indybaty

@indybaty (368)

Panama • Age 47

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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Why not keep quiet in public?

sweetyethot @sweetyethot (1737) • China 8 Nov 09

I hate people talking loudly in public.I mean who would ever care about your personal stuff.I feel kind of embarrassed when Im with those who love to talk loudly in the street,on the hotel hallway,or on the train,etc.Its impolite...

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indybaty Hi sweetyethot, by the way, I LOVE POCOYO! Gosh I dressed up my kid like that for a while! Anyway, here is my opinion. When people speak loudly in public you never know what it is for. It is very annoying and disturbing either way when people speak in a...

9 Nov 09

What is your favorite scary movie?

frenzybabe @frenzybabe (92) • Philippines 8 Nov 09

Mine is Shutter. Have you seen it? I kind of not like the type of scary movies Americans create. They are more on gory stuff. Unlike Asian scary movies, they create scary scenes through our deepest fears. Those that are possible...

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indybaty Didnt mean to make it so lengthy but here goes: Hello Frenzy how are you?... Well, I needed to read to make sure that I didnt post before, and unfortunately for me, I love horror and terror. I loved getting spooked and scared in the middle of the night by...

9 Nov 09

Frustrated by attempts to shop on line. Any ideas.

katerina @thea09 (18305) • Greece 8 Nov 09

I expect shopping online is a quick and easy business for most of you but I got frustrated beyond belief in my attempts last night. Being unable to find a suitable warm, cosy 13.5 tog quilt to keep me warm in these cold nights...

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indybaty I only bought something online once. Thank God it got here and it didnt cost me so, but that was because I had a little bit of help from some relatives in the US. that once they got here in Panama they just gave me my purchase. It was a stamping nail art...

9 Nov 09

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waiting for the hangman

jb78000 @jb78000 (15139) 6 Nov 09

this is a tricky one to lay out without offending people. anyway two things first of all – this is not a discussion about whether the death penalty is right or wrong in itself and secondly is not a go at america (this should be...

death row

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indybaty We dont have a death penalty here, there is amnesty here as well for human rights. There are 2 sides of it here. No death penalty applied because the person that commited a crime is in fact human and that life in prison should be enough. Over here, the...

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Have you ever wasted food?

earth2jacq @earth2jacq (1502) • Philippines 6 Nov 09

I have taken my family to dinner last weekend to this Kenny Rogers Roasters diner. When the customers from the other table left I noticed that there were two orders of untouched rice. They just left it there at the table to be...

food

hungry

waste

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indybaty I dont waste food. This is a habit that wasnt brought up on me. This is something I began to do ever since I was 16. Before, when my family were in better times economically, the way that we would eat would be to make big amounts of food and putting them in a...

8 Nov 09

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How Did You Chose your Child's (Children's) names?

dorannmwin @dorannmwin (36392) • United States 4 Nov 09

I've always been interested to know what kind of a process that people go through when naming their children. So if you would, could you please share your story. As for me, I knew long before either of my children were born...

baby names

inspiration

stories

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indybaty I was killing myself trying to look for a nice name online. My husband said not to worry about it. Since we didnt know if it was a boy or a girl at the time, my husband told me just to keep it low. What I didnt know at the time was that he was searching on...

6 Nov 09

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What would be in your thoughts in a journey… alone?

Sreekala @Sreekala (34312) • India 4 Nov 09

Hi friends, Usually I am traveling alone to my office, means I don’t have any friends to accompany me in bus in the morning. Evening may be some friends are there to talk and share jokes etc. There is only 20 minutes travel...

thoughts

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indybaty It depends on the mood Im in. Most of the time all I do is just listen to a given radio station or listen to music in my cellphone. I connect it to a USB cable I have in my car so it can be medium loud. Loud music lets me concentrate on whatever challenge I...

6 Nov 09

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Do you sometimes eat with your fingers, no spoon or fork?

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 4 Nov 09

or you find the idea revolting. I do eat with my fingers. There are some dishes that are best eaten not using spoon and fork. When eating lobster and prawns, I find it enjoyable peeling them with my fingers. This is only when I am...

eating with fingers

spoon and fork

table manners

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indybaty Hi manong! as you say, there are some dishes that you really need to use your fingers and hands to eat. Not to mention that in several cultures to eat with your hands is considered the norm and not to use table ware. I dont know about you, but when Im eating...

