gendomingo

@gendomingo (115)

Philippines • Age 52

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Errors in your life

touchnshine @touchnshine (2821) • India 4 Jul 07

Is it ever too late to go back and improve on your personal mistakes? Is it a question of learning from your past mistakes and be aware of them for future terms? Is it worth going back to the situation where you missed your...

errors

life

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gendomingo i believe that no one is perfect. human as we are, we commit mistakes. life is full of challenges that makes our lives more interesting. would'nt it be a bore if it was'nt? it is from our wrongs that we learn to be right. dont dwell on the pain & the hurt the...

5 Jul 07

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Do you buy your husband/wife/partners clothes for them?

Evacuee @Evacuee (1147) 4 Mar 07

I have never bought my wifes clothes for her except when we were early married and I would buy her some undies for a special treat! She has never bought mine either unless it be a jumper for Xmas or birthday. However my...

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gendomingo yes, my husband does buy me clothes most of the time, even if there is no occasion. he buys whenever he feels & thinks the clothes would suit me well. he has good tastes in clothes. i would buy her clothes too.

4 Mar 07

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white lies

grecychunny26 @grecychunny26 (9482) • Philippines 28 Feb 07

what is the meaning of white lies, is it good or bad. It is helpful or not. give me some situation that by using white lies it leads you to good. i think white lies or lie is bad, that's why it is white. but i think you could give...

good and bad

situation

white lies

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gendomingo i think white are alright because it allows us to be sensitive to other people's feelings in a way that they will not feel offended. we just have to put limitations by not exaggerating things.

2 Mar 07

If you saw someone drop money ..like 100 dollars and they didnt know...

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 1 Mar 07

If you saw someone drop 100 dollars on the ground and they didnt know they dropped it would you return it to them..or would you pick it up and keep it..thinking it's there bad luck and your good luck? I myself would return...

cash

dollars

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gendomingo as a person raised by parents practicing good values, i would definitely give back the money the person dropped even if im broke @ that time & really need it to help cover my finances. my conscience would not allow it. i believe in karma & i believe that good...

2 Mar 07

what would you do when the one u love falls out of love for you?

rb_baguio @rb_baguio (288) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

this might be a devastating situation but it really does happen. so can u guys share ur view on this and how you would deal with it? we might be helping some people here, you know...hehe

break up

love

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gendomingo i guess i have to accept it even though it hurts much. i cannot force myself to someone who no longer love & want me. its having a miserable life if you insists on still having each other on a one-sided affair. you will still be at a loss. i know its a long &...

26 Feb 07

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Would you date your friend's EX???

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 21 Feb 07

I never see myself dating my friend's ex. I would feel awkward about it and I will just spare her my respect on not dating any of her EX.

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gendomingo if you liked her ex then i think it its ok but it is better if you ask your friend first if it is alright with her dating her ex. if your friend would honestly say to you that she has gotten over this ex & they are ok as friends now, im sure she will give you...

21 Feb 07

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Would you move to another country for the one you love???

Starline @Starline (681) • United States 20 Feb 07

I an Swedish and I met the man who was going to be my husband when I was working in New York a summer three years ago. I had never before thought about moving from Sweden, but since we fell in love and decided to get married one...

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gendomingo yes, i would be with the man i truly love wherever he will be. i know it is normal to get homesick during the first few weeks in a new place but you will soon get used to it. he is now your family but you can always get in touch w/ yours back home anytime you...

20 Feb 07

What would you do??

honeybfly83 @honeybfly83 (1021) • United States 29 Dec 06

One of my best friends just got married a few months ago and since then we have all been really good friends (Me, her and her husband) Well, her husband got my email address from someone elses forward and started emailing me from...

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gendomingo i think you should avoid him, ignore him first. if he still persists, better tell your best friend about what her husband had been doing. at least she would be aware.

20 Feb 07

What would you do and how would you feel...

gnhuckie88 @gnhuckie88 (52) • Philippines 19 Feb 07

What would you do and how would you feel if someone tells you that "I'm falling for you and I know it's useless..." I have this friend, she's really a beauty, and actually I'm the one who told her that "I'm falling for her",...

complicated

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gendomingo if i was the girl, i would be flattered & i would admire your courage of being brave enough to say your true feelings. i will still be a good friend to you because you are worth being one. the way you handle your feelings for another but not take advantage of...

20 Feb 07

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Are you a 'Sheep' or do you prefer to follow your own path?

Bizziebod @Bizziebod (3497) 19 Feb 07

I'm amazed these days at the amount of people who believe everything they have read and everything they are told without question! When I were younger and in my old 'goth' the term 'sheep' was given to all the people who followed...

followers

sheep

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gendomingo i'm not really a sheep. it depends if i will be comfortable with whatever it is. but, i prefer to be different from the usual, from the ordinary. i usually go for unconventional things because i'm not at ease w/ crowds who mostly look & do all the same...

