31 Jan 07

I have noticed that a lot of people say they don't want to ever get married again after a divorce.I myself am about to get a divorce and I have to say that I want to get married again.Just because it didn't work out on the first...

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cuddilybeans yes I MIGHT get married again if I could trust the person but I need to find the person first my last relaionship was a very bad one and yeah honestly I thought about marriage again but we did not get a chance to do it thank goodness....when the timing is...

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hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 13 Jan 07

I'm curious how many people on MyLot are divorced or have been divorced and perhaps remarried. I myself am HAPPILY divorced and have no ambitions to ever marry again!!!!

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cuddilybeans I am still married for now and waiting on the divorce to be finalized........if I find another man I might want to get remarried....it depends though.....ny husband and I have been seperated for almost 4 years and in that time I did have another relationship...

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amithist @amithist (72) • Davisburg, Michigan 14 Jan 07

When I was 20 the conception of my son was without my consent. I did not know that I was pregnant till i was 4 months. I was an undignoised and unmedicated at the time but even then knew I was not capable of caring for him. Hes a...

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cuddilybeans I gave my son up for adoption because he had special needs it was what was best for him..... I have maintained a relationship with him through out and I am still mommy to him he is 4 years old now and was adopted almost 2 years ago after I tried all other...

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princess07031980 @princess07031980 (5412) • United States 21 Jan 07

I am faced with a dilemma right now and I want some help and opinions. I found out that I am pregnant. I am 26, live on my own, have a job. But the harder part of my story is this...I was married once before and have 2 great...

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cuddilybeans well I can so relate to you...... I gave up my son who is now 4 because he was born with special needs and I could not provide for him the way he needed me too. he has a wonderful adoptive parents who care for him a great deal and I am glad that he now has...

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smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 21 Jan 07

How do you and your partner address each other? Let's hear it from you guys and see who's got the most unique one! And also share the story behind the pet name if it's something unique.

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cuddilybeans well my pet name for my friend is hunni muffin because he is so sweet and yummy lol

21 Jan 07

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angelaakakiki @angelaakakiki (378) • United States 11 Nov 06

TO TELL OR NOT TO TELL THAT'S THE QUESTION ????

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cuddilybeans I would tell her for sure because I would hope that the favor would be returned in the future so yeah I am a strong believer in what comes around goes around

21 Jan 07

coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 21 Jan 07

In an article that I read, couples therapists report a 50% increase in female infidelity. Yet, as widespread as female infidelity has become, many unsuspecting husbands have no idea their wives are having an affair. Unsuspecting...

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cuddilybeans well I have cheated once before and ended up leaving my husband because of it...... I felt awful and will never do it again......he wanted me to stay as long as I promised never to do it again.....at that time I could not make that promise to him...... a few...

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rein2410 @rein2410 (809) • Australia 16 Jan 07

How was it? I had 3 relationships but we are still friends. All yours still friends?

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cuddilybeans I have had 3 serious relationships that lasted over a year....none of them I talk to any more .......I have had 2 casual relationships and still talk to both of them one of them is my best friend.......

21 Jan 07

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myjewel @myjewel (268) • Philippines 21 Jan 07

have you ever felt that after the break up you really have more time to do other things you knew was impossible to do when you had a relationship? i just had a break up and realized i have more time to spend with my dogs, my...

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cuddilybeans yes I have been single now for 7 months and I am just discovering what life being single is like you have more time for a lot of things and I love it

21 Jan 07

Irishchick22 @Irishchick22 (270) • United States 20 Jan 07

Well i got on my bfs computer the other day and i discovered he had been talking to a girl who he was talking to before we meant and i'm not sure what to do about it, i'm upset and all he is saying is that it's not what i think...

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cuddilybeans I would love to tell you that everything is going to be ok and to trust him but honestly I dont think I can...... I think that it might be possible for this girl to be his friend yes but for him to lie to you like that is not looking good in that...

21 Jan 07

magda_lena88 @magda_lena88 (179) • Romania 21 Jan 07

I love my boyfriend so much and he loves me too. But will our love last forever?? Or at least until one of us leaves this world. And how can we make it last forever? I know that we need love,trust and respect to make it work. Is...