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Do you read while walking?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 2 Nov 09

Sometimes, I read newspaper while walking in a public places when it's not really crowded. Other time when I bought a magazine and I can't wait not to take a look what's inside. How about you, do you read anything while walking?

reading

walking

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indybaty No I cant do that. Even if its not crowded you are distracted with the book and someone could rob you at the time or something could fall and you wouldnt tell. I leave the reading for bed or work to help me relax.

3 Nov 09

Ever had a song that expressed how you felt a the moment ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 2 Nov 09

Maybe you were sad ,or you could have been really happy or miserable ,whatever the emotion maybe and BAM !,out of the blue you hear this song and it just speaks to hwo you felt at that moment.Wow you may think someone sent in a...

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indybaty Ive had several moments were Ive felt like that. One time I remember I was really depressed.. and a song by Blind Guardian called Black Chamber, lyrics are very sad.. felt in that same manner. When I was happy at one time, I remember hearing a semi...

3 Nov 09

Nice and Inspiring Story...Must Read it...

Drsunny21 @Drsunny21 (556) • India 2 Nov 09

A little girl had been shopping with her mom in Target.She must have been 6 years old,this beautiful red haired,freckel faced image of innocence.It was pouring outside.The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters,so...

story

writing

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indybaty That is so beautiful. You know, whenever I leave a place... I dont mind getting soaked. Well, I get sick later but when I was a child I use to do the same. I remember my grandmother and I would play out in the rain. In my garden I would just go outside and...

3 Nov 09

Is it true that after getting married after few years..there comes distance ....

rorisricha @rorisricha (732) • India 2 Nov 09

After few years of there married life,having kids will there come distance between wife and husband....does there love for each other become less...why?Do they quarrel more with each other than before...who never used to quarrel.....

life

relationship

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indybaty Having kids or married life is not what makes a distance. I know couples that have been married for years and they are still as in love as they were when they got together. What causes the distance is the couple themselves and nothing else, to blame it on...

3 Nov 09

What Attracts People to You? Your Personality or Looks?

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 2 Nov 09

I have a lot of love for myself, so what I'm about to say isn't an attempt to slap myself in the face. I was never thought of as a irresistible babe or anything like that, but at the same time I wasn't the beast's mother either...

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indybaty Well, this may sound like something ackward coming from a person like me, but Im a bit of a wacko. I dont want people to be attracted to me that much because something always attracts... No, Im not a babe here, just average. If its not my looks, its something...

3 Nov 09

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This one is controversial!Would you eat another human being in order to survive?

Andrew @AndrewFreyne (6281) • United Kingdom 2 Nov 09

I decided to create this discussion and I hope that it really gets people thinking about what they would do in a particular scenario! This sounds really horrible I know but there was a certain group of people that had to do this...

mature content

survival

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indybaty Hello Andrew. I remember watching that movie. No one looses the will to live when we are in such a survival situation. No one. Not even the most depressive suicidal people in the planet... why? because its out of our control and all we would care about is our...

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How much time do you spend at your home ?

Aazam @mdaazam (826) • Indore, India 2 Nov 09

As for me , very few hours . Its like when i wake up at 11 , i take a shower change my clothes and dont even have my breakfast most of the times and get out on my bike any where and return at late 12 or something , i hate my home...

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indybaty 7 hours are for working at night, the rest of the time I spend it at home. I dont mind spending my time at home since I love being home with my son. I mylot for a while but not too much really cause of my son. When husband comes home its the same deal. Go out...

3 Nov 09

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Confused: I thought people want us to respond to their discussions.

katerina @thea09 (18305) • Greece 2 Nov 09

I received an alert that one of my responses had been commented on. The comment read "Will you please stop responding to my discussions." I was under the impression that we could respond anywhere as long as we don't breach...

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indybaty I think that if you as a person that is starting a discussion but you feel that not everyone should state their opinion on, then you should put a disclaimer saying otherwise... I feel that here in mylot you can post and state your opinion on whatever topic...

3 Nov 09

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