holland1234566

@holland1234566 (50)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Have you ever lied on mylot??

siddharthjeevan @siddharthjeevan (645) • India 30 May 09

Hey guys i joined mylot thinking it was a social networking site and came to know abt the money only after joining. I was quite shocked when a mylotter so blatantly lied on my discussion. His response was picturing him as a 20...

discussion

lies

mylot

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holland1234566 well, i don't lie on mylot, i think it is a place to express our truth feelings. Maybe some one just don't want others know the resonser is female or male, as long as his/her response is from his/her truth feelings and help others, it is fine.

31 May 09

What's your plan for this weekend?

janet8893 @janet8893 (283) • China 15 May 09

Finally the weekend is coming after the long 5 days(or maybe 6 days) of busy work, or hard study. What are you going to do in this valuable weekend to make it most meaningful, most comfortable or most romantic? I sometimes just...

meaningful

tips

weekend

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holland1234566 well, i will stay at home, watching my favorite episodes like prison break, grey's anatomy, desperate housewife~~~i have not catched up with the latest, and i want to watch them during this weekend.

16 May 09

what to do?!

bobinger26 @bobinger26 (15) • United States 15 May 09

I have a situation...now, first of all I would like to start out by saying that I know I got myself into this problem all by myself, so I'm not pointing the finger at anyone. I recently lost my job, and then started working...

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holland1234566 well, one of my friend is suffering from the same situation with you, or even worse than you. He cannot get a job for almost one year, and he has a lot of debets on him, which makes him miserable. First, he just cannot accept the job that he doesn't like. Now,...

16 May 09

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Never lived anywhere else!

blue65packer @blue65packer (11826) • United States 15 May 09

I also know a person who has never moved in his life! He lives in the same house he was born in! The house has been added on a number of times over the years! This person is my 85 year old dad! He was raised on this place which...

one place

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holland1234566 i like to travel around when i am young, but also feel that i will return to the place where i was born after my retirement. The land where a man is born at is always has a magic power to a man.

16 May 09

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What Do You Want To Be When You Were A Kid???

always_natalia @always_natalia (444) • Indonesia 15 May 09

When I was a kid, I want to be a doctor. But later I found out that blood makes me sick :) So I studied social science instead and graduated with Bachelor Degree in Communications. But I still love to read forensic science...

child

dream

goal

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holland1234566 i dreamed to be a math teacher when i was a child, because I loved math very much when i was in primary school. However, i had changed my mind since i was more interested in English when I was in high schood. I chose English as my major in my college and hope...

16 May 09

Am i wrong that i keep my hair long as a girl?

liaoliao1 @liaoliao1 (50) • China 16 May 09

I have long hair ,perhaps 40 cm long,i love my hair ,i do not want to cut it ! i have kept it for 3 years time !but these days ,some classmats an teachers advise me to cut it,they said:long hair is not suitable for man/boy! they...

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holland1234566 i think there is nothing wrong with you to keep your hair long. It is your right. Sometimes it is hard to stick to your own thoughts while people around you are against you. In my opinion, you could tell the true feeling about keeping your fair long to your...

16 May 09

Are you in favour of divorce???

tuyakiki @tuyakiki (3016) • India 15 May 09

Hi Mylotters!! How many of you are in favor of Divorce?? It is really a terrible thing and absolutely the last thing that could happen to a married person. Ending of the marriage is not always easy.It is really a terrible and...

divorce

getting married

people

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holland1234566 i think divorce is hard. And if things are not at the worst situation, i am not in favour of divorce. Marriage means to undertake every possible bad things happen in it. People who are married are accountable for each other. Never feel easy to end a marriage....

16 May 09

Do you read newspaper every day??

arkasen @arkasen (748) • India 15 May 09

Most of us read newspaper, isn't it. But do you read newspaper every day? I know some people who do not leave their bed without reading the headlines in the morning. Do you read newspaper in detail or just take a look of the top...

everyday

newspaper

reading newspaper

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5 people

holland1234566 actually, i seldom read newspaper now, instead, i will read the news on the internet every day. I ususally take a look at the top headlines first, and choose those i am interested in for more details. I feel good to know what is going on outside, and the news...

16 May 09

Are you afraid of growing old?

rakesh284 @rakesh284 (1472) • India 15 May 09

Most people either fear or not fear death. But what about growing old? Are you afraid that you'll one day look in the mirror and see that the youthful face you have once gazed at is replaced by a wrinkled old person? Or the...

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holland1234566 well, sometimes it is not horrible to grow old, but to feel growing old~the moment that you realize that you are growing old, it is horrible, especially when you suddenly see that a wrinkle has laid on your face~To be frank, i am afraid of growing old, but on...