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cuddilybeans I think that with lots of comunication openness and understanding that love can last untill the day you die......... you just have to be willing to keep it strong and have a good healthy relationship but yes some love will not last forever because it is...

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hassanchop @hassanchop (820) • United States 21 Jan 07

Don't you just HATE it when people do this? Nothing gets under my skin more than the ole "It's your fault that I abused you and played you" deal. Everytime I hear someone say "but you didn't meet my needs, you didn't do this, you...

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cuddilybeans I was abused in many different ways as a child and in my last relationship........ but what bothers me the most is that they lie you are totally right find your needs being met else where after you break up.... it was really bad the christmas of 2005 I almost...

21 Jan 07

bogdanel @bogdanel (1208) • Romania 21 Jan 07

Do you think can be 3 involved in a relation whip? Why not?

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cuddilybeans yes I do think that it is possible for 3 people to be involved in a relationship. I have not had it happen to me but my best friend has been in a relationship with 2 other people at the same time and it worked for her for a while so yes it is possible

21 Jan 07

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 29 Jan 21

I heard the call come over the scanner that a woman who was out walking her dog had found an unresponsive male in a driveway. My gut told me that it was someone I knew. About an hour had passed when I got a message from my...

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cuddilybeans I heard the call come over the scanner that a woman who was out walking her dog had found an unresponsive male in a driveway. My gut told me that it was someone I knew. About an hour had passed when I got a message from my brother to let me know it was our...

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ghostbat @ghostbat (156) • Canada 20 Jan 07

My girlfriend caught me cheating on her with her best friend, okay i know its stupid but i did it. The way i see it is that it's not totally my fault, she was the one always busy with something else, even when we were about to...

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cuddilybeans I really think that if you both want to work things out that it is possible but you have to own up to your mistake and see what she wants to do about it but common buddy be a man and take responsibility for your BIG MISTAKE.

21 Jan 07

blueskies @blueskies (1186) • United States 20 Jan 07

Please, no flame wars on this thread. I'm just genuinely interested to see what the general concensus seems to be on this topic. If your teenaged daughter were to become pregnant, would you encourage her to get an abortion,...

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cuddilybeans I would back my child no matter what but I would honestly try to discourage and abortion......... I just went through a miscarage and an adoption myself and I know that it is something that you have to live with for ever and I would be there to help her as...

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ghostbat @ghostbat (156) • Canada 20 Jan 07

My girlfriend caught me cheating on her with her best friend, okay i know its stupid but i did it. The way i see it is that it's not totally my fault, she was the one always busy with something else, even when we were about to...

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cuddilybeans my boyfriend abused me and then lied to me......... and I still loved him......then we broke up because he cheated on me and he said that he could not live with himself for hurting me and that he did not want a relationship....... ANOTHER LIE....... the next...

20 Jan 07

babystar1 @babystar1 (4233) • United States 20 Jan 07

would you want to live with your husband like this, a couple by the name of Chana and Simon Taub are separated by a wall — one that was built straight down the middle of their home to keep the bickering spouses apart. Neither...

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cuddilybeans I am in the middle of a divorce after being seperated for almost 4 years but yeah I know that I could not have that kind of thing going on...... they are usually an ex for a reason..... it is unhealthy for the kids to think that is ok to live like that...........

20 Jan 07

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Jaimee31 @Jaimee31 (50) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

what if you found out that your loved is still talking and being sweet with the EX? and you found out that they still have plans for each other? would you leave the person you love or wait till she leaves you? this is my case as...

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cuddilybeans well honestly I have been there and I confronted him and he told me that there was nothing between them and it was just for his kids..........then he broke up with me told me that he was not ready for a relationship and that all he wanted was a friendship but...

20 Jan 07

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09196606945 @09196606945 (125) • Philippines 20 Jan 07

personally i drink 3 cups of coffee a day. am i too addicted? i have tea once a month. :) how about you?

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cuddilybeans I drink a LOT of coffee but occasionally have a cup of tea........ I usually can drink a pot of coffee myself on a slow day so I am addicted to coffee....

20 Jan 07

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