dbcraff

@dbcraff (162)

United States • Age 51

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My 7 year old has an MRI Scan on Monday

rainbow @rainbow (6761) 9 Mar 07

Hi everyone, as you know Bong's had headaches for almost a year now, we hope it's a stress reaction due to his special needs. On Monday we have to be at the hospital (over an hours drive away) by 8am. He is not allowed a drink...

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dbcraff I am sorry I didn't get on here sooner! I have been kind of tied up lately I hope all went well. I know how hard that can be. I will keep you in my prayers.

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Book Characters

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 15 Mar 07

Which book character would you most like to be and why?

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dbcraff I don't know if anyone has ever heard of this book but, it is Mrs. Doc. written by Jeanette Oake. I would love to be Mrs. Doc because she was loved by everyone in town and she fulfilled a perpose. Even if it was just to the young children who would sit on her...

16 Mar 07

Which is cruelest to your child, giving them no sugar, or no meat?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 8 Mar 07

My children are vegan and I also don't let them have much sugar in their diet at all. I find that people seem to have a bigger problem with me not giving them sugary 'treats' than with me bringing them up vegan. What are your...

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dbcraff Well I think some people feel that way because they don't believe sugar can affect how children behave. I was one of those once. Until a friend of mine who has 2 boys with ADHD told me she doesn't allow her boys to have alot of sugar because of the way that it...

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Christians dating/marring non christians

faith90260 @faith90260 (52) 11 Mar 07

Should christians date/marry non christians? Tell me what you think.

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dbcraff No christians shouldn't marry none christians. The bible says not to be unequaly yoked together. I believe their is a good reason for this. It can work two ways. The christian can be pursuaded to walk away from God or the non-christian will become a christian....

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How does one become a Christian?

terilee79720 @terilee79720 (3621) • United States 2 Mar 07

People who believe they have found the Way, the Truth, and all that believe it is important to get other people to turn from their wicked ways and believe the way they do. While this (in many cases) is a good thing, how does one...

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dbcraff The answer to that question is in God's living word the bible. It is our instruction guide so to speak. Yes I think it is easy not to know what to do as a knew believer but, we have Gods word as a guide to help us through. And don't forget the importance of...

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If the love of money is the root of all evil, why are churches so rich?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 20 Feb 07

Why do churches take money from its congregation and have so many riches, if money leads to evil? Surely the church should lead by example and be poor.

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dbcraff I don't know where you go to church but, not all churches are rolling in the money. I know mine isn't. Churches get their money from there congregation, try looking at churches in an area where jobs are not so plentiful and you will see. The reason the church...

23 Feb 07

"Would You Run Off With Your Boyfriend If Your Parents Rejected Him"

sugarbabe @sugarbabe (114) • Fiji 22 Feb 07

Just imagine that finally your parents agree to meet your boyfriend in person. you introduce him to your family, a long conversation takes place between your parents and your guy and just after he leaves your parents disapprove...

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dbcraff I did run off with my boyfriend who my parents strongly disapproved of. And it has been the best 13 years of my life. Also my parents reasons were selfish. They know he was in the ARMY and that I would be moving along ways away. I have to caution you that it...

22 Feb 07

Spouses and their Emails

sechsey @sechsey (1831) • Canada 22 Feb 07

Do you let your spouse access your emails? I respect my husband's privacy and i expect he does too with mine. Its completely not necessary for us to share the same emails or even to share each others password so we can access...

emails

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dbcraff I don't think it is a question of privacy. Spouses shouldn't have anything to hide from each other. They should be transparent to each other. I and my husband share the same e-mail account we have nothing to hide from each other. If it is that big a deal one...

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Cold Weather affects our pets too!

rainbow @rainbow (6761) 16 Feb 07

Just as we care for ourselves differently at different times of the year, we should also be sensitive to our pets' needs during warm and cold weather conditions. Most pets spend a lot of time indoors and won't be able to...

catsrabbits

pets dogs

pets in winter

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dbcraff Thank you for the tips. I never thought to dry our dogs feet after going outside. And she is so old she has arthritus. So we also keep a pillow for her to lay on and a blnket I like to warm for her when her legs are bothering her. It really helps.

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Ford or Chevy?????

firerider @firerider (63) • United States 9 Feb 07

You can only love one. Which is it??

chevrolet

chevy

ford

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dbcraff Ford of course even if they are found on road dead.

20 Feb 07

Would you do this to your kid?

soccermom @soccermom (3198) • United States 19 Feb 07

We have friends that have an 18 year old daughter. She's a decent kid and they have always set standards very high for her. When she turned 18 they made it clear to her that as long as she lived under their roof she would abide by...

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dbcraff That is a bit drastic!!!! A friend of ours dropped their 18 year old daughter off at the local homeless shelter because they caught her in a few lies. What are these parents thinking? I think they have forgotten what is like to be 18.

20 Feb 07

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Hikking

mccullar @mccullar (124) • United States 14 Feb 07

what is the most memorible time you went hikking? who were you with were did you go? is that your fav plave to go hikking? if not were is your fav. place to go hikking? what makes it your fav place?

hiking

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dbcraff We were living in Colorado Springs and went hiking in Cheyenne mountian. While it was actually a nice dirt road we were going to walk on since we were taking all 4 kids and the baby was only 6 months old and had to be carried. While my brilliant husband and...

16 Feb 07

Would you embrace the prospect of school uniforms for your children?

Willowlady @Willowlady (10658) • United States 15 Feb 07

Cleveland, Ohio public schools are deciding to make all-boy an dall-girl schools and require uniforms in the elementary grades. High school students will have a dress code. Their goal it is stated is to have the kids come to...

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dbcraff I think school uniforms is a great idea. It cuts down on the bullying of less fortunate children whose parents can't afford nike shoes or whatever the hip designer is at the time.

16 Feb 07

TREATS

rainbow @rainbow (6761) 22 Aug 06

If you were a chocolate or a tasty treat, what would you be?

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dbcraff I would be a chocolate treasure with carmel inside. Hard on the outside and sticky in the middle.

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Do you like interfering in someone else's life?

coolsid2007 @coolsid2007 (1030) • India 15 Feb 07

I dont like it either ways,, i can advice if someone wants one ,,, but can not voluntary enter into someone else's life unless extremely critical whats your say on this thanks sid

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dbcraff No I don't like to get involved unless my opinion is asked for. Alot of times there is more to what is going on than we see.

15 Feb 07

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Leaving the Nest-How are old were you?

mckenziemom @mckenziemom (522) • United States 15 Feb 07

I know that there is a lot of discussion now about some young adults moving back home with mom and dad in times of financial difficulty and divorce. However, I am curious to know at what age people make the big leap from the...

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dbcraff I left home at 19. Of course I was getting married and mt husband was stationed in CA.

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Happy Stinking Valentines day!

shannon76 @shannon76 (1232) • United States 14 Feb 07

So me and hubby got into a fight today a HUGE one I might add and he spent most of the day gone. So he returns at 8pm and still hasn't spoke to me. With that said, he also did not get me anything for valentines day. I didn't get...

valentines day

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dbcraff I fhe is anything like my husband hedidn't get you anthing because you were dropping hints that you wanted something. My husband likes to surprise me. I does hurt though. I am sure. I have been there. And it isn't to late to take the first step for forgiveness...

15 Feb 07

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