himalaya

@himalaya (39)

India • Age 50

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how would u react after break up

artisweety @artisweety (411) • India 10 Dec 06

how u react after a BREAK UP?? i often wonder how i would react if i had 2 hear frm da person i love 'ITS OVER"..... mmm u tell me how wud U react???? did you ever break up? My philo. is 'when u part u part with a smile'...

wht would u do after break up

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himalaya yes, its very hard to do it, and much harder to accept it, when not you but someone else is part of the decision makng and you being on the receiving end! But whichever the way you see it, its hard thing to do unto others, and so have it done to you.And no...

11 Dec 06

Do you lend money to family or friends?

frugalmoneymanager @frugalmoneymanager (113) • United States 10 Dec 06

I loaned my brother $200. Over 2 years has passed and I've only gotten $160 back. The worst part of loaning the money wasn't not being paid back, it was the way it changed our relationship. Once he got the money, he seemed to...

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himalaya hey man!...atleast i knwo im not the only one facing this problem. You are absolutely right about this, i mean, the way after you lend your money to someone, he/she changes. Now, I just call it, lose your money, and lose the people! Not giving is a much...

11 Dec 06

Food cooked in microwave is harmful for health..

blueberry @blueberry (99) • India 8 Dec 06

1). Continually eating food processed from a microwave oven causes long term - permanent - brain damage by "shorting out" electrical impulses in the brain [de-polarizing or de-magnetizing the brain tissue]. 2). The human...

food

subliminal

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himalaya Thank god! i could never bring myself to buy one, because i never believed in electronically cooked food. FOr me, the conventional gas-heat is good enough. Now you have given me so many more reasons to tell my friends who dont believe me.

8 Dec 06

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Life Insurance.... Do we really need it? I have the answer now.

acosjo @acosjo (1903) • Canada 7 Dec 06

Yes we do. Why? I used to think life insurance was stupid until someone showed me what it's function really is and how it financially makes sense. People think it is a way to make your loved ones rich if you pass away. But...

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himalaya Absolutely right. There is no way in which we can ever make up for the loss of our life, or that of our dear ones. But we always want to see our family, wife, children safe and secure even when we are gone! More so, life insurace with all their variety of...

8 Dec 06

If you could go back in time, would you change anything?

tumbleweed1990 @tumbleweed1990 (827) • United States 7 Dec 06

What would you change if you could go back in time? I think I would change the way I raised my kids, and I think I would have gone on to college, and maybe gotten married when I was older and more stable. Just for the...

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himalaya My dreams, my relationships! wud have followed my dreams more earnestly, sincerely. and would have put more thought on maintaining relationships...that have withered with time. Proper care would have nourished them. These are the two most important things i...

8 Dec 06

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What happens to your children if you left this earth tomorrow....

Krysha @Krysha (48) • United States 7 Dec 06

This is a horrible discussion but honestly its one that bothers me daily. Not that I harbor fears that I'm going to die - nor that I want to !!! It just worries me that I honestly don't have enough close friends - nor one...

children

grandchildren

parents

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himalaya you are right! its such a ghastly and horrible vision that my hair stood at its end as soon as i read this. i mean, though we may be financially sound, but even then, little children ( for those who have them lil ) need care, attention, love, upbringing .... a...

8 Dec 06

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Does pain always go hand in hand with love?

charish @charish (16) • Philippines 7 Dec 06

A lot of people say that if you have decided to love someone and engage into an intimate relationship with that person, you should always be ready to get hurt...They always say that loving someone, is letting yourself be...

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himalaya You've put it up beautifully - charish! Everyone among us has gone through this experiences or more in life, and we have all dealt with them in varous ways. For such an intense feeling such as love, you can expect there to be an intense response - hurt,...

8 Dec 06

How well do other work-at-home programs work??

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 7 Dec 06

I've started quite a few this week...even paid $50 for one and I've had some good luck with them and some bad....I have 9 kids, so it's EXTREMELY HARD to work outside the home and need all the help I can get to feed all these...

jobs

money

money making oppurtunities

work

work at home

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himalaya long back...i was very keen on this stuff and i had joined a few programmes and even made a website. But then, of late its all been dead wood. But i guess i would be keen to kick up these things again, so please help me out with genuine programmes...thanks in...

8 Dec 06

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drop the puck

erbear0879 @erbear0879 (134) • United States 13 Sep 09

Well hockey camp officially started yesterday in out town. The family was so excited to watch the players practice. My 2 y/o was in awe when we got into the arena. We find our friends and then decided where to sit. Well, the only...

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himalaya Well hockey camp officially started yesterday in out town. The family was so excited to watch the players practice. My 2 y/o was in awe when we got into the arena. We find our friends and then decided where to sit. Well, the only level you can go on was the...

13 Sep 09

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Is physical contact important in your marriage?

anatildes @anatildes (18) 6 Dec 06

I been try to decide: when you are married for a few years and your partner RARELY touches you, give a “nice” kiss or he(she) looking for dates just once a month or every 2 months, sometimes goes for 3 months… even if you tried...

all interests

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himalaya just as the morning sun, the smell of coffee, the daily newspaper, the sounds that you are used to ( even though they annoy you), and the moods that come and go........ being physical is part of life, part of our sharing and exhibiting our emotions..and hey i...

