dragonflyfli

@dragonflyfli (5528)

United States • Age 42

Joined myLot 19 years ago

Be currious of your fears

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why are some people so interested in other people's relationships?

jb78000 @jb78000 (15139) 2 Mar 10

i still don't quite understand why certain people or groups of people spend so much time going on about how wrong homosexuality is. ok, you might believe that god does not approve - that is between them and god - but why are you...

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dragonflyfli Fear! They are afraid of anything outside of their cookie cutter life.

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Why is it so hard to make new friends?

ElsaElsa @ElsaElsa (323) • United States 3 Mar 10

It seems everyeone has their own little group of friends and find it inconvenient to add another to their group. I felt this way when I was introduced to my husband's friends' wives and I found it so hard to communicate with them...

making friends

social circles

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dragonflyfli Yah I think that maybe you just are anti social or they just arent your type of people you like to associate with. They probablly just expect you to go along with everything and pretend you know what they're talking about, but that is fake so it would suck for...

3 Mar 10

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Do hard times bring out the best or worste in people ?

missbdoll @missbdoll (1165) • Australia 29 Jun 09

In these hard times, with a lot of people doing it tough financialy do people tend to pull together, and have more understanding of each other, or do you think it's more like "everyome for themselves. I know this is a...

desperation

human nature

money

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dragonflyfli I've noticed alot more aggression with people. i work at a hair salon and woman who come in are crazy with the discounts. They get really angry if the price isnt what they think it should be. Yet they still feel the need to buy this high end product. Alot of...

29 Jun 09

Does Death Fascinate You?

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 23 Jun 09

Ok it's a subject most people don't want to talk about or even think about for that matter, but it comes to us all and it's something we have to face whether we like it or not "Dying is easy, it's living that is so damn...

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dragonflyfli DEATH!!!! Its fascinating. So fascinaing I went to school to be a mortician. Being around a dead person is scary at first, but after a few times you start to learn from death. It's real, it's there, it's gonna happen. And the dead people dont give a s*hit! In...

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Do You Predict WRONGLY What Others Are Thinking About You?

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 6 Jun 09

When someone looks at you, do you automatically think that what they are thinking is negative? Do you always think that they are looking at you and thinking that you are fat, unattractive, easy to manipulate or a pushover? Do...

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dragonflyfli I actually go back and forth between feeling like everyone is thinking badly about me to just not caring. For me its a matter of what I have to be proud of. When I am busy and keeping my mind sharp and acheiving goals, even small ones, I dont care what people...

13 Jun 09

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Do Idle Hands Get You Into Trouble?

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 17 May 09

Have you ever found that you did something bad or got yourself into trouble in some respect because you had too much time on your hands, or that you were bored? Do you find yourself spending too much, whether it's going out or...

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dragonflyfli When Im bored I paint pretty pictures on my walls from celing to floor. I'll rake then entire yard. Or I'll sit on my laptop and talk to people for fun. But I hate to clean. Im sure with all my free time I could have this place spotless and sparkling but no, I...

13 Jun 09

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How Do You Deal With Someone Who Is Miserable?

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 13 Jun 09

What is your attitude towards someone who is miserable or walks around with a sad, miserable face? Do you feel sorry for them, or do you steer well clear of them? Do you wonder what they have to be miserable about and do you think...

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dragonflyfli Im pretty depressed as well and feel miserable when everyone around me is miserable too. I enjoy the company of happy people and miserable people alike, but only for a little while, then i'd like to be alone. I feel like I have alot to work out in my head and...

13 Jun 09

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When was the last time you had school reunion?

YazEid @YazEid (1138) • Philippines 2 Jun 09

I graduated from my school five years ago , in the first two years post graduation I used to meet my school mates 4 -5 times every month , later I had so many friends , and it became harder for me to see my old class mates , but...

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dragonflyfli That sounds like a great time. I can see why people set school reunions up. I hope you can make it out to see your freinds soon. I have never been to any reunion of any type. I would love to but I never hear of any happenings of that sort.

