jody451r

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United States • Age 73

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hassles with hyphenated first name

jody451r @jody451r (36) • United States 14 Mar 11

My first name is hyphenated. Because programmers for database are lazy in programming I constantly get error messages about using an illegal character when I fill in my name on a form. This is driving me nuts! I know there are...

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How to make extra money from beginner

ndysun @ndysun (5) • Indonesia 1 Sep 07

Hallo every one, I want to make my first extra money online but I doesn't now how to start It. Last month I was attended one of Internet marketer seminar but in that seminar to make money online we must joint the work shop and I...

extra money from scratch

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jody451r I've been trying to earn money on line for several years now. While I've made some, I've certainly not reached a 'living' level so far. The PTR sites seem to be the most reliable. Auto surfing sites seem to exist only to take your money - I've lost...

1 Sep 07

How sunsmart are you?

coffeeshot @coffeeshot (3783) • Australia 17 Jul 07

Do you wear sunscreen everytime you go outside? What about on cloudy days? Do you wear a hat when you're outside? If i'm going out for a walk or to mow the lawn etc I'll wear sunscreen all over, even though I have olive skin. I'm...

have discussion on day to day issues

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jody451r I try to wear sunscreen whenever I'm going to be in the sun for more than a few minutes. My skin is extremely fair and my genetic predisposition makes me a prime candidate for skin cancer. I've had it removed from my face twice so far. Unfortunately, the last...

18 Jul 07

What is your favorite vacation spot?

pooh1623 @pooh1623 (192) • United States 15 Jun 07

Where was your favorite vacation spot as a kid, you know when your parents took you? And where is your favorite vacation spot as an adult? Did you ever like a vacation spot so much that you said that you were going to take your...

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jody451r My favorite vacation spot as a child and still as an adult is our family cottage in the north woods of Wisconsin. I love it there. The scenery is beautiful and the air is clean. I've taken many of my friends there as an adult. I've also taken my nephews there....

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If my kids are wearing nice shirts

4cuteboys @4cuteboys (4099) • United States 15 Jun 07

I take them off if they are eating something messy! lol! My family thinks i am insane, but I pay alot for their clothes, so I think it's wise to do this, especially considering they are all messy. It isn't every time, but usually...

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jody451r You sound like an intelligent, practical person. My youngest sister did the same thing with her boys. The shirts didn't have to be expensive, just something that wasn't stained or looking worn. This was especially true if the meal included spaghetti or a...

16 Jun 07

losing it

jody451r @jody451r (36) • United States 19 Mar 07

How do you know when you are losing it? I live with several family members, one of whom had dementia. She's 82 and has virtually no recall of events from moment to moment. She's also certain, most of the time, that her memory is...

dementai

fibromyalgia

life

memory problemsm dementia

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Do you hold on tight to everyday moments that will someday be special?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 2 Mar 07

Today I had lunch with my dad. No big deal, just lunch, just me and him. BUT... what was so special was that this WAS just an every day thing and a plain ol' lunch at a friends pub. My dad's almost 67 and today I spent over an...

little things in life

memories

moments

special

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jody451r I just finished helping my mother get ready for bed. She'll be 82 next week and has dementia. She used to be a vibrant woman with a great memory and a head for numbers. Now she can't understand her checkbook or remember anything from one minute to the next....

3 Mar 07

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Typewriters- Anyone remember using them? Still using one?

mckenziemom @mckenziemom (522) • United States 13 Feb 07

I recently ran across the very first resume that I typed shortly before graduating from college. I got a bit nostalgia looking at that paper and some other college assignments I had typed on an electric typewriter during my...

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jody451r I remeber a few years ago when I was still working at a local University. One of the student employees had to type a carbonless form. He couldn't find the 'one' on the keyboard and was absolutely astounded when I told him to use the 'small el'. It led to a...

14 Feb 07

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Do you do your dishes in any specific order??

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 3 Feb 07

I was taught to do my dishes like this, first the glasses, then the silverware, then plates, bowls, then pans. Well, I hate washing silverware, so I usually save that till last. So now I do them, glasses, plates, bowls, pans,...

bowls

clean silverware

dishes

order you wash dishes

plates

washing dishes

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jody451r I was taught to do dishes in the same order as you. I believe it was due to having to heat water for doing dishes originally. Now that hot running water is readily available it's not as much of an issue. Glasses and silverware were done before greasy items...

4 Feb 07

What do you think the church should do with priests who have molested?

ShadyGrove @ShadyGrove (996) • United States 27 Jan 07

I am Catholic and have seen several church's close in my area due to poor financial status -- I know that much money has been spent in "pay-offs" to families of children who have been molested by local priests. What do you...

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jody451r I think the priests should face prosecution by the law. The Catholic church seems to have turned a blind eye to the problem for a long time; it is evident that the problem has existed and been ignored or covered up almost everywhere the church is. This...

28 Jan 07

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Punishment for rape

prettypinkbug @prettypinkbug (437) • United States 27 Jan 07

What do you think is the correct punishment for a person who has raped someone? My husband and I don't see eye to eye on this one. What do you guys think? If I were raped, I would want to kill the guy. Should the rapist get the...

