fairlady56

@fairlady56 (82)

Philippines • Age 68

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Do we really have to Confess our sins to a priest?

EARLZHAN @EARLZHAN (934) • Philippines 8 Oct 09

For me we don't have to confess our sins to a priest. We are responsible for what we've done and we're the one who should pray and ask forgiveness of our sins to God. This is my point of view about it. How about you?

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fairlady56 As a catholic, I will always confess to a priests. But to other faiths, its different; they confess and ask forgiveness direct to God. Its okay!

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What's your answer?

mikeowl @mikeowl (200) • Malaysia 7 Oct 09

Today I went for a walk in a shopping complex with my friend. We walk around and suddenly my friend entered a shop and interested in buying a shoe. Then he start wearing it and trying out the sizes and everything. Suddenly a...

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fairlady56 Well, let them try. You will see if its nice or not. If its nice, then say yes and if its not pretty then say so. Just be honest but sometimes there are clothes or shoes that is ugly to look at but when you try it - wow its beautiful.

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Pregnant at 40?

dextornap @dextornap (333) • India 27 Jul 08

how old are you? do you feel shy or uncomfortable to become a mother at the age of 40? Is it too very late to have a baby? Now a days so many women are having their babies in their 40+. Its may be because women are concert rating...

late child

marriage

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fairlady56 Hello, I got married at 38 and have my first baby at 39. Then at 42 I have my second baby. I am not thinking of the health hazard of being pregnant at 40s. I don't have fears but my mother is worried because the risk of abnormalities in babies. But thank God,...

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Constipation on a trip: is it normal

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 20 Sep 07

Every time I go on a trip, that is either a car ride that takes two or more days, or a plane trip, I am constipated. I was wondering whether this is normal or if it is to do with what we eat. Does eating potatoes/whether fries,...

constipation on a trip

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fairlady56 I think it can be avoided. It happened to my son, when we arrive at the hotel where we are going to stay, he had to use the bathroom. suddenly my son is crying, He was really in pain, and I pity him. I give him water but of course after awhile its over. I told...

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What would you do??

Gabs @gabs8513 (48686) • United Kingdom 9 Mar 08

As most of you know I have 2 Children aged 20 and 23 My Son who is 23 is engaged, she is not perfect by no means but then who is, Nobody is perfect We have been through a lot and my Son has been through a lot with her They...

family quiet daughter son fiancee

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fairlady56 Hi, I've got 5 brothers and the fifth one got a girlfriend at a very early age. They were just 14 but it lasted until my brother finish college and got a job. The girl went to Manila to continue her study and find work while studying. At the same time to...

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horrible news about 3 boys and 1 girl who are playmates...

glitzypurple @glitzypurple (1477) • Philippines 15 Jan 08

I had this habit of watching the television during dinner and it was always the news on air at that time. I saw this horrible news about children playing just outside their house. They kept playing games that children play, of...

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fairlady56 I may say that parents is responsible also for what happened to the girl as well as to the boys. Parents should always be on the guard on the children especially when they are playing. I myself had a daughter and a son. Whenever they are not in my sight I will...

17 Jan 08

Avatar and Gender Confusion

theprogamer @theprogamer (10532) • United States 7 Jan 08

Okay not a news thread, not a science thread, not a long thread, just something basic. Just had a run in with gender confusion on mylot. I think it would be my first or second time overall. I don't blame the member and there...

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fairlady56 I will say that avatars are "Age Confusion", though I'm in my 50s but my avatar is a hellgirl. It was my daughter who selected that and she is a fan of hellgirl. The real thing is I am honest with my gender and age. I don't have to assume that I am somebody....

10 Jan 08

Being reviled for the name of Christ

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 14 Dec 07

I was thinking of persecution and someone told me or wrote to me that we do not get persecuted. Well it seemed there is this member who has some followers who all agree with her. I told her something that the end results led to a...

jesus christ

persecutions

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fairlady56 Heated discussion usually sprang from religion. I myself is irritated when someone or other sects tells something wrong or bad against my beliefs. Other sects always says something against catholics. They always say that we catholics are pagans because we pray...

