heleighna

@heleighna (102)

Philippines • Age 38

Joined myLot 11 years ago

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They Seem To Make It Difficult...

Jennifer @LovingMyBabies (85288) • Valdosta, Georgia 2 Jan 13

I have heard that it is VERY difficult to adopt a child. There are a ton of requirements you have to meet and they make it tough. I don't know for sure how tough it really is but I feel like as long as the people have the love in...

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heleighna I've heard about these adoption processes that makes it really difficult to adopt a child.Though i hate that the process takes time, i need to agree that they have to make sure that the Adoptive parents should be capable not only emotionally, physically,...

14 Feb 13

Would you tell your child?

leateagee @leateagee (3667) • China 7 Nov 12

What if you have adopted a baby? You became a good parent. You got the baby when he/she was newly born. You have provided the baby a good home. The baby grew and you have provided a good education. Now, the questions are:...

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heleighna Telling the child the truth is the parents responsibility, though it'll make the child very sad, and the parents as well. But the hidden truth will never make the child a complete person as long as it'll be keep hidden from him forever. The right time? Maybe...

14 Feb 13

on the subject of pre-nuptial agreements

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 22 Nov 12

So if this relationship gets serious enough that we get married, I'm sure I"m going to want a pre-nuptial agreement. Not one of those things where "if he cheats, he gets nothing", because I'm not worried about anything like that...

prenuptial agreement

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heleighna In having a pre-nup to protect your kids, i agree with that. As parents we should definitely make sure that our kids will get most of of our hard earned assets.. Especially if they are not biological kids of your husband. We can't be sure of anything if time...

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why me earning is just few cents?

Koon999Tan @Koon999Tan (681) • Malaysia 13 Feb 13

i did try it to spend 4-5 hours a day on mylot to add value comment, open some discussion but why somehow i not sure why i did only manage to earn just a few cents. i saw some of them earn more than 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 cents a day,...

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heleighna I am new here. So far i am enjoying my experience her in Mylot, though yeah you're right it is not really paying much, but if you will just enjoy the experience you will definitely not feel the pressure of earning more.. My first day i earned 0.14 cents.. and...

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Feeling Blank... :?

maurya83 @maurya83 (923) • India 14 Feb 13

wanted to make some posts on mylot, tried many times from morning but couldn't somehow.. I dont know why i am feeling all blank..have read so many discussions and really wanted to participate but couln't understand what to write....

thinking

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heleighna Yeah sometimes i feel that way too, just blank all the way. This morning i also had the same experience, my brain is just BLANK. Maybe we just need a little inspiration. Have a break.. Have coffee. Maybe go to sleep and dream of something nice. Turn on the...

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My Girlfriend doesn't like my Best Friend

Christoph56 @Christoph56 (1504) • Canada 12 Feb 13

And there is a big problem with it... my best friend is an ex girlfriend of mine. You see, I met my best friend about 5 years ago, online, through a dating site. We dated for a couple months, but even after just a month, things...

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heleighna If only your girlfriend knows how amazing she is in your eyes? I feel that while reading this. Your girlfriend needs more time to understand this situation you two are in. Being jealous is normal especially to us girls, to the fact that your best friend was an...

14 Feb 13

forest gump

prithwis29 @prithwis29 (1) 5 Oct 11

guys a must watch movie........tom hanks at his very best.........watch it to see the different folds of life.the moral.......have faith in yourself n keep life simple

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heleighna I have watched this movie many times already and it's worth watching again and again. It tells a lot about life. Shows that even somebody like Forest can be a really successful person if you will just strive hard enough to achieve your dreams in life. Being a...

14 Feb 13

affordable kiss =)

AR Dianon @dianon_ice14 (461) • Philippines 14 Feb 13

Our company had a mini game. A KISSING BOOTH... Since majority of the employees in our company are females the male employees are the contestants. You can get a kiss for 1 peso = CHEEKS 2 peso = LIPS It's...

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heleighna woooooh, what ta affordable kiss? 2 peso for lips?hehe..Really? maybe they can make it a bit pricey? like 200p for the lips..hehe.. I suggest the contestants must be good looking too.. =)

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Wives are good

leateagee @leateagee (3667) • China 13 Feb 13

. . . at being a wife. Married women are good at pretending they are not tired, not sad, not bored, not angry, not enjoying things. Once a woman gets married or tied up with the "marital" status, they play a good role of...

