hgwyneth

@hgwyneth (120)

Philippines • Age 44

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Should we keep helping friends even if some of them don't return favors?

whizkid08 @whizkid08 (715) • India 29 Apr 12

I'm muddled about this issue. I have a few friends whom I help whenever they call for it. However, when I need someone to help, these people are not there for me. The established notion is to go on helping and not expect in...

friends

help

karma

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hgwyneth Whenever you have the chance to show kindness, don't hesitate in doing so. Even if they don't reciprocate there's someone above who will. I believe if we do something good, let's not expect that someone will do the same to us. However, I observe, whenever I do...

8 May 12

its always nice to recieve a message after soooo many years.......

crazzydolphin @crazzydolphin (3636) • United States 8 May 12

sunday i was at my grandmas and i had an old friend send me a message in facebook. we havent talked in about 6 years now. we went thro a lot of things when we were in high school and this friend and i were always there for each...

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hgwyneth Reuniting with friends could be one of the best memory you will treasure. Many years have passed and for sure she learned her lessons already. Teens trouble were just normal. Don't jump into conclusion yet until your reunion. Probably she's improved a lot and...

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Your salary does not determine how good person you are.

Curlann @annierose (21571) • Philippines 5 May 12

Just where you live, what you eat, how healthy you are, how long you live, how healthy your kids are, what school they go to, where you vacation, if you have a vacation, how beautiful your wife is or handsome your husband is but...

good person

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hgwyneth Yes, material things are nothing but a superficial basis in determining one's inner personality. How you behave in every situation, how you treat people, how you perform your human obligations to others and how you live your daily life fulfilling your duty...

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she's wearing my shirt!!!!!

sherlysinguran @sherlysinguran (82) 3 May 12

I have this roommate and later became my friend way back college. She is friendly and funny, i don't have anything against her until one day i found out she was wearing my shirt without my permission and i just kept my self and...

confront

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hgwyneth Well good for you. You were able to converse her in a very diplomatic way. Most of the time, it's the best way to talk to people to make them understand than to let them guess what she made you mad. There's always a good outcome in opening your mind to someone...

4 May 12

My girl friend is angry at me again!

vovandat1988 @vovandat1988 (1121) • Vietnam 3 May 12

Last night, she sent me a message and asked that "Do you love me forever?" I said I love her, but she asked me again, It was 11pm, I was tierd and I wanted go to bed I and said that "i go to bed, good night honey" and you said...

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hgwyneth Your gf just want to feel secure. To make up for it, fill her day with love and the most possible ways. She'll appreciate it and the day will be brighten. Yes, girls are unpredictable. The moment they say I love you, answer I love you more. They want their...

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Do you think it is important to learn the local language when you live abroad?

Porcospino @Porcospino (31366) • Denmark 3 May 12

I know a man from Australia. He was been living in Denmark for more than 20 years, but he doesn't speak Danish and he is not interested in learning it. I once asked him about it and he replied: "The Danes understand English, so...

learn the local language

living abroad

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hgwyneth Well, learning the language of the locals where you reside will make you feel at home if you're a foreigner and more likely, you'll far to be cheated. I will cite two scenarios: My boss is a Korean and living in the Philippines for more than 20 years already....

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no more coffee

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 3 May 12

i did drank coffee yesterday morning with hubby - that was fun..drinking with him in the morning... but then i was a nervous wreck the whole day. I could not understand why this happens to me everytime i drink...

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hgwyneth Hi jazel, don't get me wrong but I think you should see your doctor. I feel the same when I drink coffee I even palpitate so hard. Just last year, I was diagnosed with severe mitral stenosis (damaged mitral valve). I am 31 now and yet I only found out my heart...

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How did we end up like this

Sanitary @Sanitary (3968) • Singapore 27 Apr 12

Relationship between me and my bf has somehow changed over the past month. He's no longer as caring, loving to me. He seems to care more about his personal stuff rather than me. There are times he saw some bruises on my leg due to...

love

sad

taken for granted

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hgwyneth Hi, we'll it's time for you give up on him. He doesn't love you anymore. How can he love you while pushing you away. Or maybe, he has problems that he doesn't like to share with you. He likes to be on his own way now without anybody bothering him.

2 May 12

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I'm officially single once more

success1625 @success1625 (533) • Trinidad And Tobago 1 May 12

Well me and my "boyfriend" of two months and a piece are officially over. Thing is I''m sad but it was expected. When two people have been friends, for as long as we've been I think you should just leave it at that. Life...

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hgwyneth Girlfriend-boyfriend relationship is not meant to last if you're both not meant for each other yet. Somewhere down the road hehehe it's a song which I love hehehe You'll meet someone whom you feel at ease and comfortable despite unfavorable circumstances. When...

2 May 12

My boyfriend won't answer my calls...

Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5644) • Philippines 30 Apr 12

My boyfriend and I don't fight often. And when we do, it doesn't usually take that long. We make up shortly or within a few days. He is at a critical time in his life now being in his final year in college and he is pretty busy....

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hgwyneth Hmmm with your story, I think you should be ready. Your bf is just finding fault in you. Don't call him yet. Just wait for him to realize what's the problem really. If he's not answering your call, he hasn't realized what he has done. If you keep on calling...