7 Dec 06

If you were adopted...

fritz_hailey @fritz_hailey (1334) • United States 6 Dec 06

If you found out you were adopted, or that your mother of father was not your biological parent, would it be a big deal to you? Would you try to find your biological parents and if so, why? If so, how much time, money and...

adopted

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himalaya well...i Am an adopted child. I was adopted by my materal uncle when i was four weeks old. And i came to know about this when i was 8 or 9 years old. At that time, i rebelled, and created a lot of fuss. later, as a igrew up, i could see more than just the...

7 Dec 06

Do the younger generation of men today expect to be waited on hand and foot?

emisle @emisle (3822) • Ireland 4 Dec 06

If and when I get married, there is absolutely no way on earth, that my husband is going to get away with doing no housework! My dad helps out around the house, no where near as much as my mum does, but he's a civil engineer and...

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himalaya well...im not married yet, but about to be... and my gf doesnt like to cook! so most of the times i do the cooking and she helps out with other stuff, cleaning, washing etc... I think this modern world is as much about equal oppurtunities as much as equal...

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Need Advice on long term relationship

goldking @goldking (2) • India 4 Dec 06

I have been dating this girl for the past 7 years and we were about to get married. I went out of town of 3 months, during this time she met some new friends who showed her life in a different perspective. Now my girlfriend has...

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himalaya guess the only test for a relationship is time and the intensity of that relationship. If you two are meant for each other, then you will get back to each other. And anyways, she is an independent human being and you should allow her to breathe her space. Who...

5 Dec 06

Marriage

prettylykedrugs @prettylykedrugs (430) • United States 3 Dec 06

I am 18 and I am already engaged. I have been with this man for four years and I have lived with him for two. We have a joint bank account, we have four household incomes (both of us have two jobs) and we both attend the same...

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himalaya You're already living together. You can take the mariage thing a big slowly, all the better for you...this is the age you are growing up fast, and also CHANGING fast...both of you. So stick thru this period and watch/experience each other change. It will be...

4 Dec 06

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How to help my 6yr old

dizneydee @dizneydee (79) • United States 3 Dec 06

Ok I hope that this isn't too long but here goes. For the past 2 years I have not been able to eat solid food. I have gone through tests and they still cannot find the problem. They found out my gallbladder was bad and took that...

children

help

medical

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himalaya sory to hear about all this. in my mind, you need to do several things - ONE - make some kind of a plan for your 6 yr old, in short term, when u have such problem and she is alone, she should have sm caretaking company, a neighbor, friend.... TWO - you...

4 Dec 06

How much Patience do u have???

kumar1977 @kumar1977 (7) • Taiwan 3 Dec 06

Hi all when u come across a situation like a person places a bomb or slaps u for no cause or refuses to pay you back the money what u lend him etc etc...., what will u do in those circumstances??? Becoz when i lend a...

ghandigiri means patience

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himalaya well...normally i have enough patience to last any problem. But i personally think that patience is not always a solution to all situations. sometimes, we are being patient to a situation where the right thing is to respond ( mind you, not react!)to it....

4 Dec 06

Payment for Quality Discussions and Responses

ossie16d @ossie16d (11821) • Australia 1 Dec 06

It is wonderful to see that myLot will now pay extra for those who start quality discussions as well as those who make quality responses. I hope that this means we will not see any more inappropriate 'yes' 'thanks' 'no' responses...

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himalaya well though im new here, just a day old, and havent started earning yet, but i guess this is a welcome move! actually since past day i have been focussing on responding to meaningful discussionsand sending in meaningful replies. so i guess people like me...

1 Dec 06

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cell phone

anna11292 @anna11292 (564) • United States 30 Nov 06

My girls are wanting cell phones. I wonder what is the right age to get them one. they are 13 and 14. I see kids at age 11 with one these days. but I am thinking they are still young. I do give them my cell when they go out with...

cell phone

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himalaya I guess u should give them one, because if you leave their desire unfulfilled, and when they see their friends having one, it would lead to much worse situation..

1 Dec 06

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Toughest interview questions

juliocstryfe @juliocstryfe (2019) • Brazil 30 Nov 06

What doyou guys think of these? 1. Tell me about yourself. 2. What do you know about our organization? 3. Why do you want to work for us? 4. What can you do for us that someone else can't? 5. What do you find most...

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himalaya Very informative discussion. Speially the questions and answers piece is very gud. Personally, the most difficult questions i find are the behavioural ones, about difficult situations, about relationships, attitudes etc.

1 Dec 06

Is the Internet damaging the QUALITY of the written word?

Photos4sale @Photos4sale (352) 30 Nov 06

This question relates to the quality of writing rather than the volume. Do you think that grammar, spelling and the structure of written langauges, in this case English are suffering with the Internet. Those of us who went...

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himalaya Content is nothing without form. and grammar and style is the form of the written expression. And yes, here on the internet, the quality seems to be bad and going for worse. i believe we should do something about it, like the first instant thing is improve...

1 Dec 06