ennylrak

@ennylrak (30)

Philippines • Age 38

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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no longer fighting, is it normal?

rosie14 @rosie14 (80) • Philippines 5 Sep 11

My boyfriend and I, we've been together for 5 years already. The first two years was really hard for us, there is no months that we never have any fight. Lucky for us, we both believe and agree that we should always patch things...

commitment

lovers

relationship

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ennylrak You have been together 5 years, long enough to know that petty misunderstandings are not worth fighting over. You've grown up and matured together, you know what ticks the other one off hence the no-fighting phase. There's nothing to be worried about.

11 Sep 11

what this girl want

Ankitdhama @Ankitdhama (103) • India 5 Sep 11

hi! I m a 20 yr boy and I like a girl. She is my friend she behaves like she like me too but she have never said that to me than what should I do

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ennylrak You tell her how you feel. That simple. Though you have this feeling that she likes you, don't wait for her to make the first move, girls want to be wooed. If she doesn't feel the same for you, worst case scenario is you lose the friendship. But hey you're...

11 Sep 11

student life... Finish...

xxj3ffxx @xxj3ffxx (501) • Australia 5 Sep 11

I did feel very sad to realise that my student life finished one month ago. And when i see my brother entering the university student life.. I feel more sad and I really want to go back to this state. I'm aware that somehow I...

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ennylrak Work, man. If the only reason you wanna go back to school is to enjoy student life a little more, believe me you would enjoy life much better if you are earning your own money while doing what you love. But I think what you are going through is just a...

11 Sep 11

Have you ever felt offended by a friend?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 5 Sep 11

I think I have been.. that is the reason why i have absolutely tried my best not to see them anymore. I felt as though they did not understood my situation before and instead they made me feel like i was different from them now......

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ennylrak I'm forever offended by one of my girlfriends. We've been friends since freshman year in high school and she's offended me for as long as I can remember, I can't believe I'm still friends with her. She's told me that I was an ugly child, that I'm too fat or...

11 Sep 11

Long Courtship or Short Courtship Before Mariage?

Jelminrie @Jelminrie (358) • Philippines 7 Sep 11

I define Courtship as the actual "relationship before marriage". I defined it that way because we are entering into a relationship to venture our marriage life and not to play games, and boyfriend/girlfriend relationship is like...

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ennylrak I choose long engagement/courtship over short engagement/courtship. You might want to make sure that you know the other person really well before you exchange vows of love and loyalty and forever. Yes there would be times you would be bored and doubtful and...

11 Sep 11

Have you ever fallen in love with someone whom you...

kccrystalsachi @kccrystalsachi (117) • Philippines 1 Sep 11

Have you tried being friends with someone online, haven't met in person yet and suddenly developed a mutual feeling with each other. It could be someone whom you met at any site or could be here at mylot. I am always amazed by...

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ennylrak Ah falling in love in online. I just don't believe it. How could you fall in love online when you know that the Internet is an avenue for escape, it's a virtual world where one could be whatever he wants and claims to be.

3 Sep 11

PTC sites give me Lots of Painful Experience !!!

rina2011 @rina2011 (176) • India 2 Sep 11

Hi My Dear Friends, I am very much Unhappy with PTC sites, Two years back when I am starting My Online journey I found some PTC sites , but I do not Know that time this PTC sites give me so many painful feelings within Two years,...

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ennylrak PTC sites are a pain. But if you know a lot of people you think might be interested, they're not so bad since you would earn more through the referral system. When I decided to give online jobs a shot, I ventured into PTC first. I lasted for just 2 weeks. It's...

3 Sep 11

No job, No unemployment, No Place to Live?

Payout @payout (3794) • United States 2 Sep 11

There is a lot on my mind, my Dad is about to be 61 years old and it's hard for him to get a job because people will look at the age and not at the person. He had unemployment but, that was taken from him and so now he has no...

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ennylrak Ur dad should do paid online surveys - the legit ones. His age is a sure hit with survey companies.

3 Sep 11

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How do you deal with sadness and loss?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 2 Sep 11

The last thing most of us want to hear or think about when we are dealing with sadness is that deep learning can be found in this place. In the midst of our pain, we often feel picked on by life, or overwhelmed by the enormity of...

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ennylrak In simple english, the thought that one would be stronger after such events would drive one to deal with sadness and loss. What to do, u ask? You exhaust yourself, cry your eyes out, curse if you must and cry some more. And when you've numbed that's when you...

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The Husband should bring most of the money in the family

hafiz008 @hafiz008 (450) • India 2 Sep 11

According to me husband should bring most of the money to the family for their daily expenditure. Husbands has more responsibility and authority to the family.In religious concern it gives priority to husbands. If wife bring more...

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ennylrak I don't think it matters who brings more money to the family. There is nothing wrong if the woman/wife earns more than the man/husband. I think men are just compelled to bring home more money since it's all part of the job - that of being a man, a husband and...

