jamola

@jamola (17)

United States • Age 41

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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People say they hate lies but get upset when speak truth

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 7 Jul 16

They need to make up their minds. Do prefer to be lied to or do you prefer the truth? I'm not saying honesty should be used as an excuse to be rude and insult people, but when the time calls for it we shouldn't hesitate.

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Why are people criticized for not having children and not wanting them?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 27 Aug 13

I'll try to make this post as short as possible but if not bear with me, but I think they are doing society a big favor for not bringing another screwed-up person in this world due to their abuse and disrespect of the child. I was...

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Do you believe there is a double standard of having abusive parents vs abusive spouses?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 14 Jun 13

If someone has a husband or wife abusing them, people tell them to get away without looking back and save yourself. But when someone has an abusive parent(s) people try to make these excuses and judge them by distancing...

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Why do people think it's OK for parents to verbally abuse their kids?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 6 Mar 13

I'm under the impression that many people, but not all, believe parents have a free pass to treat their kids however they want. As if they are objects, whenever adult children complain about how they don't get along with their...

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jamola I totally agree with you. It makes you reluctant to talk to someone about it. Out of fear they would side with the parents. Thanks to society. It wasn't until 4 years ago when I realized who I really was, because my father was trying to control me.

7 Mar 13

Why do people think it's OK for parents to verbally abuse their kids?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 6 Mar 13

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jamola Finally someone who gets it. Makes me feel good and realize I'm not alone.

6 Mar 13

Why do people think it's OK for parents to verbally abuse their kids?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 6 Mar 13

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Why do people say respect your parents no matter what?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 17 Feb 13

Are you kidding me? Why should you have to respect someone who molests you or gives you black eyes or yells at you and call you nasty names? It seems to me that some people on the internet look for ways to defend parents and make...

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Are you annoyed when people say "your parents just want the best for you"?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 2 Feb 13

I actually take offense to this age old line because I believe it's just another way of saying 'we're trying to tell you what to do' and it comes off as being controlling. Only you know what's best and you are an adult who has the...

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Why is it disrespectful to stand up parents, even as an adult

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 22 Feb 12

This is the reason why society has conditioned people to believe that parents are somehow Godly beings. And that sons and daughters are just possessions or property to control and do whatever they want to do with them. That's just...

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Why can't children grow and develop at their own pace....?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 8 Oct 11

without their parents and others questioning their development. It's also common for teachers to be quick to label and wrongly misplace children in special education, due to a lack of patience or personality type. Some children...

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Is it possible to edit the ownership of a car title?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 26 Sep 11

Such as changing the words from "and" to "or". I live in Virginia so I'm just wondering.

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Why do parents think that everything you do is their business?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 3 Sep 11

I'm not talking about minors, but adults in their 20s and 30s or beyond whose parents think they have the right to know everything, even after you have moved out. It's very troublesome and can cause conflict.

meddling parents

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Does anyone know any affiliate programs that pay you for clicks?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 22 Jun 11

Since you can't make someone purchase anything they should at least offer income from just the clicks.

online income

What do think of parents who beat their adult kids for interracial dating?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 17 Jun 11

I think people who are racist should never be parents to begin with. It makes me really mad when I hear stories about parents beating or even killing their adult kids just for dating a black guy or girl. For example, the movie...

interrracial dating

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Who else feels the pressure to have a college degree?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 20 Jan 10

Why does society say everybody has to have a college degree and make $100 million dollars a year or else. Why can't people just be content with working at a small office or as a cashier in peace without others looking down at...

pressure from society

Is there a scientific explanation as to why unrelated people can look similar?

jamola @jamola (17) • United States 20 Jan 10

I'm talking about people who are not from the same biological parents and is way, way past the 3rd cousin mark. Can different genes determine the same phenotype (facial features) does that explains it?

dna

Do you enjoy being a loner?

xxxmetalettexxx @xxxmetalettexxx (101) • United States 29 Jan 09

Hello mylot loves. I hate being a loner. I have a shy personality and I'm very independent. I hardly have any friends because I never try to make any. I've had someone ask me if I was a mute, out of complete seriousness. I've...

friends

people

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jamola I consider myself a loner as well. Mostly it's by choice due to past experiences. But sometimes it's nice to have occasional interaction with others with similar opinions and beliefs. I don't like how society looks down on people for living this lifestyle, not...

18 Jan 10