Jifrauen

@Jifrauen (24)

United States • Age 38

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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In my part of the world, fall is approaching.

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (160665) • United States 16 Sep 10

I told hubby last night that it must be true, because I suddenly want to make soup. Yesterday I made cheesy broccoli soup with the parts I trimmed from my broccoli for broccoli salad. I also worked on tidying up the crisper...

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Jifrauen I went to a friend's house the other night and we had a bowl of chili. After dinner, she pulled out a pumpkin pie, topped with whipped cream. It was delicious. I knew it was fall. Everytime I bite into pumpkin pie, I get chills. I love the fall, the change,...

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Do you love your family? Do you have a great relationship?

luukimlong2000 @luukimlong2000 (658) • Vietnam 16 Sep 10

I love my family. There are 4 members in my family, My father, mother, my younger sister and me. I think I have a happy family. We all love the others so much, share opinion, help each others, go some where together, we live...

family

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Jifrauen I do love my family. At times are relationships are not as strong as I would like. In my family is my mom, dad, older sister, younger sister and younger brother. As we grow older, we have started to grow closer together because we have our own lives and our...

16 Sep 10

Bit early for Christmas but I have to ask..

babyimp @babyimp (151) • Estonia 16 Sep 10

Does your family buy a Chrstmas tree? Or do you have Christmas without the tree? Personally I like Christmas with a proper tree but I can't but help think about all those trees getting cut down only because of a holiday. It would...

christmas nature

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Jifrauen My family always has a Christmas tree. It is a great tradition for the whole family to go out and pick out a tree. We have had many fond memories at the Christmas tree farm. One year, we even bought a tree with the bulb and roots. After Christmas was over, we...

16 Sep 10

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How can I completely forget my ex-gf...How can I not thinking about her...??

nguyenmlam @nguyenmlam (130) • Thailand 16 Sep 10

It's been nearly a month since the day we broke up... And it seems that there is just me who is really hurt... Cause she is moving on really well, she feels very comfortable, all of these things come from the fact that she does...

forget

let me forget you

think

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Jifrauen I am kinda on the other side of that. My ex seems to still have feelings for me, even though I do not have feelings for him. He told me about these feelings a while ago, but I didn't know what to say. I wasn't going to lie to him and make the situation worse,...

16 Sep 10

child discipline

figurativeme @figurativeme (1089) • Philippines 16 Sep 10

I had this conversatin with my staff today during our lunch break about disciplining children. In our country, spanking and hitting a child is acceptable as a form of discipline and even found to be necessary in teaching children....

to discipline children

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Jifrauen I believe in spanking the child for discipline and training and not out of anger. If you spank out of anger, you are telling the child that violence is ok. What I would advise is that you explain to the child what they did wrong and then follow it with their...

16 Sep 10

Why do people make fun of others when walking down the street?

sauravshrm @sauravshrm (239) • India 16 Sep 10

Why do people find the need to laugh at someone who's just minding their own business walking down the street? I'm talking about snickering, giving dirty looks, whispering and pointing to their friends to laugh too or making sure...

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Jifrauen It is very mean and spiteful. I think people do it to boost their self-esteem as well. It usually results from some insecurity they have in themselves. The think that pointing out other people's flaws and imperfections takes the attention away from their...

16 Sep 10

what is your biggest pet peeve

RobinJ @RobinJ (2501) • Canada 16 Sep 10

I am in a place where I do not like to be. I have been lied to and my biggest pet peeve is people who lie to me. Do they think I am stupid and do not know the difference. Why do people lie about silly and not important things. To...

pet peeves

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Jifrauen I hate being lied to too, but I try not to let that bother me as much. Most of my friends and I have an honest relationship. We are pretty laid back so we don't have reason to lie about the small or big things. We learn to work through most of our problems....

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What TV shows do you like?

Lucky12 @Lucky12 (767) • United States 15 Sep 10

Well I have to say that i do not watch a lot of TV, but I do like some TV shows. I love to laugh and sometimes I would watch stuff that makes me laugh and sometimes cry haha. I would watch shows that give a lot more meaning and...

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Jifrauen I really like watching reality TV. Not that it is really reality, but it is real people doing real life things. I love Amazing Race and Biggest Loser. It puts people in stressful situations and forces their true nature to come out. I don't watch a lot of TV...

16 Sep 10

Do you use MyLot like a Diary?

CoffeeAnyone @CoffeeAnyone (3210) • Canada 16 Sep 10

I was wondering when you post a discussion here at MyLot are your questions personal or not? I have started very few personal discussion. Meaning of course most all my discussion are not about my family, friends or any other...

personal

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Jifrauen I do not use MyLot like a diary. You never know where your information on the internet can be spread or whose eyes are reading it. I do not discuss my personal life in details. I do give my opinions, but don't impress them upon people.

