fortysomething

@fortysomething (20)

United States • Age 63

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Do you or anyone you know suffer from Seasonal Affective Disorder?

kgwat70 @kgwat70 (13388) • United States 4 Jan 07

Here is some information that could be very useful in regards to feeling down during the winter season as well as information about tanning beds and salons causing more harm than good. It also mentions how tanning beds cause skin...

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fortysomething I suffer a great deal from this and I thank you for the info. My girlfriend even told me how different I look from the summe and how sad I look. I'm going to read your article again when I'm not so tired!

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Baby's toes are gnawed off by a six week old pit bull puppy.

lizabeth @lizabeth (666) • United States 13 Dec 06

I just heard on the news tonight that a six week old pit bull puppy gnawed 4 toes off of a baby. The parents were asleep by the baby during all this. Now, the fate of the puppy is being decided by a judge. The parents are going...

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fortysomething I really think something else must've happened. How can a baby get his toes gnawed off and the parents not hear him scream? I think they said the baby was right next to them. No, this is not a pit bull issue. That precious puppy doesn't deserve to die.

3 Jan 07

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Basal Cell Carcinoma

fortysomething @fortysomething (20) • United States 2 Jan 07

I had basal cell back in 2001. I was told that I had a 50/50 chance of getting it again. I'm just curious if anyone here has had basal cell and gotten it back again?

basal cell

My sister has a PERFECT life..

mkup30 @mkup30 (494) • United States 2 Jan 07

yet she is still so unhappy. She has a young healthy baby girl, she works from home 2-3 hrs/day and raises the child. Her husband has a very high paying job as an engineer and is a good guy. So why does my sister always put my...

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fortysomething To be brief, some people are just not happy no matter what. They always want something more or different. They usually find out that the grass is not always greener on the other side. I think she'll appreciate what she has with age.

2 Jan 07

Does anyone know if Ameriquest is a good reputable company?

lizabeth @lizabeth (666) • United States 1 Jan 07

We are looking into refiancing our house and we have talked to Ameriquest. Has anyone had any type of experience with them? If so would you recommend them? Thanks for any input on this.

house mortages

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fortysomething We had a mortgage with Ameriquest and didn't care for them. If we were 1 day late but still within the grace period, they would "hound" us. Also, they didn't offer the best rate.

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Does YOUR husband work a car dealership??

fortysomething @fortysomething (20) • United States 30 Dec 06

I'd like to know if any wives here have a husband who is in the car business? My husband works for a large car dealership and works crazy hours. It really does put a strain on our relationship. When he gets home from work, he's...

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Psychic Vampires - Are you a victim?

ashiflett @ashiflett (1045) • United States 25 Dec 06

Many people may have never heard of the term "Psychic Vampires", but it is a relatively easy concept to understand. A Psychic Vampire is a person that tends to drain the energy from another person. These people often make us feel...

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fortysomething I'm so glad I now know the term for this person in my life! Thank you! Yes, that is what she is to a tee--a psychic vampire! Every time I would talk to her on the phone it was nothing but drama and always about HER life and HER problems. She would never let...

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If you could do any job, what would you do?

girlwithapen @girlwithapen (72) • United States 20 Sep 06

I think I'd like to be in advertising... what would you do?

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fortysomething I would be an exotic animal trainer! I used to want to be a marine biologist and train dolphins at Marine World, but I discovered I don't like not knowing what's beneath me in the ocean and I don't like scuba diving; so that would've been a disaster! I would...

28 Dec 06

If you knew your child would be born gay, would you have an abortion?

Pigglies @Pigglies (9329) • United States 27 Dec 06

We were talking about this at work today. Some people are very against homosexuality and didn't want gay children. A couple people actually said they'd have an abortion rather than have the gay child. However, if their child...

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fortysomething If I planned the pregnancy and knew the child was going to be gay I would keep the baby. I'm not so sure about an unwanted pregnancy however...just as if I got raped and became pregnant. I'm pro-choice about abortion. I'm also a liberal that grew up in the...

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Love Me, Leave Me, And Love Me...Again?

jkcounterpuncher @jkcounterpuncher (125) • Philippines 19 Oct 12

When was the last time you've had a serious relationship to someone that you are deeply in love? How did it last? Of course, when you are experiencing happiness, how you wish that it won't last. Being heartbroken is the very least...

