Frederick42

@Frederick42 (2024)

Canada • Age 47

Joined myLot 16 years ago

Enjoy Life!

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Are Muslims today the same as Christians were in the Middle Ages????

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 29 Apr 17

Are Muslims today the same as Christians were in the Middle Ages? In the Middle Ages, Christianity held great power. They were ruling countries. Isn't that what is happening in the Muslim world today? In the Middle Ages, how...

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Frederick42 UAE, Kuwait, Oman, Turkey etc.. are Muslim countries and they are quite peaceful. They allow the freedom of religion for all. Yet people seem to have some prejudice and hatred towards muslims. This is a sad things. True there are extremist fanatics among...

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Is it Easier to see the Bad in People rather than the Good????

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 27 Oct 16

Is it easier to see the bad in people rather than the Good? Has religion trained us to do just that????

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Frederick42 It does not matter whether others are good or bad. We can be good to people even if they are bad to us. We cannot say all religions are basically like this, but over the centuries , people in power made it like this. The people in power want to control and...

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What will happen to billions of people who are not chosen by God?

Diana @dya80dya (36773) 17 Jul 21

This question is for believers in the Bible and God. I started to read more about religion and Christianity lately. The Bible teaches us that only a few people will be chosen. What will happen to the rest of the people? Are they...

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Frederick42 Jesus said " The kingdom of God is neither here nor there. It is within you" In other words, heaven is not a geographical place. Hell is also not a geographical place. Both are symbolic. Where does the Bible even say it is the word of God? Only one out...

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Do you Eat to Live or Live to Eat?

bloglog @bloglog (628) • Singapore 18 Jul 17

For some, they have a great passion for food so they will hunt for the best food they may know. For some, they just need to fill their stomach so as to survive. Personally, I will not specially go to the extend of going...

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Frederick42 It is diffcilut to say. Whenever there is scarcity of food, then w feel that we eat to live. But when there is lot of food, especially when that food is yummy, delicious, mouth-watering, then all of us live to eat.

26 Oct 17

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I ate fried pork

Flippish @flippish2014 (870) • Quezon City, Philippines 24 Aug 17

I ate fried pork for dinner. It is delicious. The crispiness of the pork skin is worth it even is a bit expensive. I drank coffee and yakult after.

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Frederick42 I like fried pork very much. Fried pork makes me feel very much happy and feel to taste it more and more.

26 Oct 17

How does one protect themselves and prevent sexual harassment?

Hope @1hopefulman (45120) • Canada 16 Oct 17

What do you do or should do to protect yourself from sexual harassment? On a discussion on the radio, they said: Keep your pants on and your hands to yourself. But is that enough? Can one not sexual harass with words and texts?

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Frederick42 Sexual harassment is a complex issue. The best way to stay away from it to keep ourselves, as much as possible, away from the opposite gender. In spite of it, the sexual harassment that does happen should be dealt with severely in the form of protest.

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What is your favourite way of storing money

lovely @augusta123 (6649) 24 Oct 17

With the constant ways, money disappears from people's account in various banks, hackers hacking accounts online and making away with people earnings and some funny people at home stealing from one's purse, it becomes difficult to...

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Frederick42 Thi is true. It is difficult to store money. I feel it is the best thing to bu som land or property and keep it as investment.

26 Oct 17

suicidal thoughts.Is this normal?

Alfredo Rossi @amadeo (111938) • United States 25 Oct 17

Good afternoon. a touchy subject I know.today was the first time in my life thinking of this. no i am not going to do this.But some reason had thoughts today. I am tired being tired,Injection,blood transfusion etc. Having blood...

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Frederick42 One has to observe thes thoughts with detachment. Then such thoughts will go away. Otherwise, such thoughts , if not observed, will be a very heavy load on us and pressurise on us a lot.

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Best ways to deal with sexual Harassment

lovely @augusta123 (6649) 5 Sep 17

This is a menace that has come to stay.Humans sexually harassing one another.This occurs anywhere possible, church, school, playground, offices, marketplace wherever. If one is sexually harassed, what are the best ways to tackle...

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Frederick42 Very difficult, because sometimes the ofender says that he did not do it deliberately. It happened accidentally. But if the victim goes on keeping quiet, then the harassment could reach great heights, which could even include rape. The best thing is to make...

16 Oct 17

Your piece of advice for a troubled marriage

lovely @augusta123 (6649) 29 Sep 17

What would be your best advice for a friend that is undergoing some problems in his or her marriage.Like having a partner that's not cooperative,doesn't help out in any chores, get home late and behave more like a live- in -lover...

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Frederick42 All these things should be considered before marriage itself. One has to very carefully observe his or her partner; observe very carefully. But before marriage, people are in love an dI have heard love makes people blind. Before marriage, faults cannot be...

