Erna1975

@Erna1975 (37)

Indonesia • Age 49

Joined myLot 13 years ago

moving on

Erna1975's Responses

What you gonna do if your hubby is spending money in stuff you don't like?

Jenith @Jenith (1381) • Philippines 3 Aug 11

Our income is just enough to buy food and pay for our bills. As a wife I made it sure that if there's money left I'm going to save it for future expenses. Then, I told my hubby that since we do have a tight budget for now I don't...

save money

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Erna1975 believe me, you not the first one who have to deal with that, I experienced that too, he spend fortune on his racing motorbike, he love it more that me..:(, sometimes, it is good when we as a wife have other extra income, for ourselves, at least by the time he...

4 Aug 11

Do you want a happy ending for your life or it really doesn't matter to you ?

wildlittlefan @wildlittlefan (4680) • Hong Kong 23 May 11

We always want a happy ending in the movie and want to see the bad guys being punished and the good guys win at last.Unfortunately, it is not like that all the times in life. Even in a movie, you will sometimes see that the good...

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Erna1975 idealistically.. about happy ending.. don't anybody wish for that? what do i want my life ending to be.. I want ended beautifully, by being able to let my love ones know, how much I love them, and I always be even after I die.. and thanking them for all things...

24 May 11

Would you rather choose DEATH over a painful cancer?

r3jcorp @r3jcorp (1382) • Philippines 19 May 11

A neighbor who got a stomach cancer just hang himself to death because he could not bear not only the pain from his sickness but also the pain of seeing his family sacrificing financially and emotionally. Considering the financial...

cancer

family

pain

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Erna1975 I guess I'll take the pain.., how precious life can be, once I die I will no longer be able to hold them, I would treat my day like it will be the last day every day by letting my love ones know, how much I love them, and spend my time with them as much as i...

20 May 11

unconditional love??

saphrina @saphrina (31551) • South Africa 19 May 11

Okay, i need the experts, the scientists, the professionals and all those who know what UNCONDITIONAL LOVE, really mean, to come forward and give me that advice and truth about it. I really need to know what people think what...

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Erna1975 definition of "unconditional love"... let's put it simple... never demand for return.. that's what love is, only very special people who have that.. rare to find but does exist.. wish you luck to find one someday..

20 May 11

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How is 2011 going by so far??

thatgirl13 @thatgirl13 (7294) • South Korea 19 May 11

Mine, I have to say it sucks big time!!! 2011 really seems to be a bad year for me. I mean things have been a mess since the year started!! Well not ever since it started, but gradually it is turning to be a mess!! I had such big...

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Erna1975 honestly, this year I have lots of things to learn, sadness and happiness, there is no such of thing named "perfect".. sometimes bad, sometimes good, I wouldn't say all year sucks.. keep the hope.. tomorrow never dies..LOL..!!

20 May 11

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we almost lost her :(

bhabycatch013 @bhabycatch013 (9150) • Philippines 18 May 11

Hi Mylotters, She is an early riser but yesterday was not the same day someone knocked on her room she is not answering, no sign of any movements after 15 minutes of knocking and she is not answering they was bothered...

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Erna1975 it happened to me, in my teen years, due to my stupidity for not reading the prescription well... should be smarter than that accidentally overdose) :)), I didn't meant to but it happened. and I slept for 3 days.. after my dad found me in my room and took me...

19 May 11

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Do you usually express your feelings to your parents?

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 18 May 11

This year I'm 26 years old. I can express my feelings to my parents. I can be talked to them about my life. I can tell them what happen to me. And I can communicate with them lightly. I couldn't do that before. I didn't know...

family

feelings

parents

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Erna1975 nope, they both gone since I was a kid.. wish they still around, for me to contact with them, or at least text them.. telling them that I am ok.. and I miss them so much.. If I were you, while they still here, don't you think better to spend a bit of your...

19 May 11

Does love exist after getting married?

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 18 May 11

Hi All, Today, more and more couples divorce. And the time when they part after getting married is shorter day by day. Maybe the love is runaway after getting married? Do you believe that love still exist in marriage?

marriage

spouse

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Erna1975 it does exist, its never been run away... ever heard, relationship gets better by time? it takes 2 to tango, sometimes love is not enough to hold on, there are lot of aspects, we talking about trust, respect, honor, honesty, and the most important thing is...

19 May 11

interesting work or big salary...

liv_fc @liv_fc (107) • Bulgaria 18 May 11

I'm wondering what's more important to you the big salary or interesting work. According to me the important thing is the interesting work. I chose to be software developer and with the interesting work comes the big salary too,...

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Erna1975 Interesting work!! definitely interesting work come first... let say idealistic, get big money and interesting job in the same time, everybody want that... but, in reality, most people I know, they take big salary work though it is not interesting, for some...

19 May 11

Do you agree

Babygirl1984000mx @Babygirl1984000mx (218) • Canada 18 May 11

I am a firm believer that what happens in your relationship should stay between you and your spouse especially the rough times. I mean its ok to have one or two friends you talk to but I think if you truly love the guy and plan on...

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Erna1975 Agree, especially when kids around, you better not say anything bad about you and your spouse, when argument become harder between you two, this is not only to keep sense of "respect" also its about to keeping the "light" for him/her to find his/her way back...

19 May 11

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