free_man

@free_man (7330)

United States • Age 63

Joined myLot 15 years ago

Praise God for every moment you have each day

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How much is too much?

VickiA4 @VickiA4 (40) • United States 28 Oct 06

How much nooky is too much? Can you really make yourself sick? Can you really get too tired?

how much is too much

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free_man Hi Vicki. I don't know how much is too much but I have a sister in law that thinks about it 24/7 and does it as often as she can with whom ever will accomadate her. I think it is more then I would want to think about it. If I get it once a week it is enough...

27 Mar 13

If a total stranger asked you for money, would you give it to them?

Karen Waterson @rosekiss (30414) • Eugene, Oregon 5 Mar 13

hi everyone: This question came to my mind when today, leaving Walmart, a man stopped me, and aske me if I could give him some money for bus fare. I told him that I don't keep money on me, but even if i did have any, not sure i...

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free_man Hi Rosekiss. I have been homeless and had to ask strangers for some change but when I did have to ask for help if I said I needed it for food or what ever that is what I got with the money. Who knows this man might have really needed a bus ride to some shelter...

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Would it be better to be kind than to be right, or right than to be kind?

obe212003 @obe212003 (2299) • Philippines 5 Mar 13

This was the phrase my online boss asked me a couple of days ago. It was related to a work request that I think does not exist in the company rules and policy, and based from that, the request was granted as opposed to his other...

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free_man Hi Obe. I do believe you are right it is better to be kind then right. However I know a bunch of people that think they are right about stuff they don't even have a clue as to what really is going on around them. I can't stand a know it all kind of person...

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Friends want me to rent out the basement but not finished yet.

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 2 Mar 13

My close friends have a son who wants to rent the basement in return for fixing it up. The trouble is that it puts me in a bind. I have not finished the basement, it has the frames and is boxed in, and I have the sink, shower...

renting the basement or not

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free_man Hi Suspenseful. Why not rent the basement with the understand that if you rent it his pay will be what he puts into finishing the basement. I have rented many places where if I would buy the paint and paint the place it would come off what I owed for rent. If...

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What is the right choice?

Afunnyman @Afunnyman (55) • Philippines 1 Mar 13

I can say with high degree of confidence that i found the girl that I want to marry. We're together for four years already. Though it isn't too long, I know she's the one. I'm planning on marrying her but I haven't told her about...

family

marriage and responsibility

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free_man Hi Afunnyman and welcome to my lot. If you are sure you love this woman and know in your heart that you want to marry her my best suggestion to you is go for it and ask God in your lives so that you can learn from Gods word how to be a good husband and father...

2 Mar 13

Stop depending on doctors, learn to take care of yourself!

0dickshouse0 @0dickshouse0 (79) • Taiwan 2 Mar 13

The health policy in Taiwan makes here almost paying nothing when you go see a doctor. It is great, and I even think the whole world should follow us; however, our people seem to keep abusing this benefit. When it becomes...

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free_man Hi Odickshouse. I know what you mean people get greedy when things are free . They don't stop and think that it is really costing someone for this free health care. In Massachusetts years ago I broke my ankle and had to go to the doctor to have it fixed they...

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Do you still have trees around you???

ardoy0731 @ardoy0731 (7308) • Philippines 1 Mar 13

While going to work everyday,what I noticed is that there are some parts along the way wherein there are just few trees around that sometimes are just counted by my fingers especially places that is quite near the metro.Due to...

around

place

trees

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free_man Hi Ardoy. You are so right there are people without thinking are cutting down the trees for other use and some cut them down and let them sit and rot on the ground. I thank God we have several trees here on our property. We buy a fruit tree once a year to...

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The Power of Belief!!!!

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 2 Mar 13

Religion teaches that Belief is all important. Is it really??? Beliefs are needed only when all the truth and facts are not known. On the other hand Beliefs can be dangerous when they are valued above truth and facts. Look at the...

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free_man Hi Bird. Oh how so right you are we can be led down the wrong path if we let someone else decide anything for us. People need to all read the bible and if they don't understand then need to pray that God open their eyes and let them see and hear what Gods word...

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Learning Again How to Drive

AQDGVal2013 @Adval2013 (436) 1 Mar 13

I had the chance to try driving (not that serious though) when I was in my secondary school. It gave me a sense of pride that being a young girl I already had my student driver which actually was doctored because I was only...