16 May 09

Do you like your body figure now?

ibelle09 @ibelle09 (155) • China 15 May 09

For me, I don't like my figure now. I am becoming fatter and fatter. And I can't fit in the dresses I bought last year. Every friend of mine says I am much fatter than before and need to keep fit. But my husband always tells me...

figure

keep fit

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holland1234566 well, i am also getting on weight and sometimes feel frustrated when i can't put on my former pretty dress. I have bought a treadmill recently recently, and to be frank~ i am also a lazy lady~so i cannot stick to do exercises every day~ my friend tell me that...

16 May 09

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do you know how to use chopsticks?

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 15 May 09

i find it very amazing seeing people who use chopsticks to pick up foods. it's as easy as picking up by fingers for most chinese and japanese people but for me i find it very troublesome. whenever my husband brings me to japanese...

chopsticks

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holland1234566 well, i am good at using chopsticks, because i am a Chinese. I can't use the fork well, because i seldom have the western food. I remember the first time i have the western food, and i used the fork on my left hand~i used to pick up the food with my right...

15 May 09

thinking too much

kendellczopko @kendellczopko (55) • Canada 15 May 09

I am always thinking. I think about how the world was made, one thing always leads to another and I never get my answer. There is the bible way, and the scientific way. Both have no actual real answer. I think about evolution, i...

thinking

thoughts

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holland1234566 i am always thinking about something that has no answers, too. Such as why man will end up with death finally~Is it possible that man could live forever~ is there any ghost in the world? where would man go after death? I couldn't find the answers~

15 May 09

Will she love me in future?

hireshd @hireshd (490) • India 14 May 09

I love a girl and have conveyed my feelings to her. She had a break a few days months back and because of which she thinks love does not exist anymore. I am still waiting for her since last 3 yrs but everytime I convey my feelings...

love

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holland1234566 It's good for you to let her know how you feels. Even she cannot move on now, you could wait for her with your love. Give her some time and good luck with you.

15 May 09

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Are you irritated by narrow minded people?

beki710 @beki710 (949) 14 May 09

I am so easily frustrated by people who have such a narrow view of the world! I hate people that can't see out of the small world that they live in or open up their mind to other views. I know that I'm fairly opinionated but if...

dance

narrow minded

opinions

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holland1234566 I think people should be open-minded, because the world is changing fast. We can't just live in our small world, but to see the big world outside. You can stick to what you believe, but you should also have an attitude for accepting the differences of others....

14 May 09

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Do you really care about lyrics in a song? or just like to listen the molody?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 14 May 09

We all love music, and have a favorite kind of music, and try to listen when we have time or when we really need to listen music. But you really care about the lyrics?I like to listen lyrics, for me is very important to...

music

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holland1234566 I enjoy listenning to the music. First, i will care about the melody, and if the melody sounds great, i will look into its lyric. I think Lyric is very important and it will influence the time of the song's popularity. If the lyric is great, the song will...

14 May 09

Choosing between fastfoods and homecook foods

asherem2 @asherem2 (257) • Thailand 13 May 09

My youngest son loved foods. He is a gourmet of the family. If it tastes good to him - you'll end up having an empty plate. But one of our dilemna is that he also love those in the fast food; especially burgers and fries. Im a...

fastfoods

healthy foods

right choice of foods

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3 people

holland1234566 i think homecook foods is healthier than the fastfoods. However, sometimes if i have no time to cook, i also have fastfood, like burgers and fries, and i hate to admit that they are delicious~ If i have children in the future, i will try my best to do the...

14 May 09

Help

charlenmendoza @charlenmendoza (922) • Philippines 13 May 09

Somebody emailed me from another site, he offered me to join in their group and they said i will earn money, big amount of money but i have to sign up. So i replied and i said, i want to but how will i pay the membership fee or...

friends

money

site

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holland1234566 actually, i don't believe some websites that they declare a big amount of money that you can earn. Be careful to these kind of websites and don't get your credit card information to it. It is dangerous and insecure.

14 May 09

what is your age of first love or marriage?

cindyhxf @cindyhxf (1446) • China 13 May 09

hi lotters,my age of first love is 17 and my marriage age is 24.when i was 17,i thougth many beautiful things in life and my first boyfriend loved me so much.but i didn't love him too much as he loved me.i was too young to love...

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holland1234566 well, my age of first love is 16, and i have not married yet. The first love was sweet and I was grateful to be loved and to love, even i didn't understand what love is fully. We were so happy then. However, reality is reality. We had to be apart~ I understand...

13 May 09

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do you always say I LOVE YOU?

queennee @queennee (186) • Philippines 13 May 09

i can say that im a loving person,but....i dont often say i love you to the people i love.i dont know but its hard for me to utter the words specially if i really mean it.i prefer to show to them that i love them than say the...

i love you

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holland1234566 well, i seldom speak out the words" I love you", either. Yes, Action speaks louder than voice. I agree with you. If you try your best to help your family members and your friends, and they can feel your love. However, between lovers, in my opinion, it is...

13 May 09