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jody451r I don't think the death penalty is appropriate for rape. I think castration would be much more appropriate and would make it much more difficult for the perpetrator to repeat the crime. You could ask your husband how he would feel if he was raped and see if...

28 Jan 07

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Have you ever walked into a room and forgotten why you went there?

patootie @patootie (3592) 23 Jan 07

Today I went into my kitchen at least 3-4 times and then had no idea why I had gone in there .. and I can blame the weather for that ! Hallo, you are thinking, she's gone bonkers hehe ... not really you see the weather does...

coffee

fibro

forgetting

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jody451r Actually, this is not that unusual of an occurence, fibromyalgia or not. I used to work in the office of a printing plant. Frequently people would stand and start to walk towards the art or press areas, stop, look around, grin sheepishly, and walk back to...

24 Jan 07

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giving part of urself

mango_tart55 @mango_tart55 (26) • Philippines 18 Jan 07

it is a full time job loving someone, you give yourself, the whole you, and yet sometimes they fail to reciprocate the love you show to them. it is sometimes unfair to the other party because there is no assurance that your love...

giving your all

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jody451r Giving of yourself and loving someone does not mean it will be returned. All those songs and poems about unrequited love wouldn't exist if it were. Love also exists in caring for others, especially those who cannot take care of themselves, in these cases a...

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noisy neighbors

strawberrymudd @strawberrymudd (330) • United States 13 Jan 07

Do you have really noisy neighbors? How do you deal? I live in an apartment, and my neighbor across the hall is horribly noisy, and when we ask to her to be quiet, she temporarily obliges, but then begins her excessively loud...

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jody451r I had the same problem. I found my collection of music featuring bagpipes solved the problem. Bagpipes always win in a battle over loud music.

14 Jan 07

at what point do you give in? speaking more along the lines of special need kids

kittykatzz @kittykatzz (1132) • United States 13 Jan 07

when do you say "uncle"? i mean persistence is DEFINITELY one of my autistic son's strong points.. although it can fair him to concentrate on some things better and for longer than alot of others (sometimes as long as he has...

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jody451r I probbly would have done the same thing you did. As you said, he wasn't doing it to be a brat, it is a compulsion and not something that a stern talking to would change. I don't know how it could have worked out differently. If you had pushed him on the...

13 Jan 07

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Plagued by Insomnia and need a new approach

funygirl38 @funygirl38 (19) • United States 6 Jan 07

I'm in the process of being diagnosed with Fibromyalgia and as of late, i've been plagued by a bout of insomnia. I rarely take a nap during the day and I know I use the bedroom for other things besides what the experts say to...

fibromyalgia

insomnia

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jody451r I have fibromyalgia and a sleep disorder among other things. Sleep disorders seem to be closely connected with fibromyalgia. The doctor did have me taking amitriptyline to help me sleep through the night; it's a anti-depressant but is also used for sleep...

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Dinner tonight

Tina Dalasinski @Tina30219 (82066) • Onaway, Michigan 12 Dec 16

I am aaiting patiently for dinner tonight we are having steaks on the grill tonjght and bake potatoes and probably salad as well. What's everyone else having for dinner tonight?

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jody451r I am aaiting patiently for dinner tonight we are having steaks on the grill tonjght and bake potatoes and probably salad as well. What's everyone else having for dinner tonight?

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would you be able to commit suicide?

khalid111 @khalid111 (186) 4 Jan 07

i dont know about you but i dont think i would be able to , someone to do something like this must be so dipressed. i have a m8 that cousin just commited suicide by gasing him self out i the garage but wat i dont understand is i...

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jody451r I've known several people who committed suicide. One was mentally ill and delusional, he actually thought he was proving he couldn't be killed. Others were deeply depressed and one had a terminal illness. I don't know that I'd be able to do it myself - I'd...

5 Jan 07

Random Thoughts #1 - Suicide

Ravenladyj @Ravenladyj (22902) • United States 3 Jan 07

"Sometimes you wake up afraid to live"... There are plenty of topics on here about suicide and of course I respond to them because truth be told I'm very passionate about it...it is a very key and personal thing in my...

depression

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jody451r Your honestly and well-thought reasoning struck a chord with me. I've often thought people were sadly mistaken in placing laws against suicide; in placing blame on the person who is suicidal. Mental pain is, of course, a major reason for suicide, but there...

3 Jan 07

Are you for or against capital punishment?

estherlou @estherlou (5015) • United States 1 Jan 07

With all of the news about Saddam Hussein, I found myself a little disquieted over the whole affair. I discovered I probably could not be comfortable in wishing the death penalty on anyone. I feel he deserved his sentence, he...

capital punishment

death penalty

jury trials

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jody451r I used to be firmly against the death penalty. However, serial killers and people like Hussein have changed my mind. I don't beleive in the death penalty for just anyone, I hate the thought of people in prison who have not actually committed the crime for...

2 Jan 07

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