16 Oct 17

Young man who are in love with older women

Christina greenlee @Chrisv1 (22) 30 Sep 17

Is it a good or bad thing ? Why do younger men find older women so A tractive ? Is it because we come with more Experience in bed ? lol I just don't get it Also should age really matter when it comes to love ? Just...

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Frederick42 There is nothing bad in it. Just as some younger women feel attracted towards olde men, there are also younger men who feel attracted towards older women. Also, these attractions are not just about sex, but the emotional touch is also there; how friendly the...

16 Oct 17

You gotta have Friends

Alfredo Rossi @amadeo (111938) • United States 16 Oct 17

what is your definition of friends Well I really do not have one . Friends are loyal to one another. You gotta have friends. I would like to hear what is your definition Enjoy Bette Midller.

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Frederick42 The craving for a friend might actually make one friendless. Although it s strange, people often feel friendly attraction towards those who do not have any desire for friends. When one walks with great dignity, when one is full of content and satisfaction and...

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Is Peace on Earth really God's Goal????

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 6 May 17

It seems most people I know pray for world peace. They tell me that is what God wants. I don't see it. Life is the education of God's children. So often that takes adversity, challenges, and interaction to advance the lessons....

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Frederick42 Since God does not even exist, how can he have a goal? Even we human beings do not have agoal in ultimate life. Then why would God, even if assuming he did exist, have agoal? Suppose there realy was a God, why would he create any of us? If he did create us...

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A World without Rules.

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 8 Jul 17

As I see it, life is the education of God's children. As we learn, grow and come to understand, our intelligence will discover the best choices. Evil will no longer be a viable choice simply because it's results are not the...

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Frederick42 Life is not education. Life is a just a meaningless, purposeless activity. We will not even be here for long. Death will wash away all the lessons we learn. Not even one lesson you learn will be of help to you after you die.

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How do you Define God????

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 15 Jul 17

How would you define a God who would create Hell knowing someone would go there? How would you define the Quality of Justice in a God who creates an eternal punishment without the possibility of redemption? I have been told by...

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Frederick42 Since God does not exist, we need not worry about all this. Free will is a big myth in the physical world. Since there are consequences attached , free will is a meaningless and since man is with very limited power, then also free will is emaningless. My...

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What other subjects do you think should be taught in schools

lovely @augusta123 (6649) 6 Oct 17

I think sex education should be included in the curriculum of each classes and be taught according to the level of the children. I don't know if it included now but during my days it wasn't part of my school curriculum. This will...

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Frederick42 In my opinion, mind control- the awareness of it- should be taught in each and every school as soon as the child reaches ten or twelve years of age. The human nind is very restless. It goes on thinking an dthus creates a lot of noise within; so much so, a...

12 Oct 17

Would you love to be immortal

lovely @augusta123 (6649) 6 Oct 17

Sometimes I query about death, why do people have to die.I can remember my mum death and it depresses me alot.Why some young people would die prematurely and it like nothing this sad ever happens. I wish we could live forever.It...

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Frederick42 Rather than being immortal, I wish that each and every person be granted the power and intelligence to understand that death is totally natural There is no need to grieve for anybody that passed away becasuse his passing away i totally natural. If we be...

12 Oct 17

Love is pain?

The Invisible Man @TheInvisibleMan (17597) 11 Oct 17

Correct me if I am wrong: but shouldn't love be something good for us? So, why is it practically associated with the fact that you have to suffer to get it? I mean, the real love (the one who is idealized to be eternal). What is...

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Frederick42 Love is painful only if there is any expectation attached. If we love others without any expectation attached, then love is not at all painful. Moreover, love is not about clinging to the other person and if there is clinging, then love is bound to be painful....

12 Oct 17

Why do you go to church

lovely @augusta123 (6649) 8 Oct 17

Do you go to church? why do you do so.Your response might lead one to Christ because they're a lot of people that don't attend service and I wonder why? So do you go to church?

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Frederick42 I like the church atmosphere. The church atmophre is cool, serene and peaceful. Therefore , I like to sit on the benches of the church. Prayer can be done anywhere because God is prsent everywhere. There is no place where God is not. Wherever we pray, God...

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Could you forgive your partner for cheating ?

Knitting @YesWay (3674) 9 Oct 17

If you found out they had had an affair, but they said it was over now. Could you forgive? What about if the affair had been with a work colleague - so you knew they would still see them every day. Would that make it harder to...

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Frederick42 There is no question of forgiveness because I do not consider it as cheating at all. In my opinion, there is nothing wrong in having an affair with more than on eperson. It is really foolish of human beings to hva emade this system where one man nad on e woman...

10 Oct 17