3 Jun 09

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Day one of the diet

ElicBxn @ElicBxn (63705) • United States 2 Jun 09

Well, the roomie wants to have gastric bypass surgery. She went to the surgeon yesterday and he wants her to lose 35 lb before doing the surgery. I think this is more than just losing for health reasons, but also to see if she is...

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dragonflyfli Awesome!!! I love dieting. It makes your taste buds work better. MMM so that's what that actually tastes like. lol Anyways, remember not to beat yourself up, have fun with it and if you slip up, give yourself a big hug and try again. If you have any...

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How can i stop my father from smoking?

turones @turones (206) • Philippines 29 May 09

my father has asthma but he won't quit smoking. doctors say that his condition will only get worse if he won't stop but he just won't listen. we've tried to talk to him lots of times before but nothing worked.

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dragonflyfli Well, as we all know, the only way to succeed in something you must have the desire within you. No one else can do this for your father. He knows he has support, but you are frusterated because he's not making that commitment. So, hang in there, if he chooses...

29 May 09

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are you confident doing public speeches?

cainam @cainam (493) • Philippines 22 May 09

if you are confident, well, i should envy you.. i just can't make a good speech in public.i always mess up and feel like a crap after every speech. it shows with my dry lips, my shaking voice and body,. i even get mental blocked...

speech

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dragonflyfli I took a public speaking class in college. I dreaded it. I was so nervous, and we prepared for the final speech at the end of the class and I picked a topic that was important to me personally. That helped. I did alot of research on the topic and wrote out...

22 May 09

Are you a working mum or stay at home mum?

lindsey3uk @lindsey3uk (3) 22 May 09

All my mummy friends are starting to go back to work. Our children are about 9 months old and everyone is having to start missing out on our days out due to work commitments. Whilst I know it is important to earn money I have...

parents

working

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dragonflyfli Another thing I think is that the parent needs to be happy. I understand that sacrifices are necessary when you love a baby. But so many moms have such low self esteem because they gave up so much that they had to be there for the kids. I dont think of myself...

22 May 09

Are you a working mum or stay at home mum?

lindsey3uk @lindsey3uk (3) 22 May 09

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dragonflyfli I've been both a stay home mom and a working mom. I'd have to say the hardest it's been for me is being home, doing the same routine over and over, there's a definate lack of socialization and mature adult conversation to stimulate my mind. I love my children,...

22 May 09

Which do prefer dying due to illness or due to accident?

larish @larish (2239) • Philippines 15 May 09

The other day, I told my husband that If I am going to die, I rather have it by accident and not by illness. I don't want to prolong my agony, I don't want to see the people I love sacrificing their time just to take care of me. I...

accident or illlnesss

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dragonflyfli I agree with you also. I think dying of an accident is much more exciting than death by illness. It'll give everyone something to talk about. The more obsurd the accident the better. And hopefully it's something crazy enough that some will just have to laugh...

15 May 09

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WOW!..Barack Hussein Obama is the nation’s first hip president

whiteheather39 @whiteheather39 (24403) • United States 26 Apr 09

Boy that sure make me feel a lot safer! It's not cool to be a president who is more concerned about our economy or terrorists just as long as you are hip! What ever happened to being a president who earned RESPECT by make wise...

cool

hip

obama

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dragonflyfli I think he has alot to deal with and his decisions do make sense. I dont agree with him apologizing to dictators who have been enemies of the US since forever. I think it seems unpatriotic and is not backing up his country for it's decisions and political...

26 Apr 09

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summer clothes

meetmehalfway @meetmehalfway (190) • Philippines 22 Mar 09

what usually the color i need to wear to look cool

summer time

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dragonflyfli I think you mean, What color should I wear to look cool. I think it depends on your skin tone. From the picture I think you would look nice in purpel or a vivid blue. Black also looks nice on you.

22 Mar 09

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