iceraynaud

@iceraynaud (26)

Philippines • Age 43

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The Last Girlfriend?

breepeace @breepeace (3014) • Canada 24 Apr 07

I'm reading a book currently called 'The Girlfriend Curse' where the premise is that the heroine, Peg, is always the 'last girlfriend'... ie. Shortly after dumping her, her ex boyfriends meet a woman, fall in love and get married?...

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iceraynaud Hmmm, that's interesting. I've only been the last girlfriend once. My ex got married to the other girl 'coz he got her pregnant but it didn't happen to my other exs though.

24 Apr 07

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Getting Married.. get ready to bear the brunt of your wife's anger.

sukumar794 @sukumar794 (5040) • Thiruvananthapuram, India 24 Apr 07

Life will no more be a play. You have to begin to work seriously in order to build up money resources. Your pre-marital secrets should be buried. If you do not do these - your name becomes a good-for-nothing husband.

good for nothing

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iceraynaud I agree. Better be a responsible and loving husband or else the wife will nag you. But then again it's the husband's responsibility to take care of the family so welcome to the real world guys.

24 Apr 07

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What is the most important thing in marriage?

jc_star10 @jc_star10 (953) • Indonesia 13 Apr 07

I just watched one of korean drama, and I was really captivated by its story. There was one line that I remembered the most and it is keeping me for think about it. I kept think about it and I just can't figure out what the...

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iceraynaud I believe TRUST is the most important thing. If you don't trust your partner there's really no point in getting married. You will always be fighting due to TRUST issues and insecurities. LOVE is also important though for without it you will not be able to...

24 Apr 07

Do you trust your "Gut-feeling"

Marie2473 @Marie2473 (8512) • Sweden 23 Apr 07

Usually when I get that gutfeeling that something is wrong, something usually is and I have in the past few years learned to trust it. I had a feeling that my ex was cheating on me, although everyone else told me he would never...

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iceraynaud I always trust my gut feeling. I also caught my ex bf cheating on me thru my gut feeling. He was the nicest guy alive so nobody ever thought he will cheat on me but I had a gut feeling that he was cheating and I was right. From then on I always trusted my gut...

24 Apr 07

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Can men and women ever really be just friends?

SilPhil @SilPhil (267) • Australia 24 Apr 07

I know my husband would never cheat on me, but this weekend just passed has been the third time someone has accused him of cheating on me. The problem is - women find it easy to confide in him, and become friends with him. This...

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iceraynaud My husband like yours is really close to many women. They find him easy to talk to. Men and women can actually just be friends. As far as I'm concern if you trust your man then you have nothing to worry, but it's possible for a guy to be attracted to someone...

24 Apr 07

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why women so protective of their property(men) when they don't treat them well

laserfred30238 @laserfred30238 (11) • United States 24 Apr 07

I want to know why it is so easy for women to tell their man not to look, not to touch, and not to flirt, when they act as if their man is the furthest thing from their mind(just for show) especially around their friends,...

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iceraynaud I'm not really sure about not treating my man well 'coz I do treat my man well. I am very loyal and honest to my husband that I want the same amount of loyalty and honesty. I'm not really stopping him from admiring other ladies 'coz it's normal but flirting is...

24 Apr 07

how will you care for your someone?

chryss @chryss (658) • Philippines 17 Apr 07

what i mean is how will you show your care to the person you loved?any reply for this topic?its higly appreciated.

care

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iceraynaud I show my husband how much I care for him by being there for him all the time may he be right or wrong. I'm honest to him and my loyalty is with him. I cook for him, take care of all his needs before going to work. Kiss and hug him often although we don't talk...

17 Apr 07

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What do you like about your Mom?

myworld_and_you @myworld_and_you (1223) • Philippines 11 Apr 07

My Mom is the Chairperson in the Commerce Dept at one of the prestigious Universities in the country. She's also handling Banking and Finance classes. She's known as one of the strict professors in the university but that's just...

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iceraynaud I love my mom 'coz she accepts me for who I am. Even if I do wrong she still loves me although she tells me that I've done something wrong. I like that kind of honesty that I can only get that from my mammo.

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Why is my mother like that?

lonely_f16 @lonely_f16 (2146) • Philippines 12 Apr 07

Actually, yesterday my mother and I had a fight again because I went out with my friend. Before that time, I was able to mention to her going to a place with my friend to exercise. I don't know if she forgot but she said I didn't...

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iceraynaud I'm not too sure why your mom is acting that way. As a mom I want my daughter to have as many friends as possible but I want her to choose her friends as well. I want my daughter to stay away from other kids that might influence her to do bad and I believe...