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fortysomething When was the last time you've had a serious relationship to someone that you are deeply in love? How did it last? Of course, when you are experiencing happiness, how you wish that it won't last. Being heartbroken is the very least thing that you don't want to...

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Do you agree with the legal drinking age being 21?

emisle @emisle (3822) • Ireland 27 Dec 06

Okay, i don't know if it applies to all states or varies, but in Ireland it's 18. If it was 21 I think a lot of young people would want to die! lol! And plus whether that would apply to the pubs and nightclubs too would also have...

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fortysomething No, I don't agree with it being 21 if you can be 18 to buy cigs or join the military. Just doesn't make sense. Because it is 21, then you shouldn't be able to join the military, vote, or buy cigs until that age! Otherwise, change the drinking age to 18!...

27 Dec 06

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Breast Cancer and Alcohol...

jeepstergirl @jeepstergirl (396) • United States 20 Dec 06

I've been reading lately that alcohol has been shown to contribut to the causes of breast cancer. I just had my tumor removed right before Thanksgiving, and the dr. never told me not to drink any alcohol. Of course, I was never...

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fortysomething I don't know if you are aware of the facts about Marin County, CA and the very high rate of breast cancer as compared to any other area in the U.S. They are still not quite sure why the breast cancer rate is higher, but do contribute it to a higher alcohol...

27 Dec 06

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how to remove the fear which i have

swasti @swasti (1157) • India 26 Dec 06

iam 25yrs old.i hate being alone at home especially at nights...to be frank iam scared of ghosts.i really dont know how to come out of this problem.do ghosts really exsist?? this fear has been there sicne my childhood. iam...

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fortysomething Don't feel bad. I am in my 40's and afraid to be in the dark by myself or even downstairs in my house when my family is upstairs sleeping! My fear comes from a couple of things that happened in my past, however. I just don't think I'll ever NOT be afraid at...

26 Dec 06

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"my-lotiquette"

ashiflett @ashiflett (1045) • United States 26 Dec 06

There are a few things that I have noticed since joining MyLot. First and foremost, I have found that there is not a lot of "my-lotiquette" going around. When I respond to a message, I try to leave a positive rating. The only...

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fortysomething I'm very new to this site, but I try to find discussions that I can leave an honest and detailed response. I wouldn't like if someone only answered my question with one word either. "DO UNTO OTHERS..."

26 Dec 06

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Are Biracial Relationships okay? Or should Whites stay with Whites?

AZmomof3boys @AZmomof3boys (94) • United States 25 Dec 06

Is it okay for a white woman to marry a black man? What about a white man and a black woman? How does it make you feel when you see them? What are your first thoughts? Do you think to yourself "what does she see in him"? Do...

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fortysomething My thought is with any bi-racial couple that I see is the same thought I have with non bi-racial couples. That is....wow...they look happy together; they must be in love. I think bi-racial children are gorgeous!

26 Dec 06

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Married people

leayahri @leayahri (23) • United States 23 Dec 06

If you were married and something happened to your spouse and they went blind would you stay or would you leave?

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fortysomething If my husband went blind, he'd still be the same person that I married and love. I would stand by him most definitely. If he became ill with cancer or got in serious accident and became paralyzed I would still stand by him and pray he would do the same for...

24 Dec 06

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Husbands and Computers

fortysomething @fortysomething (20) • United States 22 Dec 06

Hi all,I have a problem with my husband. I love him dearly, but he is addicted to playing Spades on the computer. He is not gambling with money, but gambling with our marriage! When he gets home from work, I get a short kiss...

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fortysomething I like that idea! Thanks!

22 Dec 06

Husbands and Computers

fortysomething @fortysomething (20) • United States 22 Dec 06

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the way a husband thinks

chiquita1977 @chiquita1977 (1706) • United States 20 Dec 06

okay here is the situation im a stay at home mom with a 2 year old and 8 month old.my husband works outside of the home.when he comes home all he does is sit on his butt and do nothing he expects me to cater to him and serve him...

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fortysomething Unfortunately this seems to be a common complaint among us stay-at-homers! I've worked all my life until I re-married almost 8 years ago. Been a stay-at-homer for 5 years and its the hardest job I've ever done!! I'm serious! My husband works long hours and...

21 Dec 06