3 Sep 11

Free Free Free!!!

thanks1961 @thanks1961 (7035) • India 2 Sep 11

It is a common tendency to people get attracted whenever they hear or see 'FREE'. These days most of the companies come up with such offer 25%, 50%, 85% off, absolutely free, buy 1 & get 2 free etc. I think many companies are...

free

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ennylrak FREE is the most powerful word of all, don't you think so?

3 Sep 11

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Celebrities, not Role Models, and the concept of beauty

Dymo75 @Dymo75 (340) • New Zealand 1 Sep 11

Looking at miscellaneous magazines, I was worried about the amount of clothes most celebrities were wearing - or more, how much they weren't. Now, most female celebrities are about wearing as least clothes as they can, and the...

celebrities

sex appeal

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ennylrak celebrities are the way they are because that's all part of the job - selling themselves, stamping their presence, advocating, making a fuss, finding a voice, wanting people like you and i to talk about them and how fully clothed/bare they are in public. they...

1 Sep 11

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Beauty or Bright?

pbbbsra @pbbbsra (1214) • Philippines 31 Aug 11

Would you like to be gifted with beauty or brains? If you can only choose one would you rather be bright or beautiful? I'd rather be bright and intelligent. I think that if we know a lot it will be easier to make dreams come...

beauty

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ennylrak brains hands down. beauty fades, true. but there are so many technological advances that can slow down the aging process and fake one's real age. even so, wouldn't you feel more successful if you accomplish something because you're smart, that you're not just...

1 Sep 11

Language barrier gone wrong

Your Highness Emperor Albert Whisker @CaptAlbertWhisker (32697) • Calgary, Alberta 31 Aug 11

This incident happened in Korea, it's a very controversial use item in a career right now and it's caught on tape. I don't know if this happens inside a bus An old Korean couple notice of an African-American guy standing inside...

viral videos

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ennylrak that is just crazy, attacking old people. the old couple talked to him in korean, check, but they might have gestured for him to sit as well, since it was obvious that the english teacher wasn't korean. even if the couple didn't, what he did was just wrong.

1 Sep 11

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Is 30 over the hill, or just the beginning? Too old?

itrocksmyworld @itrocksmyworld (22) 31 Aug 11

So - does life begin at 30 - or is it over the hill? I have recently turned 30, and initially before turning I had the dreaded fear of no longer being in my 20's. Is it time to settle down, get a house, have a proper job,...

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ennylrak you're a guy. good news, 30 is way too young to be having mid life crises. but you might want to plan out your life, like building a solid career, something you can enjoy and make money out of at the same time.

1 Sep 11

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teenagers rob 73 yr old man for 7 cents

tikbalang56 @tikbalang56 (195) • United States 31 Aug 11

crime does not pay in New York 2 teeenagers received harsh sentence ages 15 and 16 yr old the 15year old received jail sentence about 2-6 years while the second teenager 16 yr old received 1-4 years jail sentence their crime when...

teen robbers

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ennylrak is that story for real? because that is just crazy. maybe the robbers were high or executed the "heist" (haha)just for the fun of it. you're sure they're going straight to jail, won't they have to spend time in juvy rehab first? did the victim survive,...

1 Sep 11

What will you do if you found out that your friend betrayed you - for any reason

kccrystalsachi @kccrystalsachi (117) • Philippines 31 Aug 11

Let's say you've been great friends since your childhood days or could be, you've been friends since you started being in school and there comes a point in your life when you found out that he or she betrayed you. It could be any...

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ennylrak my best friend in grade school betrayed me because of a silly crush on a boy - who happened to be our friend. i've lost all of my other friends because of her and she never apologized, even when we saw each other at our grade school reunion recently. i've...

1 Sep 11

Love at the first sight

sunli123 @sunli123 (538) • China 1 Sep 11

Do you believe in "love at the first sight"? The first day when I was in college, I fell in love with someone at the first sight. I confessed my real feelings two years later but were rejected. Well, it was so sad but I didn't...

love first sight addiciton

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ennylrak i honestly do not believe in love at first sight with a person. lust at first sight, now that's more likely to happen don't you think? love at first sight with a marvelous place, that happens.

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If you found $150,000 in your backyard would you return it?

tessa9 @tessa9 (1085) • Philippines 1 Sep 11

So I'm reading this article where a man found $150,000 stuffed in a duffel bag in his vegetable garden. He called the police and gave it to them. They said that if no one will claim it then he might (might???) get the money but I...

honesty

money

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ennylrak $150,000 in my backyard! i'd return it. if it happens to be drug money, i might get in a lot of trouble if someone comes looking for it. if i find the money somewhere else, now that's a different story.

1 Sep 11

Drinking session

alokijon @alokijon (665) • Malaysia 31 Aug 11

I had the opportunity to hang out with my friends just now. Being a person who does not really good in drinking alcohol, I really enjoyed myself seeing them enjoying their beer and so on. I could see their behaviour slowly changes...

social

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ennylrak definitely. if they are real friends they would understand that you're just that type of person who doesn't drink. i have a guy friend and a girl friend who are like that. and one sober friend comes in handy when everyone else had too much to drink, we all...

1 Sep 11