19 Feb 07

my boyfriend goes out and doesnt come home

angelbear16434 @angelbear16434 (267) • United States 18 Feb 07

where to start!!! i have been with him for 2 and half years we live together and i do love him alot but he is changing. he goes out alot gets drunk and doesnt come home for 1 to 2 days doesnt call or anything. my family and...

angelbear needs help

brick wall

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gendomingo i know how it feels, its really unfair for you too. i think your friends & family are right. you have to leave him because it seems like he really doesnt care for you at all. i know its painful for you because you still love him & you learned to love his kids...

19 Feb 07

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my boyfriend always tells me what to do

make7upyours @make7upyours (287) • United States 19 Feb 07

like when to go to bed, get off of the computer, don't go on myspace, don't talk on msn... It feels like he is my father and it is getting on my nerves... Is this an unheathy relationship or normal

relationships

unheathy relationships

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gendomingo you think he's annoying, dont you? i think you need to give him a good talk about his attitude because this is never healthy in a relationship. if you truly love & care for each other, you have to trust each other & he has too trust you. show him some...

19 Feb 07

I am feeling guilty and sad. Please help

cultoffury @cultoffury (1283) • India 18 Feb 07

Yesterday, I told some secret about my best friend to some one else, which she came to know. I never thought it was a "secret" and I should not tell it to anyone, if I had, I would never have told. But, then she came and asked me...

betray

friendship

love

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gendomingo you should be thankful that you have a true friend like her who understands instead of being angry about what you did. i hope this instance will be a lesson to you. take good care of the friendship you have with her because she's a rare treasure. just try to...

18 Feb 07

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Where is Mr. Right??

mystic_0318 @mystic_0318 (937) • United States 18 Feb 07

I'm Seperated now for a few months. And I have been kinda looking for Mr.Right but, I don't know where to look? I have talk to men on the net but, all they seem to be interested in one thing ....That is the last thing on my mind....

love

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gendomingo every thing happens for a reason & i believe that god has someone destined for us in our lifetime. you dont need to search for mr. right. he will just come in god's perfect time. you just have to pray & be more patient & things will just fall into place.

18 Feb 07

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How long have you been married or been with your significant other?

shywolf @shywolf (4514) • United States 12 Feb 07

In the spirit of Valentine's Day, I thought that I would post another positive, happy story. This one is about Britain's longest married couple. They say that their secret is to take a little time for romance each day, and I...

britain

longest married couple

love

marriage

relationships

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gendomingo i first knew my husband by name only when i was in the first grade so i was barely 7 years old then but, i first saw him 9 years later & was formally introduced 2 years later on. and after a year of friendship, we went steady for 9 years & got married in 2001....

13 Feb 07

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He wants me to move in. What do you think?

ldynimaway @ldynimaway (704) • United States 12 Feb 07

If you have read my other posts I have mentioned meeting someone that makes me feel like a "teenager" again. We have been going out 3 weeks. He mentioned this weekend that he wants me to move in with him. We have decided to wait...

living together

love

realtionships

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gendomingo for me, three weeks is too short to know the real character of a person. even 3 months isnt enough to get know one or even a year. why not give each other more time to know each other. try to think it over & ask opinions from close friends especially those who...

13 Feb 07

is going out with a friend considered infidelity to a boyfriend?

Autisteek @Autisteek (326) • Philippines 12 Feb 07

I have a male friend who is very funny. I am committed to a guy who is somewhat reserved. My guy & i seldom see each other, and my friend and I see each other more and spend time together more. My boyfriend thinks that I am using...

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gendomingo for me, it is not infidelity since you are open about your true feelings for your friend & for your boyfriend which both parties are aware of. but, i cannot blame your boyfriend if he gets jealous from time to time knowing you are always with your friend. i...

13 Feb 07

How many chances do you give someone?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 11 Feb 07

Reading through a lot of posts here on MyLot, - one thing really strikes me. There seem to be so many women out there who are unhappy, and in unfulfilling marriages or relationships, and yet they still stay with their spouse. Now...

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gendomingo there are varied reasons why women still stick it upr w/ husbands despite of abuse, unhappy marriages. some would say, they will stay for the childrens sake, or they just love their husbands this much & wont mind of the pain & sufferings & others simply dont...

12 Feb 07

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Long Distance Relationships.......Do u believe?

rahuldmhatre @rahuldmhatre (736) • India 11 Feb 07

So i was wondering, what do you guys think of long-distance relationships. Would you get involved in one? Have you had one, was it a success? These are my answers: 1. Would you get involved? No..never..waste of time and money...

long distance relationships

love

relationships

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gendomingo it depends on both parties but it takes a lot of trust & understanding for the relationship to work. if you both truly love each other, nothing is imposible to make it work.

11 Feb 07

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When exposed to temptations, what do you do?

Emerald @chavezrmc (6095) • Philippines 10 Feb 07

Temptations is not only for relationship, it can also be financial matters, an office matters or anything. how can you emerge as winner when tempted?

attitude

relationship

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gendomingo guess, the best thing one can do is think a hundred times about the consequences one gets from the temptation & most importantly pray for guidance & strenght to be away from temptation.

10 Feb 07

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