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free_man Hi Adval and welcome to my lot. First off your not dumber you have just been buffaloed by someone that thinks they are so much better then anyone else and they know more than anyone else. Don't be fooled by that you are smarter then you think God gave you the...

2 Mar 13

Why is friendship so difficult?

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 27 Feb 13

I have had many friendships over the years and I must admit that 90% of them were HORRENDOUS! I'm not blaming it on them only. I definitely have my moments. I never ask anyone to help me without being able to do something for...

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free_man Hi Dloveli. We too feel the same way not many people that we have tried to make friends with here turned out to be a real friend. We have this one woman that is as close a friend as she can be. But she never comes by or calls the only time we hear from her is...

27 Feb 13

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The spring is coming!

elenaliu @elenaliu (149) • China 27 Feb 13

The spring is coming,it means that the rainy season comes soon,oh,I like spring,cuz the world full of singing birds and sweeted-scented flowers.However,I don't like the rainy season,cuz the weather will become humid,all the things...

spring

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free_man Hi Elenaliu and welcome to my lot. I love the spring because it means all the things you said. I love working in our yard and making it look so much better. When we moved into this place the yard had been left undone so long it was a lot of tall weeds and not...

27 Feb 13

Headache

valorieesquilona @valorieesquilona (442) • Philippines 23 Feb 13

Oh, God my head hurts all the time, what to do? i need some help. what do you usually do when your head aches terribly?

headache

health

question and answer

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free_man Hi Valorieesquilona and welcome to my lot. I don't get too many headaches but know when I do they are a doozie. If your headache is really bad you might want to see a doctor. Headaches usually start from the lower back. I used to be massage people for a living...

23 Feb 13

Please Help! I can not stop my hate

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 22 Feb 13

I do not know how much right I have to hate the one who has done so much to me and has stoped all my happiness, has changing my destiny with an unforgivable lie and force me be with him, force me to give birth to child, force me...

hate

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free_man Hi Extremefun4fun and welcome to my lot. In the USA women wouldn't put up with this. I can tell you what I would do if it was my husband I would wait till he had passed out from the drinking tie him up and beat the living day lights out of him. Believe me if...

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What Do You Want To Do?

adforme @adforme (2114) 20 Feb 13

The job market is one in which people not only go to work; they also shop. What kind of job do you want? Do you consider salary, job description, or availability? Maybe a little of everything. There is a lot to consider before one...

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free_man Hi Adforme. I thank God I am retired and really don't have to work in the public anymore. I know that when I was or wasn't looking for a job in the 70's and 80's I never had a problem finding a job I have walked into places of business not looking for a job...

21 Feb 13

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started the day screaming angry

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 20 Feb 13

The helper, who was supposed to come yesterday but only came now did not use her common sense again. You see the last time she was here she left one work unfinished and now a couple of hours after in the house, I...

stupidity

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free_man Hi Cutie. I am so sorry this happened to you but there are just some people you can't explain anything too they seem to just never understand anything. If you found her through an agency tell them how she works or next time she comes to do the work you want...

21 Feb 13

Not happy with the job

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 21 Feb 13

If you start feeling being unhappy and not satisfied with your work, I believe that it is high time to ask yourself whether to quit or to continue working. It can be tough to decide for you have to consider many factors. If you...

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free_man Hi Dorisday. I would never quit a job unless I had one already lined up for me to start right after quitting the job I wasn't happy with. But I have been pretty lucky in every job I ever had I usually got a job that I was happy with. The only reason I quit any...

21 Feb 13

I need your help....

Lovebirds90 @Lovebirds90 (207) • United States 21 Feb 13

Hey..!! Can you help me? Tomorrow is my parent's wedding anniversary and I want to give them a gift but what gift, it is difficult to me to think. You people can help me by giving your idea. I want to give that gift, which they...

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free_man Hi Lovebirds and welcome to my lot. I would give them a nice scented candle or a plant that they could plant outside or in a pot. Giving them a scented candle they can enjoy that during a nice evening by themselves. A plant they can look on for years to come....

21 Feb 13

Drive safely, MyLot

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (160879) • United States 21 Feb 13

and everyone else who got hit by this winter storm. Kansas, where MyLot lives, has finally gotten some moisture, in the form of snow. I am in the middle of Kansas and I have about ten inches on the ground. Other places have a lot...

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free_man Hi GG. Boy your in the wrong place I have been listening to the news all morning and your right it is a good day to stay in. Please let me know that you have made it to and from work safely. We too live in the storm area we live at the bottom of Missouri in...

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