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how do you choose your friends?

Curlann @annierose (21571) • Philippines 30 Apr 12

I have so many acquaintances but only few good friends. I am a quiet person that is why I think that is one reason I don't have many friends. How do you choose your friends? I have realized that sometimes it is necessary to...

choosing friends

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hgwyneth Hi, I too have few but genuine friends. During my elementary days, I got one rare friend. Till now we're friends. During high school, I've got lots of them but only few are in my contact since we're from different provinces. During my college days, I've won...

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Civil Service Reviewer for May 27 2012

flyerflyhi @flyerflyhi (97) • Philippines 29 Apr 12

Do anyone know a site downloading a Civil Service Examination 2012 reviewer ? please help..

civil service

examination

philippines

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hgwyneth Hellow, sort of advise...Be familiarize with the national examination. If you happen to pass NSAT, NEAT or anything like that, you'll most probably pass Civil Service Exam. I pass Subprofessional as well as LET and I think I passed because I am familiar with...

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A new baby...

lady Di @lady1993 (27224) • Philippines 29 Apr 12

mas the toddler jealous? A new baby was in the house- just a few days old, and the kid- about 3 years old began acting u.. He would try to hit the baby- I have no idea why.. maybe he wants attention since everyone was tending to...

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hgwyneth Yes lady1993. Most toddlers are jealous. They want to draw attention. If he/she is the apple of the eye then all of a sudden there's another baby to steal away that attention, he/she tends to bully the baby or the other kid. It's just natural. Just show...

30 Apr 12

baby sleep tight

twinkz89 @twinkz89 (29) • Philippines 28 Apr 12

i have a 1yr old baby , can't make her sleep straight at night. how can i make her sleep at night without waken up several times every night. plss help me..thanks

baby

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hgwyneth At that age, babies do have different sleeping habit which change from time to time. don't worry. Check also if the diaper is wet. To keep him/her sleep tight, ensure that you use the quality diaper which is commercially being sold. If that sleeping trouble...

30 Apr 12

Have you ever been robbed while traveling?

TrvlArrngr @TrvlArrngr (4045) • United States 27 Apr 12

This past weekend I was escorting a small group of my employees on a familiarization trip of London. We arrived Saturday afternoon, checked into our hotel and then went on the London Eye and walked to Trafalgar Square for lunch. I...

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hgwyneth It's really a traumatic experience. Instead of enjoying your trip, you did nothing but to see police. I thought London is a safe place to travel around. It's really a nightmare. Anyway, I haven't experience and hopefully it wont happen. I don't know what will...

27 Apr 12

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How do you remove the hatred to someone?

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 24 Apr 12

I'm feeling hated by someone. But, I wanted to relieve my hate. Because, the person I hate is my own brother. How do you remove the hatred to someone?

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hgwyneth Start to forgive him for the cause of your hatred. Unless you forgive him, you'll never have that peace. I know its difficult but since you wanna be at peace, start to accept him for what he is. By accepting him for his shortcomings, faults and wrongdoings,...

25 Apr 12

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are you a Filipino?

khitkhat @khitkhat (373) • Philippines 25 Jan 07

hey!! i've just noticed that there are so many filipinos here..=) if you are a Filipino, post na dito!! let's get to know one another!!=)

people

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hgwyneth hi khitkhat, 'm from taguig. I'm a member here since 2008 but I'm not that active hehe. I'm just here once in a while...Happy to be in mylot hehe

24 Apr 12

If You Were In My Place.

shekinahmia @shekinahmia (233) • Philippines 22 Apr 12

I met a girl during my first year at college. She instantly became one of my close friends, and eventually, my best friend. We were together through thick and thin. Then I got a boyfriend. All the time, she was being really close...

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hgwyneth Hi Shekinahmia, If you're not comfortable rekindling the friendship yet, don't force yourself. Give yourself enough time. My story is similar. My bestfriend got pregnant by my exbf. That time, my ex & I have no closure yet. I was just giving him the space...

23 Apr 12

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Do ugly babies deserve love too?

samson1 @samson1 (738) • Jamaica 29 Feb 12

Two years ago, I had the weird occassion of meeting a wonderful couple (a handsome man and his beautiful wife) who had to deal with their dilemma: the birth of their child, an ugly girl child. As time progress elapsed, this child...

deserve love too

uglier than at birth

ugly babies

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hgwyneth It's new to me because I know, most parents especially mothers see their children as lovely daughters and sons whatever they appearance. As a mother, I always see my daughter as lovely as she is despite her stubbornness, despite her flat nose, despite her...

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Would you ever take back your boyfriend or husband who has cheated on you?

chloe1055 @chloe1055 (21) • Philippines 21 Mar 12

I was reading a book that said that it's normal for a guy to cheat on you. Would you ever take him back if ever that happens? For me, I don' think I will take him back. I don't think I can do that. How about you guys?

boyfriend

cheater

relationships

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hgwyneth If only your boyfriend, don't take him back because if he cheated on you once, he'll do it twice, thrice or again and again. There are lot's of better guys who'll be more careful about girls feelings. My friend once said, if he really loved you, he didn't hurt...

22 Mar 12