jessica4red

@jessica4red (41)

Romania • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

If at first you don't succeed, put yourself up and try again

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what your take on living in together?

geonelynn @geonelynn (369) • Philippines 21 Nov 10

please share your thoughts on couples living in together before marriage. i have a friend whose boyfriend keeps on asking her that they should be together and since both of their parents are conservative, he suggested to...

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jessica4red well, i think your friend should do what her heart tells her. i know it's hard to do something your family doesn't agree with but the thing is, the family will accept everything you do as long as they love you. your life is about your choices, you'll have to...

22 Nov 10

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could you fall in love with a celebrity?

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 22 Nov 10

do you think you could fall in love with a celebrity? is this actually love? what sould you do in this situation ( there are very few chances that you actually meet that person)

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jessica4red i don't think you can fall in love with a celebrity. however, you can fall in love with the person you think this celebrity is. and this is in your head because if you haven't met the person, talked or see it's reactions in different situations, you can't...

22 Nov 10

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could you love two person at the same time?

alina @swissheart (6482) • Romania 22 Nov 10

do you think is possible to love two person at the same time? what would you do in this situation because it's abvious you can't have a relationship with both of them

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jessica4red no, i don't think you can love two persons at the same time. my advice is to leave them both and find one person that is perfect for you. it's obvious that you can't make a choice between them because if you choose one, you'll always live with the impression...

22 Nov 10

she warned me if i did this again she'll leave me

sirfsuraz @sirfsuraz (468) • Nepal 11 Sep 08

I blamed her in something that she never did just in joke. She took it seriously and she was very angry with me. I asked for forgiveness so manytimes but lastly after 2 days of trying she forgiven me and warned me if i continued...

relations

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jessica4red well, i don't think she'll leave you, but you shouldn't do things to her that she doesn't like. i think you should really be careful and thoughtful and try to make her happy. she has forgiven you because she loves and because she knows that you can't finish a...

11 Sep 08

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Good friends

jasaladee @jasaladee (11) • United States 9 Sep 08

I do believe that i am a very good friend and i hear it often enough from my friends as well as people that know my friends and our relationships. Do you think that you are a good friend????? I would like to know what do you look...

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jessica4red i think i am a good friend.i look for loyalty, honesty and kindness in a friend. the thing is that nowadays you rarely find this kind of friends. without bragging, i want to say that i am all these things, but i've been disappointed again and again. where can...

9 Sep 08

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Do you believe in Soul Mates?

MrsRich723 @MrsRich723 (602) • United States 9 Sep 08

I always wondered if this was true or not to have just one person in the whole world born to be your mate and I think it is true. You go through a process of dating, and sometimes marriages, to make it to the one person who...

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jessica4red i do so much believe in soul mates. after some bad relationships i've found him.he truly completes me. i feel so lucky every day to have a guy like him. he loves me and he never fight with me.i'm the one that fights with him :P he always wants to make me happy...

9 Sep 08

favourite person

3cardmonte @3cardmonte (5098) 9 Sep 08

I don't have a favourite person anymore, sadly they died, they were my favourite person in the world because they were good and kind and loving. who is/was your favourite person and why?

favourue

people

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jessica4red my favorite person is my mom. she is my hero! she always loved and took care of me.i have the greatest relationship with her. we talk about anything.even though she's from a totally different generation with different concepts, i must say that the generation...

9 Sep 08

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how do you tell a friend to stop hurting and start healing?

lajaded1 @lajaded1 (96) • United States 9 Sep 08

i have this friend who was in this relationship with a married man for 5 yrs she spent all her time waiting on him she never got to spend holidays,birthdays or any thing special with him not even one night she gave him her...

friends

men

relationships

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jessica4red as a great friend that you seem to be, i think you should tell her that life is short and that she should find someone that really deserves her love. be sure to remind her these things every day.she needs someone to help her let go. in time, she will heal....

9 Sep 08

A funny story I have just come across.....wanted to share with you all!!!

cinderella2007 @cinderella2007 (2662) 9 Sep 08

I have just come across this funny story and thought it would be funny to share with you all!! There was a man who worked all of his life and saved all of his money. He was a real miser when it came to his money. He loved money...

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jessica4red haha! i guess this shows everyone that women are smarter than men! i was so sure that the wife would figure it out. go girls!

9 Sep 08

i have a problem.