12 Apr 07

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ever LIED TO YOUR PARENTS?

nengs10 @nengs10 (3180) • Philippines 12 Apr 07

What did you lie? What was the reason behind? What happened after? Did they know what you did?

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iceraynaud Yeah I did. It's not really lying it's more of hiding something from them. I got married without their knowledge so when they found out all hell broke lose. They were really disappointed and shocked. I tried to hide it since they don't like my husband and I...

12 Apr 07

living arrangements

gwenmari1029 @gwenmari1029 (1481) • Philippines 10 Apr 07

my husband and i are living with my mother-in-law. she stays in their house alone because most of her children works far from their place. being responsible, as we may seem, we feel that since we are nearer her place and we could...

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iceraynaud I just got married and my husband and I just moved in to our own apartment. We both decided not to stay with in-laws so that we can have privacy and learn to stand on our own two feet.

11 Apr 07

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Why do you love your spouse or partner?

HeavenUnaware @HeavenUnaware (1757) • United States 8 Apr 07

I'd love to know what exactly about your spouse or partner makes you 'love' them. My husband has asked me this in the past and as much as I love him, it's hard for me to put into words WHY I love him. Is it hard for others too? If...

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iceraynaud When you love a person for a reason then it's not love at all, it's just like. I love my husband just because I do and for no other reason.

9 Apr 07

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Do you have a brother(s)? Older or younger?

Bee1955 @Bee1955 (3882) • United States 17 Feb 07

My only brother is 4 1/2 years younger than I and tho he's now a grandfather of 10, he still is a pain in my older sister neck at times - LOL! My brother grew up learning impaired - he had a speech problem early on and also...

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iceraynaud I have a brother who's 4 years younger than I am. I love him dearly. He's an achiever and I've always supported him with his decisions and with his studies. I miss him now that I'm married 'coz I don't get to see him anymore.

9 Apr 07

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NAMES of YOUR SIBLINGS??? brothers and sisters??

nengs10 @nengs10 (3180) • Philippines 6 Apr 07

What are the first names of your brothers and sisters? Where are they now?

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iceraynaud Glicy Dence, Riza Lea, Prime Rose and Dexter, they all live with my parents while I'm living with my husband.

9 Apr 07

so who's your bestfriend among your siblings?

sweetjessa @sweetjessa (234) • Philippines 8 Apr 07

well.... most people find it hard to be friends with their siblings coz they always fight with them. but for me its as easy as 123..

life

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iceraynaud hmmm. i'm closest to my older sister whose 2 years older than me. she understands me better than my other siblings and had always been very supportive. but i love my siblings all the same.

9 Apr 07

Ready made family

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 8 Apr 07

I was talking to my Grandson, he is only 16, yr.old. I want him to fisnish school go to college and get him a nice job. don't have any children untill he is finacially ready. I told him don't have a ready made family. was I...

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iceraynaud I was a single mom myself before I got married to my husband. We had issues with his family and mine simply because my side of the family is scared that he will not be able to support me and my baby financially while his side doesn't like the idea of a ready...

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just got married

vinceiane0220 @vinceiane0220 (119) • Philippines 7 Apr 07

i just got married a month ago we are so inlove with each other, im so afraid that time will come the love will fade...can you give me tips on how to handle a good marriage and to keep the flame of love will continue to burn even...

vince

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iceraynaud i just got married myself. as early as now my hubby and i already made a promise to always talk abot any problems we might have and not hide anything from eac other that will cause resentment. Good luck.

9 Apr 07

My married life is in danger and I need help and suggestions .

samrat16 @samrat16 (2442) • India 8 Apr 07

I am finding difficulty in adjusting with my wife. We have been married for 7 years. We thought we were made for each other. Since last year things are changed. She is an MSc and a house wife. Most of the times we get into...

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iceraynaud Since both your friend and his wife are working it would be best that they share their income. Prioritize all their needs and the bills they have to pay and if there's anything left then they can divide this among their in-laws. Everyone gets a share but not...

9 Apr 07

Why Get Married???

babygurl850406 @babygurl850406 (1322) • United States 9 Apr 07

I know it may sound like a stupid question, but Why do or don't you want to marry? Assuming you have found the right person. Some people just do not want to be tied down in that way, others plunge right into it. Whats your thought...

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iceraynaud I've been asked that same question so many times. I've only been married for more than a month and my friends are wondering why I decided to get married. They think I'm too young for that. One thing I feel I'm on the right age and I'm ready for it. Secondly, I...

9 Apr 07