16 Sep 10

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should you go to work if you are sick?

cher913 @cher913 (25782) • Canada 16 Sep 10

lots of companies these days have a policy, if you dont work, you dont get paid so many people i know drag their sick and exhausted body to work just so they can get paid but at what cost to the other employees? will a boss use...

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Jifrauen Please don't go to work if you are sick. (Unless you are not contagious) If you are feeling bad, stay home and rest. I understand that some people really need the money, but if you are not getting the work done well, it is almost a waste of the company's money...

16 Sep 10

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Going Out To Eat-Who Should Pay The Tab?

jujunme @jujunme (2501) • United States 15 Sep 10

When a couple goes out to eat breakfast, lunch or dinner), do you think the guys should "always" pick up the tab? i think "he" should only if he was the one who made the suggestion to go out in the first place. if they both...

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Jifrauen I am all about chivalry. I was just talking to a friend the other day about how in today's culture, chivalry is dead. The whole feminist movement has guys afraid to be gentlemen. Yesterday, I saw a girl scream at a guy for holding a door open for her. She said...

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What would you do with a dress made of duct tape?

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (160665) • United States 15 Sep 10

Evidently duct tape was a category for fair entries at the state fair this year. There were pursed and pants, and even a dress made from duct tape. Not your old fashioned duct tape, mind you, but colorful stuff. I want to know...

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Jifrauen I would just wear it to costume parties or crazy outings. It would always be the topic of discussion and if you are looking to be the crowd center, it would be perfect. You would be know as the girl (or guy) who wore the 'duct tape dress'. Did you see the...

16 Sep 10

I applied for a job!

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 15 Sep 10

I haven't had a job, or even filled out a job application in about 3 years now. I've been saying for awhile that I should get something part time, to help us out financially.. but I always found a reason to put off looking. Like I...

job application

working part time

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Jifrauen Working (even part time) will make you feel productive or like you are accomplishing something. The extra little bit of money is always helpful. There are so many alternatives if you are not sure about working at the gas station. One option is to join one of...

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What you like most in facebook?

ubermensch @ubermensch (136) • Philippines 16 Sep 10

I am a daily internet user. As I surf the net, I usually open my facebook account to see whether I have messages and to see who are online. These two are the primary reasons why I opted to open an account. There is a third but not...

facebook

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Jifrauen I use to be a facebook addict. I would constantly be on. Everytime I would sit down at the computer, I was automatically signing in. Sometimes without even remembering. I use to 'stalk' people. I was always in the 'know' about what people were doing, who was...

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Live-in vs. Marriage

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

Practicality wise, some would say to live together before marriage would let you know and realize if your partner is the right one for you. You'd get to know what kind of person your partner is and vice-versa. You'd both be able...

marriage

partner

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Jifrauen Marriage is sacred. It is a covenant. It is not to be taken lightly. Living together before marriage seems practical, but there is so much more (emotional, physical, spiritual, ect) that goes into it. It is best to get counseling before engagement/marriage. In...

16 Sep 10

Are you always late, or on time?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30184) • Philippines 16 Sep 10

Hello everyone! so.. are you the habitual late.. or are you the kind who is always on time? I just thought maybe we can all share about being late or on time, i have this friend from highschool that ever since that time she is...

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Jifrauen I am always early or on time. I was taught growing up that if you were 5 minutes early, you were on time, if you were on time, you were late. It is also a consideration for other people's time. You are being disrespectful and inconsiderate when you show up...

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Do you buy branded stuff or think that it is better value for money ?

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 15 Sep 10

[i]These days lot of people like to buy branded stuff- be it shoes, travel items, clothes or anything for that matter. Most of these branded items come with a huge price tag . No doubt that the quality is good in most cases but...

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Jifrauen As long as quality isn't sacrificed, I am ok with buying local or non-branded items. I do have a few items that I will spend the extra money on. Toilet paper - I don't buy the cheap stuff, it is rough and thin. It is worth it to me to spend a little more moeny...

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What do you do on weekends.

kartiknaiduk @kartiknaiduk (275) • India 15 Sep 10

Most of the weekends I spend time at home taking rest and lying on the floor like a python. On weekend days I spend my day watching TV, Movies on PC. It is a routine kind of a stuff. But occassionaly, I go on outing with my...

weekends

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Jifrauen I love my weekends. It is a chance to be away from work and do the things I enjoy doing. I have a great job that I love, so Monday's aren't too bad for me (even though I wish my weekends could be longer). I hang out with friends on Friday nights. We usually...

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