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Happy New Year!!! What are your traditions during this occasion??

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 31 Dec 07

everyone! its 30minutes past 12 midnight here as i am writing this discussion amidst the noise outside and the cold wind blowing. ^__^ my mother just asked me to hang grapes by our windows and doors as part of our tradition...

fruits

grapes

new year

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fairlady56 Hi secretbear, I don't have any traditions, though my grandparents has because they are Chinese and my mother didn't made us follow it. Now that I have a kid of my own, I prepare foods, buy round fruits that my money can afford not 13 and buy little...

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what is the best thing you have done for ur ma

aissha @aissha (2036) • India 26 Dec 07

i really really believe mothers are the biggest asset on this earth and each and every mother should be only respected,but that doesn't mean all girl ,because from being girl to a mother it changes a lot in you or i should say...

mother

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fairlady56 There are many fondest memories about my mother. I can't count them but the best thing is when I gave birth to my two kids, she was beside me. I cry whenever I saw her crying, but whenever she laughs I feel so happy. I still miss her, there are still many...

26 Dec 07

Were you a 60's child that loved the Beatles?

rx4life @rx4life (1930) • United States 14 Dec 07

If you were of an age that placed you as a teenager in the 1960's did you go crazy for the Beatles or did your musical tastes follow another path? I loved the Beatles when I first heard them and played my "album" Meet the Beatles,...

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fairlady56 I was also a Beatles fan, I like their music because it is not loud, the lyrics are very meaningful and somehow poetic in a way. Whenever their songs are made into a movie soundtrack, it is more appealing to me. Oh, I really loved it. I was also influence by...

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What would you do if you do not agree with a loved ones wishes as to interment

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 8 Dec 07

Supposing the burial or cremation was a practice that regarded you being kicked out of your church or temple, etc. if you did not follow the practice prescribed. Now supposing the practice of either cremation or burial was the...

going against a loved one

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fairlady56 Maybe it is better to respect the family wishes and the last wish of the departed. Cremation and burial is a religious disagreements among the family members. But to some, cremation is more practical because you save land which maybe of use for shelter to the...

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Kameee, Hameee Waaave!!! Dragonball into a live action movie!!!

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 15 Nov 07

Dragonball fans!!! Dragonball will be made into a live action movie next year! read it in the papers! Hongkong comedian and director Stephen Chow will produce the movie for 20th Century Fox and James Wong, director of Final...

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fairlady56 So you mean Asian for the Asians!!!! Ha ha ha, I am not a dragonball fans but seems awkward. You are not being idealistic but you are trying to say is portraying a character in the movie should be also taken in consideration by the producer or the film maker....

22 Nov 07

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I Finally Left Him!!!!

princeworthy @princeworthy (1909) • United States 13 Nov 07

For everyone wondering where I have been... I left my husband on September 26th 2007. I left on an airplane while he was at work. I came home to my family for a "visit". I am now back in Kansas. It has been a very hard couple of...

divorce

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fairlady56 Congrats! I myself left my husband when I was 2 months pregnant on my 2nd baby. First I thought It is wrong to leave a husband but realize that I did it right. He is jobless and dependent on the dole outs from my brother in laws. Until now he didn't care how...

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What kind of food do you bring to a sick loved one in the hospital?

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 9 Nov 07

my almost 3-yr old nephew is in the hospital again. he had a fever again yesterday (his last fever was last month and he was also taken to the hospital then and the doctor said that we should take him to the hospital again in case...

food

hospital

nephew

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fairlady56 Too bad! My son was hospitalized last month, so i know how you feel about it. Kids in the hospital usually asked for their favorite foods. So I always bought him his favorite food. Kidding aside, sick person (especially adult) don't have appetites, so maybe...

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The saddest movie you have ever watched?

ddsully @ddsully (1062) • United States 5 Nov 07

name some! i think one of the saddest ones for me is The Notebook, it is also like one of my favorite movies ever

favorite

movies

sad

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fairlady56 I like to watch sad movies, Steel Magnolias is one. Also Beaches as mentioned, it really tear my heart; I like also the theme song. I will also add the English Patient.

9 Nov 07