dharma1

@dharma1 (35)

United States • Age 42

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Something to ponder

cyatibarra @cyatibarra (123) • Philippines 6 Sep 10

The important thing is not to be bitter over life's difficulties. Learn to let go of the past, recognize that everyday wont be sunny and when you find yourself lost in darkness and despair, remember,Its only in the black of night...

life

relationships

thoughts

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dharma1 Well Spoken cyatibarra, it is in our failures and disastrous experiences where we have the greatest opportunity to learn and grow. If life was always easy and painless it would also be dull. The bright can't be bright without dark. That is not to say that if...

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Looking For Some Advise.......

minnie_98214 @minnie_98214 (10557) • United States 15 Apr 08

Ok this is about my son who is 8 years old. He is driving us crazy and im not sure what to do. He was just tested at school and they seem to think hes depressed. He has been a bit sad sometimes but sometimes hes very happy but hes...

kids

naughty

punishment

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dharma1 Perhaps your son is just experimenting with his emotions and your reactions to them. I would ignore most of the moodiness and tell him that your all going to enjoy yourselves if he wants to be a part of that happiness its up to him. Kids are smart and they are...

16 Apr 08

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Why would people tell me this?

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 15 Apr 08

People seem to tell me that I don't need anymore kids. I have three. I am 29 years old. I am married. I have been married for 6 years now. All of my kids are from the same man. I am a devoted wife. I am faithful as well. I am...

people

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dharma1 People often speak without much thought to what they say. Perhaps the people saying this to your are just saying what they would want. If its something you want just do it you don't have to tell anyone its your life. If its a real concern to you to find out...

16 Apr 08

disappearing!

wonderfulburst13 @wonderfulburst13 (15) • Canada 16 Apr 08

i have a habit of disappearing for periods of times not talking to friends..like cutting of completely. since i was 14 ive been living on my own and never really building bonds with others..i all was just leaned on my b/f's and...

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dharma1 I understand where your coming from I have also lived on my own from a very young age. I find I have many acquaintances and not many friends. Sometimes I just want that time to my self and then when I want people around they tend to shy away. Like why bother...

16 Apr 08

The Power To Forgive... Do You Have It?

Darkwing @Darkwing (21583) 15 Apr 08

How easy, or difficult is it to forgive somebody whom you feel has wronged you? Say a loved one has hurt you in some way, or you have hurt them, and a yelling match follows... things are said that can't be unsaid, and which are...

power to forgive

relationships

resolving hurt

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dharma1 I think its important if your still feeling hurt to ask yourself a few questions. Do you need to resolve some issues like admit fault or ask a question about what was said after time to cool off. Also If you have already forgiven the person then yes its good...

16 Apr 08

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Just now i Got a SMS message from my friend....

naseefu @naseefu (1607) • India 13 Apr 08

It is like this "A Girl may not help you to get a lot of Money,but Money always helps you to get a lot of Girls.So LOVE MONEY, NOT GIRLS!!" Do you love this joke? what is your thought?please share

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dharma1 I don't think that its a very funny joke either though I do realize it is just a joke but what its saying just isn't funny to me. Why do we value our worth on money or what others think of us. Not only that but why do people think insults are funny?

16 Apr 08

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So today I'm cleaning....

quiltedblessings @quiltedblessings (1066) • United States 16 Apr 08

The living room. I have to say, this is the place I hate to clean the very most!!! LOL With five kids, they trash it so easily, and I get to that point where I just don't know why I clean it, because they will trash it...

cleaning

daily life

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dharma1 Maybe I'm weird or something but I honestly love cleaning. Of course I do live alone, but I used to work in adult foster care and had to clean house for myself and five adults aw well as do all the cooking and laundry and take care of medical needs paper work...

16 Apr 08

Thinking positively in times of trouble.....

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 22 Mar 08

Many a word have been written about the power of positive thinking. Thinkers in all walks of thought have emphasized the need for developing a positive outlook towards things. My contention is that one can never be in a positive...

positive thinking

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dharma1 Problems can be just the thing we need to regain a brighter outlook. Some people who don't have many difficulties in our minds may find themselves complaining about anything. In truth we all have different struggles. But with out the sour how can the sweet...

15 Apr 08

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Does positive thinking help us?

mvpriyank @mvpriyank (407) • India 13 Mar 08

Hello every one!!! Do u think if we have positive attitude that we can earn so much of money than can we really earn????

money

positive

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dharma1 I myself have never had a lot of luck just coming into big money by thinking about it positively however I must admit I never tried. I do find that when I do think positively about other areas of my life it for sure works out better than if I think all is bad....

15 Apr 08

Naturally Positive - Naturally Negative

terilee79720 @terilee79720 (3621) • United States 14 Apr 08

Which one are you? I'm naturally positive. I like to see the good in things, even when they might not appear to be good. I like to see the good in people and I try to look at things in a naturally positive way. Some people might...

attitude

beliefs

positive or negative

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dharma1 I think that in some ways being positive or negative does come natural to most people. However I believe at any time you can change your outlook on life. In my experience however. It seems that when you look on the bright side life is defiantly more enjoyable....

15 Apr 08

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Is Facebook Dangerous?

vicki2876 @vicki2876 (5636) • Canada 26 Sep 07

I just got the tail end of a news broadcast saying that it was dangerous. Perverts were going after young childern on it. I recently joined and have connected to some people I have seen in years. One almost 20 years ago! I moved...

dangerous

facebook

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dharma1 I'm not sure how face book works exactly I have an account but I only started it recently however I know on myspace you can set up your account on private and then only people that are on your friends list can see your profile and send you messages this gives...

26 Sep 07

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lil sis

wild_flow_r @wild_flow_r (304) • Philippines 26 Sep 07

do you have a younger sister? do you get along well? i have three and the youngest of them is a little bit closer to me than the rest of the gang.now that we live separately we don't get to talk like we used to do. but i still see...

lil sis

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dharma1 My little sis is thirteen years younger than me. She just turned 11. We get along wonderfully even though there is a huge age gap. I also don't get to see her enough because we live in separate cities and I work a lot. However I absolutely adore my little sis...

26 Sep 07