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heleighna Welcome to the Married world! I agree with you.. most of the married women are like what you have just mentioned.. but unfortunately some are not. Some are not very good in keeping quiet when they're tired, not sad, not bored, not angry, not enjoying things....

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Buying pre-owned books

iluvusabado @iluvusabado (2560) • Philippines 23 Jan 13

I love going to the Book Sale to buy second hand books. There are a lot of good books there if you will really look hard enough. A friend of mine bought a colored biology book there for only P150 (less than $4). It really is a...

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heleighna I love books and yes finding a good book in a book sale is a real treat. Good book with a good price, i call it yummy! Good luck finding a good one! =)

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Besides money, what else you don't want to lend?

youless @youless (112586) • Guangzhou, China 31 Jan 13

Do you have something that you don't want to lend to others besides money? Personally I don't like to lend books to others. Since I may not buy the same books again since some people don't return them for me at last. Although the...

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heleighna Yeah i hate lending books too.. i love collecting music records, and i really hate lending it too. I had this experience before when a schoolmate borrowed one of my collections and after a few weeks when i reminded it to her, she's just like, she doesn't know...

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Hoarders

MoonGypsy @MoonGypsy (4606) • United States 9 Feb 13

i am sitting here watching the tv show, hoarders. now, don't get me wrong. i know these people have some real problems that are psychological. on the other hand, i can't help but thinking that at least 10% of it due to laziness. i...

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heleighna I became interested about this issue when it became a topic in , i am not sure if it was in DISCOVERY CHANNEL or NAT GEO.. and then i realized that i am a hoarder and wasn't aware that it is actually a mental illness. I can be really really lazy a lot of times...

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Old Fashioned Or Right?

robspeakman @robspeakman (1700) 8 Feb 13

I am not one to bring arguments to a public forum... However, I think in this case I want to know if I am old fashioned or right. What is the global viewpoint. I have a 19 year old daughter - She has a boyfriend - And...

boyfriend

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heleighna I salute you as a parent that cares so much to your daughter, some of the parents i know don't even bother to meet the boyfriends of their daughters.for me you are not old fashioned, you are just acting your part as a concern Dad.. And as a boyfriend that...

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I began to think today about why non-professional photographers take pictures.

Barbara Radisavlejvic @bagarad (14283) • Paso Robles, California 12 Dec 12

I know that seems obvious at first, but we take lots of pictures -- at least some people do. Most of us still have unsorted boxes of pictures left from the days before digital photography that have yet to be put into albums. Why...

photo albums

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reasons we take pictures

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heleighna I am not a professional photographer but i really want to learn a lot about photography. Taking photos is one my greatest joys. I've taken a lot of my daughter's photos since she was born and now she's 2, i look back with all all those photos and it makes me...

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silent water runs deep. . .

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 8 Feb 13

As I passed by the HR dept. today, I saw the payroll master and the accountant having an exchange of words. The accountant was just cool, but with a not smiling face, but the payroll master, raising her voice and was so angry!...

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heleighna I also think that, that saying is true.. i also have friends who seems to be very quite but when they're into something.. like being excited,or sometimes when they get really really mad.. they're like urrrrhhh grrrr.ANd just shout all there HATE out!. hehe and...

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Watching cartoons by your kids.

asdomencil @asdomencil (4265) • Philippines 8 Feb 13

My son loves watching looney toons now. It was really fun watching it but I realized that is was showing simple acts of violence. I told my that I found it was not good for kids and she agrees with me because ot was almost hitting...

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heleighna I agree with you, even my husband said that these shows were made for adults or maybe older kids. I once tried to let my 2 year old watch it and she was really laughing while watching it but then she's kinda imitating it as well, that makes it a bit alarming...

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Do you compare yourself to others?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 4 Feb 13

I think that at times it is alright to look to others as role models or for examples of how we can improve ourselves. But I don't think it is a good thing for us to be overly critical of ourselves because we aren't exactly like...

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heleighna i agree with you, having a role model is a perfect idea for improving ourselves but not to the point when we are over attached to our role models, we just want to be as perfect as them. We have our very own uniqueness that we can improve and role models are...

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Baby daddy gone missing

BenterAdede @BenterAdede (77) • Kenya 8 Feb 13

What woudl you do if the father of your child just disappeared into the thin air just to relise months later that he has married another? I am deverstated right now. What will I tell my son when he asks about his father? I really...

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frustration

single mother

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heleighna I can say that you really are in a complicated situation, i hate men who do such things. If i were on your shoes i will just forget about that guy and while your son is still young, keep the sad fact for yourself first and explain things to him when he's old...

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