ROXYZMOMMY @ROXYZMOMMY (245) • United States 9 Sep 08

ive been with my boyfriend now for a long time we live together and have for a long time. we are thinking about getting married, but there will be no bachlor party!!! why does he think that he is a bachlor? weve been together...

peer pressure

puppet

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jessica4red it's a known fact that guys like to have a little freedom or at least to have the illusion of it. if you won't let him to do something, he'll want that thing more, because this is human nature: we want what we can't get. for sure he loves you and i know that...

9 Sep 08

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What if your boyfriend was a GAY?

markroderick @markroderick (888) • Philippines 8 Sep 08

I've got a friend and i really pity her because she found out that her boyfriend is a gay. But they've been together for years and she just later found out about it. She cried a lot and she's so depressed of what had happened. So...

depressed

gay

love

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jessica4red omg! i tend to think that if my boyfriend was gay i would have noticed it.nevertheless, if i found out something like this i would really get very angry on myself and him.my life would be a lie.and my time spent with him would mean nothing. it's like you wake...

8 Sep 08

forgiving do it come easy for you?

annjilena @annjilena (5618) • United States 8 Sep 08

sometimes its not easy to forgive someone, especially if they have upset you.do we forgive as easy as jesus forgives us.

family

friends relationships

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jessica4red i believe that we can not forgive easily, event though we do it at some time.but we are humans and we have a bad nature that tends to get out if we are angry or upset.some of us, care enough for their own sake as in not to be mean and try to forgive and forget...

8 Sep 08

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do you listen to music while studying?

boemo12 @boemo12 (23) • Malaysia 8 Sep 08

does anyone listen to music while studying(reading or doing homework)what effect does it have?does it motivate you to study more and do always require quite enviroment while studying?

student

studying

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jessica4red i used to listen to music while studying when i was like 14, but after a while i couldn't concentrate enough so i decided to stop.i consider that a quiet environment leaves you alone with your thoughts, so that you can only pay attention to them.

8 Sep 08

brokenhearted

cutieapril @cutieapril (21) • Philippines 8 Sep 08

how do you mend a broken heart? if sumthing s now missing... how do you pick up da pieces?

broken heart

mend a broken heart

relationship

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jessica4red if you want to be able to pick up the pieces, you really need to have closure. you need to realize that it's really over and that you can't do anything else but put everything that reminds you about that relationship in a box and put it away.it is very...

8 Sep 08

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You the judge

witchywillow @witchywillow (266) 8 Sep 08

Have you ever judged someone solely on their appearance and then been surprised by how wrong you were? Have you ever been judged in this way and then later people have come up to you to say how surprised they are that you are not...

you the judge

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jessica4red yes i have and yes i have been. it is said that the first impression always counts. so true. but also, first impressions are almost always wrong. and let's face it, everyone judges everyone. that's how we're made. i think that we should really try to know...

8 Sep 08

all about your love

ashvini_urs @ashvini_urs (415) • India 8 Sep 08

hey i just wanted to know that suppose you need to express your love to some one whom you love a lot and they mean the world to you!!!!how would you do this?????????

love life

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jessica4red there are many ways to express your love. you should always be gentle, nice, caring and also surprises are a big hit. if you're a guy and you want to show your girlfriend how much she means to you, you should like take her to a romantic place and have a...

8 Sep 08

How do you know if it is love or lust?

sharie16 @sharie16 (2212) • Philippines 8 Sep 08

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jessica4red well, i don't think that love without lust can really exist.lust without love does.if you want to know what your feelings about someone are, you should let time decide.love&lust will make your life brighter.if you only feel lust, you will have enough feeling...

8 Sep 08

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If you caught your bestfriend flerting with your boyfrind, how will you react?

CrisDaniel @CrisDaniel (8) • Philippines 8 Sep 08

what would be your reaction if you caught your bestfriend and boyfriend having an affair?

relationship

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jessica4red to be honest, i would be very mad on my best friend, but i would really try to hear her side of the story.of course, after that i would be angry with both of them and i wouldn't talk to them a couple of days so that they can realize if i am important to them...

8 Sep 08

Is it really your obligation to give parts of your income to your family?

CrisDaniel @CrisDaniel (8) • Philippines 8 Sep 08

is it really your obligation that everytime your mom or dad or even your other siblings you give them as they ask you many?

family matters

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jessica4red i believe it is not your obligation to give parts of your income to your family but i think you should do that because your family has spent a lot of time and care and love with you since you were born, so if you can help them with some money, why not? money...

8 Sep 08